Comparison

NoStranger vs Tender

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both games, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

NoStranger

Engage in a user-choice-driven narrative where you uncover a stranger's identity, motivations, and secrets. Explore virtual worlds through real-time conversations, searching blogs, social media, and contacting characters to piece together a compelling story.

Highlights
  • User-choice-driven narrative
  • Real-time conversation
  • Search blogs and social media
  • Contact story characters
  • Immersive virtual world exploration
  • Believable experience with real websites
Features
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NoStranger is not a game, it's a conversation. As the app opens, you receive a message from a stranger. But by the end of your experience, you will know his name, his motivation, and his dark secret. You will be led on a user-choice-driven narrative; searching through blogs, contacting the story’s characters, and scouring social media websites to find out more. Through real-time conversation, you will delve deep, and sometimes not so deep ;), exploring the interconnectedness of our virtual world. With inspiration from titles such as LifeLine and Her Story, ​NoStranger uses real websites, phone numbers, and videos to create a believable, immersive experience. Trigger Warnings: This narrative includes topics of suicide and violence. https://discord.com/invite/7nBgNCt https://twitter.com/BlackVeinPro http://nostranger.weebly.com/ Sign up for our newsletter via tinyurl.com/NoStrangerNews Created by Matthew Ventures (@mrVentures) and Scott Mulligan

About

Tender

This narrative game simulates the modern dating experience with an intergalactic twist. Swipe through alien profiles, chat with matches, and schedule dates to explore branching storylines about connection and rejection.

Highlights
  • Swipe through intergalactic profiles
  • Chat with matches
  • Schedule and play out dates
  • Branching storylines
  • Narrative game
Features
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Tender is a narrative game that explores connection and rejection in the era of swipe culture. It’s a story told by and through the modern interface for finding love. - Swipe through hundreds of intergalactic profiles - Chat with your matches and hope the sparks fly - Schedule dates in your calendar and play them out in real time - Unfold a vast array of branching storylines CW: Toxic relationships Written by Gideon Lazarus Art by Jie En Lee Programmed by Kenny Sun

Screenshots

NoStranger3 screens
Tender4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is price: NoStranger at Free against Tender's $3.99. NoStranger also leads on review sentiment (88% vs 76%). Tender's advantage is in-app purchases (none vs 3) and update cadence (every 3 days vs every 6 months). On rating, ratings volume, ads and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

NoStranger is free to download; Tender costs $3.99 up front. NoStranger sells 3 one-off in-app purchases. Tender asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

On the App Store both sit at effectively the same score — 4.6 for NoStranger against 4.7 for Tender. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 419 and 545 respectively. Written reviews are what separate them: 88% of NoStranger's written reviews are positive against 76% of Tender's.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

NoStranger ships an update every 6 months, Tender every 3 days. The most recent releases landed on October 20, 2026 and October 21, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard7 real differences · 4 level
NoStranger versus Tender: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterNoStrangerTender
PriceFree — better$3.99
Rating4.6 (419 ratings)4.7 (545 ratings) — better
Positive reviews88.0% of reviews — better76.2% of reviews
Number of ratings419545 — better
Update frequencyEvery 6 monthsEvery 3 days — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFree — better
Best chart rank—#179 — better
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod
Requires iOS15.010.0 — better
Further details — not scored
Size160 MB337 MB
Age rating12+12+
DeveloperBlack Vein Productions, Inc.Kenny Sun

Customer experience

NoStranger

All ratings419 ratings
Positive89.5%
Neutral2.4%
Negative8.1%
Written reviews142 reviews
Positive88.0%
Neutral6.3%
Negative5.6%

Tender

All ratings545 ratings
Positive93.2%
Neutral2.8%
Negative4.0%
Written reviews84 reviews
Positive76.2%
Neutral9.5%
Negative14.3%

User reviews

NoStranger

From 419 App Store ratings

What we love

  • 👍 Immersive and interactive experience
  • 🤔 Thought-provoking storyline
  • 🕵️‍♀️ Engaging scavenger hunt-style gameplay
  • 🎨 Unique and creative concept

Room to improve

  • 🐛 Broken links and offline locations
  • ⏱️ Frustrating wait times between interactions
  • 🤔 Unclear or unsatisfying ending
  • 🔍 Lack of in-game feedback/guidance

Tender

From 545 App Store ratings

What we love

  • 💕 Lovely art and design
  • 🤖 Unique concept of dating aliens
  • 🕰️ Realistic real-time pacing
  • 🤗 Charming and memorable characters

Room to improve

  • ⏱️ Slow pace of matches and conversations
  • 🙅‍♀️ Difficulty progressing relationships
  • 🙃 Frustrating when dates go poorly
  • 🤯 Emotionally impactful (in a good and bad way)

Bugs and requests

NoStranger

Reported bugs

2 issues
  • Inconsistent save/progress tracking
  • Glitches that reset player choices

Requested features

3 requests
  • More content and chapters
  • Ability to skip wait times without ads
  • Clearer story resolution and explanations

Tender

Reported bugs

2 issues
  • Dialogue getting stuck or resetting
  • Progress being lost or reset unexpectedly

Requested features

4 requests
  • Ability to pause or schedule dates
  • More diverse character profiles and storylines
  • Faster swiping and response times
  • Ability to continue relationships beyond first date

In-app purchases

3 purchases

NoStranger

One-time3
  • Buy some Flubbertons$0.99
  • Buy some more Flubbertons$4.99
  • Buy ALOT of Flubbertons$7.99
None

Tender

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is NoStranger free?
NoStranger is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Tender free?
Tender costs $3.99, with no in-app purchases.
Which has better reviews, NoStranger or Tender?
Tender is rated higher. NoStranger averages 4.6 out of 5 from 419 ratings, while Tender averages 4.7 from 545 ratings.
Do NoStranger or Tender have ads?
Neither NoStranger nor Tender shows ads.
Which is updated more often, NoStranger or Tender?
NoStranger ships an update every 6 months, and Tender every 3 days. Most recently, NoStranger was updated on October 20, 2026 and Tender on October 21, 2026.

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