Comparison

Help me decide between vs Debatium

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Help me decide between

This app assists users in making choices by randomly selecting from a list of options they provide. Simply input your choices, tap 'decide,' and let the app pick your answer. It's designed for fun at parties and to simplify everyday decision-making.

Highlights
  • Enter multiple options
  • Random selection of choice
  • Simple and intuitive interface
  • Useful for parties
  • Supports iPhone and iPad
Features
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Are you having hard time making decisions? "Help me decide between" will help you make those decisions. How does it work? You enter all the options you have available. When you press decide then "Help me decide between will pick your answer. *** True story *** And Olga asked... Can you make Help me decide between for OS X work on an iPhone? It would be so much fun at a party. And so we did for everyone to enjoy.

About

Debatium

This app offers daily questions and shared activities to foster connection and communication between couples. It helps partners learn more about each other through engaging prompts and features designed to strengthen their bond, regardless of distance. The app aims to be a consistent ritual for couples to stay close.

Highlights
  • Daily questions for couples
  • Shared drawing canvas
  • Photo sharing
  • Plan dates and important dates
  • Distance tracker (approximate)
  • Home screen widgets
  • Send virtual kisses
Features
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Joined by over a million couples. Debatium is the daily ritual that keeps you close, together, wherever you are. Couples don’t drift apart overnight. They just stop talking, one day at a time. Debatium is the small habit that keeps your connection alive: two people, two phones, one shared space. Every day there’s a new question waiting. You each answer on your own, then reveal what your partner said. It takes a minute. EVERYTHING YOU SHARE • Daily question: one a day, answers hidden until you both reply. • Your streak: keep it going day after day and watch it grow. • Shared drawing: one canvas you fill in together. • Photo of the day: share a moment and it lands on your partner’s home screen. • Kiss: send a kiss that pops up live on their phone. • Your dates: plan your next outings and time together. • Important dates: your anniversary, your firsts, everything that matters. • Distance: see how far apart you are, without ever sharing your exact location. • Widgets: your relationship on your home screen, one glance away. FOR EVERY COUPLE Whether you live together or miles apart, three months in or ten years strong, Debatium fits your story. No lessons, no pressure. Just a little care, every day. BUILT TO LAST Debatium isn’t a one-night app. It’s a habit for two, made to nurture your relationship week after week. The more you come back, the more you learn about each other. FAIR, AND AD-FREE No ads. The daily question is free. And Premium is shared: the moment one of you upgrades, the other gets it too. No double payment. Download Debatium, invite your partner, and answer your first question today. Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://lesignobles.com/projects/debatium/privacy/

Screenshots

Help me decide between3 screens
Debatium4 screens

Verdict

The call

Help me decide between and Debatium both sit at 4.5 stars, but that hides the real split: 67% of Help me decide between's written reviews are positive against 20% of Debatium's. Help me decide between also leads on in-app purchases (none vs 10) and device support (3 vs 1). Debatium's advantage is ads (none vs shown) and update cadence (every 2 days vs every 3 months). On price and rating there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Debatium sells 9 in-app purchases, starting at $3.99 per 7 days. Help me decide between asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

On the App Store both sit at effectively the same score — 4.5 for Help me decide between against 4.6 for Debatium. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 47 and 230 respectively. Written reviews are what separate them: 67% of Help me decide between's written reviews are positive against 20% of Debatium's.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Help me decide between ships an update every 3 months, Debatium every 2 days. The most recent releases landed on November 2, 2026 and November 3, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard8 real differences · 2 level
Help me decide between versus Debatium: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterHelp me decide betweenDebatium
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.5 (47 ratings)4.6 (230 ratings) — better
Positive reviews66.7% of reviews — better20.0% of reviews
Number of ratings47230 — better
Update frequencyEvery 3 monthsEvery 2 days — better
AdsYesNo — better
In-app purchasesNo — betterYes
MonetizationAd-supported — betterFreemium
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPhone
Requires iOS12.0 — better16.4
Further details — not scored
Size27 MB91 MB
Age rating4+12+
DeveloperMark CornelisseRodger Studio (Apps)

Customer experience

Help me decide between

All ratings45 ratings
Positive86.7%
Neutral8.9%
Negative4.4%
Written reviews6 reviews
Positive66.7%
Neutral16.7%
Negative16.7%

Debatium

All ratings230 ratings
Positive88.3%
Neutral3.5%
Negative8.3%
Written reviews35 reviews
Positive20.0%
Neutral11.4%
Negative68.6%

Bugs and requests

Help me decide between

Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.

Debatium

Reported bugs

4 issues
  • Friend mode disappeared
  • Charged after cancelling free trial
  • Unable to pay (card expired error)
  • Premium access lost after one use

Requested features

7 requests
  • Add ads instead of paywall
  • More free features/modes
  • Allow playing with friends again
  • Option to pay once for all content
  • Offer a per-evening payment option
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  • Add an online mode for remote play
  • Make language change easier

In-app purchases

None

Help me decide between

No in-app purchases

9 purchases

Debatium

Subscriptions9
  • Premium mode (happy hour)7 Days trial$3.997 Days
  • Abonnement 1 semaine7 Days trial$4.497 Days
  • Abonnement 1 semaine3 Days trial$4.997 Days
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  • Weekly subscription3 Days trial2 variants$5.997 Days
  • Weekly subscription3 Days trial$7.997 Days
  • Weekly subscription3 Days trial$8.997 Days
  • Weekly subscription$12.997 Days
  • Abonnement 1 an$19.991 Year
  • Abonnement 1 an3 Days trial$59.991 Year

Questions

Is Help me decide between free?
Help me decide between is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is Debatium free?
Debatium is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, Help me decide between or Debatium?
Debatium is rated higher. Help me decide between averages 4.5 out of 5 from 47 ratings, while Debatium averages 4.6 from 230 ratings.
Do Help me decide between or Debatium have ads?
Help me decide between shows ads; Debatium does not.
Which is updated more often, Help me decide between or Debatium?
Help me decide between ships an update every 3 months, and Debatium every 2 days. Most recently, Help me decide between was updated on November 2, 2026 and Debatium on November 3, 2026.

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