YouAndMe.chat vs DateByOrder
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
YouAndMe.chat
Connect with new people instantly through anonymous chat. Discover friends with shared interests using a topic cloud and send photos or stickers. Enhance your experience by becoming a VIP for exclusive interactions.
- Anonymous chatting
- Free to use
- Send photos and stickers
- Topic cloud for interest matching
- VIP promotion
- Contact list and private messaging
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Official app of YouAndMe.chat, a popular anonymous chatting service, also known as ChatVdvoem. Here you can find new friends in a matter of seconds. Features: • Chat anonymously and for free (sign-up is not required), send photos & stickers • Use the topic cloud to find people who share your interest — match with existing topics or create your own • Promote yourself by becoming a VIP and chat with other VIP users • Add friends to your contact list and send private messages
DateByOrder
Discover and join local events to meet new people in real life. Skip endless swiping and connect through shared activities like dinners and concerts. Plan one-on-one dates or group gatherings.
- Discover curated local events
- RSVP and book tickets
- Send invites to connect
- Chat to coordinate plans
- Create your own events (Gold)
- Join group events or plan 1:1 dates
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DateByOrder is the event-first way to meet people in real life. Skip the endless swipe—find local plans, send invites, and connect at dinners, concerts, and activities. WHAT YOU CAN DO • Discover local events curated for meeting new people • RSVP or book tickets right in the app • Send invites to people you’d like to meet • Chat to coordinate plans and meet in person • Create your own events (Gold) and grow your circle WHY IT WORKS • Real experiences: meet at public venues with shared interests • Less small talk: start with an activity, not a cold DM • Local by design: see who’s going to what—near you, tonight or this weekend • Flexible: join group events or plan 1:1 dates
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Verdict
The clearest difference is review sentiment: DateByOrder at 100% against YouAndMe.chat's 24%. DateByOrder also leads on rating (5.0 vs 2.8). YouAndMe.chat's advantage is ratings volume (41 vs 2) and iOS requirement (15.0 vs 17.6). On price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. YouAndMe.chat sells 4 one-off in-app purchases and DateByOrder sells 4 in-app purchases, starting at $9.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
DateByOrder holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 2.8. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: YouAndMe.chat has 41 ratings behind it against 2, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 24% of YouAndMe.chat's written reviews are positive against 100% of DateByOrder's.
YouAndMe.chat ships an update every 3 weeks, DateByOrder every 10 days. The most recent releases landed on October 26, 2026 and October 16, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | YouAndMe.chat | DateByOrder |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 2.8 (41 ratings) | 5.0 (2 ratings) — better |
| Positive reviews | 23.6% of reviews | 100.0% of reviews — better |
| Number of ratings | 41 — better | 2 |
| Update frequency | Every 3 weeks | Every 10 days — better |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | Freemium |
| Devices | iPhone, iPad, iPod — better | iPhone, iPad |
| Requires iOS | 15.0 — better | 17.6 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 9 MB | 61 MB |
| Age rating | 12+ | 17+ |
| Developer | Dmitry Yastrebov | Date By Order LLC |
Customer experience
YouAndMe.chat
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In-app purchases
YouAndMe.chat
- 150 credits$1.99
- 300 credits$2.99
- 1000 credits$7.99
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- 5000 credits$34.99
DateByOrder
- Silver Monthly$9.991 Month
- Gold Monthly$14.991 Month
- Gold Semi-Annual$79.996 Months
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- Gold Annual$144.991 Year
