Peaceful Pairs is a calm, neutral space to work through a disagreement: together with someone in your life, or on your own first. An AI mediator named Pace helps each of you feel heard, find what you actually need, and land on a clear agreement you both confirm.
It is built for the conversations you keep putting off: with a partner, a roommate, a family member, or a close friend.
HOW IT WORKS
• Start a conversation and invite the other person with a link or a code. They join from their own phone, free.
• A quick private check-in for each of you, then Pace opens the conversation.
• Each of you shares your side in turn. Pace reflects it back, checks it understood you, and guides the conversation one step at a time to concrete next steps.
• One person speaks at a time, so the louder voice can't take over.
• You both review and confirm any agreement.
OR THINK IT THROUGH ON YOUR OWN
Prepare for a hard conversation before you have it, or decompress after one. Tell Pace what's on your mind and it opens the conversation, asks gentle questions, and helps you find your own words. When you've landed on something concrete, Pace offers to wrap up and writes a short summary you can look back on. Have as many reflections going as you like.
EVERYTHING IN ONE PLACE
Your home screen is one list: conversations in progress, ones waiting on you, and completed ones with their summary and any agreement. The people you've talked with are one tap away for a new conversation, no new invite needed, and a new reflection can build on a past conversation.
WHY IT HELPS
• Pace stays neutral. It won't take sides or tell you who's right.
• It reflects back what it hears and checks that it understood you.
• Blame turns into needs, and the conversation stays on track.
PRIVACY BY DESIGN
• No ads, no trackers, no analytics in the app.
• We don't sell your conversations.
• Each person only sees the conversations they took part in. Solo reflections stay yours alone.
• Delete your account anytime.
FOR SCHOOLS
If your college or university offers Peaceful Pairs, verify your school email in the app to get access.
IF THINGS FEEL UNSAFE
Peaceful Pairs runs an automated safety check and will quietly point you to real human help, including the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline and the National Domestic Violence Hotline.
IMPORTANT
Peaceful Pairs is a communication and relationship-wellness tool. It is not therapy, counseling, or medical care, it is not a substitute for professional help, and conversations are not legally confidential. In an emergency, contact 988 or your local emergency number.
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