The Quo
A love letter, not a checklist
About
This app facilitates private rituals for couples to strengthen their bond. Users set promises and rewards, revealing them upon completion in a unique, intimate ceremony. It serves as a living record of commitment and affection, designed for privacy and focused connection.
What's New in The Quo
1.0.1
July 7, 2026
Fixed an issue that could prevent partners from pairing after accepting an invitation, and made the invitation card in Messages show who it's from.
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FAQ
What is The Quo?
The Quo is a private ritual app designed for couples to exchange promises and rewards. It focuses on creating intimate ceremonies and a lasting record of commitment.
How does The Quo work?
One partner writes three promises, and the other secretly seals three rewards with a five-word hint. Rewards are revealed when promises are kept and confirmed, with roles then swapping.
Is The Quo private?
Yes, The Quo is designed for privacy. It uses Sign in with Apple and stores all data in your iCloud, shared only between the two of you. The developers cannot access your promises.
Does The Quo have ads?
No, The Quo is ad-free. The app is designed to be a quiet and private experience, free from distractions.
What devices does The Quo support?
Currently, The Quo is supported on iPhone devices.
What is the age rating for The Quo?
The Quo has an age rating of 12+, making it suitable for teenagers and adults.
How often is The Quo updated?
The Quo was last updated on July 7, 2026, with version 1.0.1. Future updates will likely continue to refine the experience.
Can I see my past rewards in The Quo?
Yes, The Quo features 'The Vault,' where every reward you've earned is kept like a deck of cards, and 'The Story,' a timeline of finished chapters you can reread.