Comparison

Say It... Or Not? vs We Are Friends

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Say It... Or Not?

This app helps children with autism and ADHD practice social filtering skills. It provides over 100 real-life scenarios to teach appropriate responses and how words affect others' feelings. The app offers independent and therapist modes with progress tracking and a reward system.

Highlights
  • Over 100 social situations
  • Identifies appropriate responses
  • Teaches empathy for others' feelings
  • Progress tracking
  • Reward Center
  • Independent and therapist modes
Features
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** Happy Frog Apps is a Mom’s Choice Award Winner! Also featured on FunEducationalApps.com, TeachersWithApps.com, and more! ** The “Say It... Or Not?” app helps children with autism understand and practice what to say… and what not to say… in real-life social situations. Filtering thoughts can be a challenge for children with autism or ADHD. This app helps children find appropriate words for over one hundred common social situations. Kids also learn to think about how their words make other people feel. The “Say It… Or Not?” app gives your child the social filtering skills they need to better manage social situations at home, school and in the community. What parents say about our awesome apps: *** 5 stars! Brilliant! An app that understands how kids actually learn. Thank you. *** 5 stars! Your social skill apps are excellent! “Say It… Or Not?” provides: - More than 100 situations frequently faced in a student’s everyday life, from annoying siblings to forgotten homework to unwanted birthday gifts. - Each situation can play out in four different ways. Students practice identifying how specific responses would make their friend feel and whether it is okay to say. For each situation where they might want to say something negative, students identify what is okay to say in that situation. - Students progress to the next level only when mastery of the current skill is demonstrated. - 'At a glance' reporting shows you instantly how your learner is progressing. - The fun Reward Center motivates even hesitant learners. Most exciting, this app offers independent AND therapist mode. In independent mode, answers are displayed and the learner taps the correct answer. In therapist mode, no answers are displayed. For each question, the student answers orally and the therapist taps whether the learner's oral answer was correct or incorrect. Both modes earn coins for the Reward Center. Our apps are designed for and tested by typical and special needs children. Testers include children with Autism and other special needs. Our apps work for them! Our apps are also suitable for adults dealing with aphasia or learning English as a Second Language. To evaluate the app, download the free version, which has one free book. Additional levels and additional players can be accessed with in-app purchases. (All levels can be purchased for $2.99 -- price may change.) If you prefer no in-app purchases, download the School Edition (SE) version of this app, which includes all levels and up to 10 players. We take customer service very seriously! If you ever have a problem or find that we've missed something, contact us at our website and we will do our best to fix the problem.  www.HappyFrogApps.com Our apps are safe for kids. We collect NO private information in our app. None! Our apps do not allow unrestricted web or social media access. We conform to the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act.

About

We Are Friends

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We Are Friends is a 10-minute-a-day, research-based parent/teacher-child interactive program using music, learning activities, videos, positive affirmations, and familiar faces to teach positive social, emotional, and behavioral skills for school, home, and life success. This program is available in the United States to assist children ages 3-10 developmentally, and it is intended for use in the home, general education classroom, and special education classroom.

Screenshots

Say It... Or Not?4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: We Are Friends at none against Say It... Or Not?'s 3. We Are Friends also leads on update cadence (every 2 months vs every 40 months). Say It... Or Not?'s advantage is device support (3 vs 1). On price, ads and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Say It... Or Not? sells 3 one-off in-app purchases. We Are Friends asks for nothing beyond the download.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Say It... Or Not? ships an update every 40 months, We Are Friends every 2 months. The most recent releases landed on September 19, 2026 and September 20, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard3 real differences · 7 level
Say It... Or Not? versus We Are Friends: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterSay It... Or Not?We Are Friends
PriceFreeFree
Rating3.3 (6 ratings) — better
Positive reviews62.5% of reviews
Number of ratings6 — better
Update frequencyEvery 40 monthsEvery 2 months — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPad
Requires iOS12.212.0 — better
Further details — not scored
Size58 MB536 MB
Age rating4+4+
DeveloperJanine TooleTeaching It Right, LLC

In-app purchases

3 purchases

Say It... Or Not?

One-time3
  • 2 Users$1.99
  • 10 Users$2.99
  • Purchase All Levels$5.99
None

We Are Friends

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is Say It... Or Not? free?
Say It... Or Not? is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is We Are Friends free?
We Are Friends is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Do Say It... Or Not? or We Are Friends have ads?
Neither Say It... Or Not? nor We Are Friends shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Say It... Or Not? or We Are Friends?
Say It... Or Not? ships an update every 40 months, and We Are Friends every 2 months. Most recently, Say It... Or Not? was updated on September 19, 2026 and We Are Friends on September 20, 2026.

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