Comparison

Poly Dating vs ChallengeMe

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Poly Dating

This app facilitates connections for individuals practicing ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, or seeking kink experiences. It offers inclusive profile options and customizable match preferences to help users find compatible partners for various relationship styles and interests.

Highlights
  • Inclusive profile options
  • Customizable match preferences
  • Multiple connection levels
  • Search for kink and shibari partners
  • Find polyamorous, open, or poly-curious individuals
Features
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Love doesn't always come in twos. helloPOLY is an honest dating and community for people who love outside the mainstream — openly, and on their own terms. Formerly PolyFinda — same community, new name. How is helloPOLY different from regular dating apps? Mainstream dating apps weren't built for the way you love. helloPOLY is purpose-built for people who are ethically non-monogamous (ENM), polyamorous, or seeking kink — so it's faster to find people who want the same thing, and you spend less time filtering out incompatible matches. Inclusive and supportive of diverse relationship styles, by design. Looking for love? Friendship? Something kinky and fun? Someone to practice shibari or rope bondage with? There's room for all of it here — because there are more ways to love and connect in ethical non-monogamy. And you don't have to confine yourself to one identity: choose different styles of relating that interest you, so you find exactly what you're after and match with people looking for someone like you. New to the ENM or kink scenes, or experienced in both — helloPOLY helps you make real connections. Start meeting like-minded people near you today. Who created helloPOLY, and why? helloPOLY was founded by members of the ethical non-monogamy community to help people explore every form of ENM together. Its open-minded philosophy naturally draws people from the queer, BDSM, and kink communities too — but not everyone exploring ENM is into kink. So the app matches people on shared interests and keeps incompatible profiles out of your feed. It also has a particular focus on shibari, helping riggers and rope bottoms find each other to practice with. For example, if you're after a kinky play partner or a shibari rope bottom, you can filter out every profile that doesn't list kink or shibari as an interest. HOW IT WORKS helloPOLY is free to join — find polyamorous, open, poly-curious, or kinky people near you in minutes. APP FEATURES - Inclusive profiles — choose from over 10 gender identities and relationship styles. - Filter for exactly who you want — hide kinky profiles, or see only the kinksters. Same for shibari, and for monogamous or polyamorous. Your feed, your rules.- So much more than dating — helloPOLY is also where you'll find friendship, love, relationships, and marriage, shibari and kink events, local poly meetups, parties, education, and counselors and therapists who specialize in alternative relating. helloPOLY PREMIUM Go Premium to get the most from helloPOLY: - Unlimited likes — like as many people as you want - Unlimited messages and chat before matching - See who's already liked you - Boosted visibility — add your profile to the feature page for more likes - Go incognito — only people you've liked can see your profile - Superlikes to stand out - Second Chance — revisit a profile you skipped too quickly - Restore archived chats helloPOLY Premium renews monthly unless you adjust or cancel it in your App Store settings. FULL 1 month $29.99 (recurring) FULL 3 month $39.99 (recurring) FULL 6 month $59.99 (recurring) Payment will be charged to iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period Account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period, and identify the cost of the renewal Subscriptions may be managed by the user and auto-renewal may be turned off by going to the user’s Account Settings after purchase Privacy Policy https://hellopoly.co/privacy/ Terms of Use https://hellopoly.co/terms/ Community Guidelines: https://hellopoly.co/community-guidelines/

About

ChallengeMe

This app allows users to create and share custom challenges, engage with interactive polls, and discover location-based fun. It fosters community interaction through voting and commenting on user-generated content, making daily routines more engaging and competitive.

