Open vs Our Poly
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
Open
This app connects individuals interested in ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships. It facilitates open communication and exploration of fantasies through unique card decks and private connection rooms. Discover like-minded partners in a safe and respectful environment.
- Incognito mode for privacy
- Conversation card decks for deeper connection
- Private connection rooms
- Support for ethical non-monogamy
- Exploration of fantasies
- Community of like-minded individuals
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Fantasy Match – your gateway to open relationships and conscious intimacy. Fantasy Match is the dating app designed specifically for people interested in ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, and open relationships. Here you’ll find a community of like-minded individuals ready to connect, explore, and share sensuality openly. We believe the most vivid moments in life arise from sincerity and the fulfillment of deep fantasies. That’s why we created a space where reflection, communication, and self-exploration give you the freedom to be yourself - and to meet people with whom fantasies become reality. Sometimes in the form of themed games, deep emotional connection, or open relationships and ethical non-monogamy. We believe that sexual relationships should integrate your fantasies at the core of your communication and relationship format. What makes Fantasy Match different? • Incognito mode: Switch to incognito mode and you won't appear in the general search, only people you liked will be able to see you! • Conversation Card Decks Our unique card decks help you start meaningful, playful, and deep conversations - from flirting to exploring conscious sexuality. Decks are your invitation to explore a certain facet of your sexuality. On the cards, you can discover ideas, read scintillating and sensual Stories, and use the cards to play with a partner. Decks are exciting playthings for Rooms with other participants. A participant who is in the Room with you will also be able to swipe through any Decks you’ve purchased, and you’ll be able to see which cards from the Deck you have in common. • Private Connection Rooms Create private spaces with a partner or new connection to explore and communicate in a safe, intimate atmosphere. • Community Values Fantasy Match supports ethical, conscious, and sincere relationships. It’s a space where boundaries are respected, sexual diversity is celebrated, and deep connection is encouraged. Join Fantasy Match to: • Expand the boundaries of your sensual and emotional world • Meet partners who share your views on open relationships • Explore your fantasies in a safe and respectful environment • Understand and embody your desires more deeply Download Fantasy Match and open a new chapter in your personal life. Other things you need to know: • You must be at least 21 years old to access and use Fantasy Match • All personal data is handled under the Terms and Conditions of Privacy Policy Links: • Privacy Policy — https://fantasyapp.com/privacy-policy/ • Terms and Conditions — https://fantasyapp.com/terms-and-conditions/ Your feedback is highly appreciated! feedback@fantasyapp.com
Our Poly
Connect with verified ethical non-monogamous individuals for real-life experiences. Plan dates, host gatherings, and build meaningful connections within a secure and private community.
- Verified member community
- Real-life date creation
- Event hosting and management
- Partner profile linking
- Advanced privacy controls
- Detailed preference filtering
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Meet Our Poly – where authentic connections happen in real life, not just online. Join a social club of verified ethical non-monogamous (ENM) individuals focused on creating meaningful experiences. Verified members only – No fake profiles Create and manage real-world dates Host intimate gatherings and events Connect based on true compatibility Link partner profiles seamlessly THOUGHTFULLY DESIGNED Create the experiences you want: Set your exact availability Define detailed preferences Choose your ideal meeting types Plan dates that matter SAFETY & PRIVACY FIRST Verified community members only Advanced privacy controls Detailed safety features Clear consent and boundaries Secure messaging system EVENTS & GATHERINGS Host intimate meetups Join community events Create group activities Manage RSVPs easily Share experiences Advanced filtering for better matches Partner profile linking for seamless connections Event creation tools to host your own meetups Detailed preferences to find exactly what you're looking for Exclusive community access Join your city's curated ENM community today. Note: Our Poly is for adults 18+ only. We maintain strict community guidelines to ensure a safe, respectful environment for all members.
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Verdict
The clearest difference is review sentiment: Open at 70% against Our Poly's 0%. Open also leads on rating (2.9 vs 1.0) and ratings volume (303 vs 2). On price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Open sells 12 in-app purchases, starting at $5.49 per 7 days and Our Poly sells 3 one-off in-app purchases. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
Open holds the better App Store score, 2.9 against 1.0. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Open has 303 ratings behind it against 2, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 70% of Open's written reviews are positive against 0% of Our Poly's.
Open ships an update fortnightly, Our Poly every 2 weeks. The most recent releases landed on October 10, 2026 and October 5, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | Open | Our Poly |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 2.9 (303 ratings) — better | 1.0 (2 ratings) |
| Positive reviews | 69.8% of reviews — better | 0.0% of reviews |
| Number of ratings | 303 — better | 2 |
| Update frequency | Fortnightly | Every 2 weeks — better |
| Ads | Yes | Yes |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | Free with in-app purchases |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod | iPhone, iPad |
| Requires iOS | 13.0 — better | 17.0 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 77 MB | 54 MB |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | Fantasy | NGHBR Inc |
Customer experience
Open
Our Poly
Bugs and requests
Open
Reported bugs
3 issues- App crashes when trying to upload new photos
- Inability to change location without paying
- Profiles disappearing after account creation
Requested features
5 requests- Add ability to send photos in chat rooms
- Expand search radius beyond local area
- Increase number of free fantasy cards per day
- Allow more than 2 people in a chat room
- Improve location-based user matching
Our Poly
Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.
In-app purchases
Open
- Membership Weekly$5.497 Days
- Membership Weekly Trial3 Days trial$5.497 Days
- Membership Weekly Full$9.997 Days
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- Membership Weekly Full Trial3 Days trial$9.997 Days
- 1 Month Membership$14.991 Month
- Membership 1 Year Special$34.991 Year
- Membership 3 Months$39.993 Months
- Couples Dating StoriesFree
- Threesome$9.99
- Shaking Things Up$9.99
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- Meaningful Sex$9.99
- Sexting Ideas$9.99
Our Poly
- Lifetime Founding Member$28.00
- Lifetime Community Member$96.00
- Our Poly Life Time Ambassador$100.00









