Valence: Breakup & No Contact

Valence is not another "count the days" app. No generic quotes. No empty streaks. No one-size-fits-all advice. It is a psychological recovery system — built around one truth most people miss: your silence is the most powerful move you have, and your ex is going through predictable stages while you stay quiet. WHY SILENCE IS A STRATEGY Most breakup apps count days. Valence shows you what those days are doing — to you AND to your ex. As you progress through your recovery phases, the app maps your ex's likely psychological journey in parallel: from Relief to Curiosity to Doubt to Regret. You see exactly where both of you are, and why breaking no contact right now would reset everything. 3 AI COACHES THAT LEARN YOUR STORY A 60-second quiz analyzes your situation and matches you with the coach you need right now — and you can switch anytime: The Stabilizer: Calm, grounding support when you are overwhelmed. The Strategist: Tactical guidance on power dynamics and why your ex just liked your story at 1am. The Rebuilder: Forward-focused energy. The ex is irrelevant — who are you becoming? Each coach knows your day count, stability score, risk patterns, and mood history. Every response is specific to YOUR situation. RISK MAP Log what happened — a trigger, an urge, a moment of weakness — in 30 seconds. The app builds a personal heatmap of when you are most likely to break. It detects your cycle: peak risk window, dominant emotion, and whether you are getting stronger each week. MOOD TREND DETECTION After each check-in, Valence scans your last 7 days for patterns — no AI needed. Same mood 3 days straight? A sudden calm after chaos? The app catches it and tells you why. WEEKLY AI REPORT Stability trends, mood patterns, urge levels, breach analysis, and a personalized strategy from your coach — six sections, week-over-week comparison, built from your data whenever you are ready. DAILY CHECK-IN Check in with your mood, complete personalized micro-actions, and close the day with a debrief. The system adapts to how you actually feel. RECOVERY TIMELINE See your healing phases alongside your ex's psychological journey. Understand why Day 14 feels impossible, why Day 30 is a turning point, and why Day 60+ is where the real shift happens. THE VAULT Journal with AI-powered insights. Voice memos with transcription and analysis. Future letters to your healed self. Reason Wall — why it ended, in your own words. SOS MODE Guided breathing, your personal reasons, and immediate access to your AI coach. Built for 2am. KNOWLEDGE LIBRARY 31 evidence-based articles on attachment science, no-contact psychology, rebound dynamics, and identity rebuilding. PUSH NOTIFICATIONS Check-in reminders, streak milestones, comeback nudges, and coach messages. Valence stays with you even when the app is closed. XP & RANK SYSTEM Every action earns XP. Longer streaks multiply progress. Rise through 12 ranks. Consistency unlocks bonus AI credits. FREE & PREMIUM Free: 3 AI credits per week + bonus credits through XP. Full access to all tools, tracking, and articles. Premium: 3-day free trial. Full AI coaching, weekly reports, voice analysis, and advanced insights. Lifetime: one-time purchase, permanent access. Subscriptions auto-renew unless canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. PRIVACY FIRST Your data is yours. AI processed by Google Gemini via Cloudflare Workers — no AI inputs stored. No account required. No tracking. No ads. Available in English and Turkish. Your silence is not passive. It is the strategy. Valence gives you the system to make it work. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/