Highlights
  • Create and share custom challenges
  • Interactive poll creator
  • Secret and hidden content feature
  • Supports photos, videos, and audio
  • Location-based challenges and discovery
  • Community voting and commenting
Features
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Create interactive challenges, quests & quizzes Turn any idea into an unforgettable experience with ChallengeMe. ChallengeMe lets you create interactive challenges, quests, quizzes, and team activities for friends, coworkers, classrooms, communities, or events. Whether you're planning a team-building event, an office quest, a classroom activity, or a weekend adventure with friends, ChallengeMe gives you everything you need to create engaging experiences in minutes. Invite participants, complete interactive tasks, discover hidden clues, solve quizzes, and track progress together. Powerful tools for creating interactive activities Build unique experiences with a wide range of interactive task types: Photos & Videos YouTube & TikTok links Audio challenges Quizzes & Trivia Polls & Voting Scratch Cards Hidden Messages Secret GPS Locations Map Pins Word Builders Timers Calendars Notes Custom Messages And many more Every challenge, quest, or quiz can be fully customized to match your goals. Perfect for every team and community ChallengeMe is ideal for: Team building Team activities Office games Employee engagement Company events Icebreakers Classroom activities Family games Friend groups Birthday parties Outdoor adventures Travel quests Fitness challenges Learning activities Community events Whether you're organizing activities for a company, school, sports club, community, or friends, ChallengeMe makes every event more engaging. Create together. Play together. Invite teammates, coworkers, friends, or family to join your activity. Participants can: Complete tasks Solve quizzes Discover secret locations Unlock hidden clues Share updates Comment Track progress Collaborate or compete ChallengeMe keeps everyone involved from the first task to the final challenge. Great for creators & businesses Create interactive experiences for your audience, customers, employees, or community. Design: Team-building challenges Office quests Interactive quizzes Treasure hunts Educational activities Community events Fitness programs Marketing campaigns Social games ChallengeMe helps creators, companies, schools, and communities build memorable experiences that people genuinely enjoy. Why ChallengeMe? Create challenges in minutes Design interactive quests Build engaging quizzes Organize team activities Improve team engagement Add photos, videos, polls, and more Use secret GPS locations Track participant progress Invite unlimited participants Perfect for teams, friends, and communities Download ChallengeMe today and create your first challenge, quest, or quiz. Bring people together through interactive experiences designed for collaboration, competition, learning, and fun. Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Poly Dating4 screens
ChallengeMe4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is review sentiment: ChallengeMe at 100% against Poly Dating's 28%. ChallengeMe also leads on ads (none vs shown) and update cadence (fortnightly vs every 2 months). On price, in-app purchases, monetization model and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Poly Dating sells 19 in-app purchases, starting at $9.99 per month and ChallengeMe sells 3 in-app purchases, starting at $6.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Poly Dating ships an update every 2 months, ChallengeMe fortnightly. The most recent releases landed on October 18, 2026 and October 16, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard3 real differences · 7 level
Poly Dating versus ChallengeMe: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterPoly DatingChallengeMe
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.1 (210 ratings) — better—
Positive reviews27.8% of reviews100.0% of reviews — better
Number of ratings210 — better—
Update frequencyEvery 2 monthsFortnightly — better
AdsYesNo — better
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFreemium
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPad
Requires iOS15.6 — better16.6
Further details — not scored
Size144 MB152 MB
Age rating17+4+
DeveloperPolyamorous Pty LtdDouble Shot OU

Customer experience

Poly Dating

All ratings210 ratings
Positive74.3%
Neutral8.6%
Negative17.1%
Written reviews79 reviews
Positive27.8%
Neutral5.1%
Negative67.1%

ChallengeMe

Written reviews2 reviews
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

Bugs and requests

Poly Dating

Reported bugs

29 issues
  • App won't work
  • Email verification not received
  • Account creation failure
  • Location not setting up
  • Nothing populates
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  • Can't get verification number
  • Can't access account
  • System won't let enter location
  • Location field remains blank
  • App update issues with location field
  • Signing up doesn't find locations
  • Limited available places
  • App crashes
  • Events page crashes
  • About page crashes
  • App keeps looping back to select age range
  • App freezes periodically
  • Account deleted without notice
  • Audio turns on when app opens
  • Error: Try again later
  • Avatar upload limit of 1MB
  • Verification not sent to email
  • App locked up and asks for valid URL
  • Invalid URL error
  • Can't edit matchmaking settings
  • Save or next button is grayed out
  • Doesn't load properly all the time
  • Can't complete signup process
  • Options hidden behind keyboard

Requested features

7 requests
  • Allow uploading photos larger than 1MB
  • Improve photo framing and rearrangement
  • Add autocorrect functionality
  • Increase search distance options
  • Include imperial measurements
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  • Fix non-dismissible keyboard issue on iOS
  • Add a way to rearrange photos

ChallengeMe

Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.

In-app purchases

19 purchases

Poly Dating

Subscriptions15
  • Females Membership$9.991 Month
  • Males Memberhsip$9.991 Month
  • Females in couple Membership$9.991 Month
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  • Males in Couple Membership$9.991 Month
  • Non-binary membership$9.991 Month
  • Full Membership$9.991 Month
  • Full membership for Non-binary$9.991 Month
  • Full membership for Other$9.991 Month
  • Transfemale Membership$9.991 Month
  • Genderfluid Membership$9.991 Month
  • Upgrades give more benefits!$29.991 Month
  • premium2 variants$29.991 Month
  • premium3 variants$39.993 Months
  • Upgrades give more benefits!$39.993 Months
  • premium2 variants$59.996 Months
One-time4
  • 250 Credits for Female$5.99
  • 250 Credits Male$5.99
  • 250 Credits Female in Couple$5.99
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  • 250 Credits Male in Couple$5.99
3 purchases

ChallengeMe

Subscriptions3
  • ChallengeMe Monthly$6.991 Month
  • ChallengeMe Quarterly$14.993 Months
  • ChallengeMe Annual$35.991 Year

Questions

Is Poly Dating free?
Poly Dating is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is ChallengeMe free?
ChallengeMe is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Poly Dating or ChallengeMe have ads?
Poly Dating shows ads; ChallengeMe does not.
Which is updated more often, Poly Dating or ChallengeMe?
Poly Dating ships an update every 2 months, and ChallengeMe fortnightly. Most recently, Poly Dating was updated on October 18, 2026 and ChallengeMe on October 16, 2026.

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