Valence: What's My Ex Thinking
AI Coach to Decode Your Ex
About
This app provides a psychological recovery system for breakups, focusing on the power of no contact. It maps your ex's predictable stages of regret alongside your own healing phases, offering AI-driven guidance and personalized strategies.
What's New in Valence
3.1.3
October 23, 2026
• Talk to the Strategist first? You now get your personal reading right after your first chat. • Tap today's move on the home screen and the Strategist walks you through it. • Gentle check-ins if you've been away for a couple of days. • Smarter, more honest coach replies. • Bug fixes and performance improvements.
MoreSubscriptions & In-App Purchases
Valence Premium — Weekly
Full access to your coach & every tool.
FAQ
What is Valence?
Valence is a psychological recovery system designed to help users navigate breakups and the no-contact period. It offers AI coaches, risk mapping, and insights into both your and your ex's likely emotional journey.
How does Valence help with no contact?
Valence emphasizes silence as a powerful strategy. It shows you what your ex is likely experiencing during no contact, from relief to regret, helping you understand the impact of your silence and avoid resetting progress.
What are the AI coaches in Valence?
Valence offers three AI coaches: The Stabilizer for overwhelming moments, The Strategist for power dynamics, and The Rebuilder for forward-focused growth. Each coach provides personalized guidance based on your specific situation.
How does Valence track my progress?
Valence uses daily check-ins to track your mood, micro-actions, and debriefs. It analyzes your last 7 days for patterns, detects your risk windows, and provides weekly AI reports on your stability and mood trends.
Does Valence have ads?
No, Valence does not contain advertisements. The app is free to use with optional premium subscription plans for enhanced features.
What are the subscription options for Valence?
Valence offers premium subscriptions with a 3-day free trial. Options include weekly at $4.99, monthly at $9.99, and yearly at $39.99, providing access to all features.
Is Valence suitable for younger users?
Valence has an age rating of 12+, making it suitable for teenagers and older individuals dealing with relationship challenges. The content focuses on psychological recovery and self-improvement.
How often is Valence updated?
The latest version of Valence is 2.3.0, last updated on August 8, 2026. This indicates regular updates to improve features and user experience.
