Comparison

Open vs HOWDI

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Open

This app connects individuals interested in ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships. It facilitates open communication and exploration of fantasies through unique card decks and private connection rooms. Discover like-minded partners in a safe and respectful environment.

Highlights
  • Incognito mode for privacy
  • Conversation card decks for deeper connection
  • Private connection rooms
  • Support for ethical non-monogamy
  • Exploration of fantasies
  • Community of like-minded individuals
Features
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Fantasy Match – your gateway to open relationships and conscious intimacy. Fantasy Match is the dating app designed specifically for people interested in ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, and open relationships. Here you’ll find a community of like-minded individuals ready to connect, explore, and share sensuality openly. We believe the most vivid moments in life arise from sincerity and the fulfillment of deep fantasies. That’s why we created a space where reflection, communication, and self-exploration give you the freedom to be yourself - and to meet people with whom fantasies become reality. Sometimes in the form of themed games, deep emotional connection, or open relationships and ethical non-monogamy. We believe that sexual relationships should integrate your fantasies at the core of your communication and relationship format. What makes Fantasy Match different? • Incognito mode: Switch to incognito mode and you won't appear in the general search, only people you liked will be able to see you! • Conversation Card Decks Our unique card decks help you start meaningful, playful, and deep conversations - from flirting to exploring conscious sexuality. Decks are your invitation to explore a certain facet of your sexuality. On the cards, you can discover ideas, read scintillating and sensual Stories, and use the cards to play with a partner. Decks are exciting playthings for Rooms with other participants. A participant who is in the Room with you will also be able to swipe through any Decks you’ve purchased, and you’ll be able to see which cards from the Deck you have in common. • Private Connection Rooms Create private spaces with a partner or new connection to explore and communicate in a safe, intimate atmosphere. • Community Values Fantasy Match supports ethical, conscious, and sincere relationships. It’s a space where boundaries are respected, sexual diversity is celebrated, and deep connection is encouraged. Join Fantasy Match to: • Expand the boundaries of your sensual and emotional world • Meet partners who share your views on open relationships • Explore your fantasies in a safe and respectful environment • Understand and embody your desires more deeply Download Fantasy Match and open a new chapter in your personal life. Other things you need to know: • You must be at least 21 years old to access and use Fantasy Match • All personal data is handled under the Terms and Conditions of Privacy Policy Links: • Privacy Policy — https://fantasyapp.com/privacy-policy/ • Terms and Conditions — https://fantasyapp.com/terms-and-conditions/ Your feedback is highly appreciated! feedback@fantasyapp.com

About

HOWDI

Features
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Stop texting "what’s the move?" HOWDI is the only app that combines discovering what to do near you with the tools to actually get your friends to go. We scour the web to put every concert, festival, trivia night, and local meetup on one map - so you never miss out on what’s happening in your area. BUILD YOUR POSSE • The hardest part of going out isn’t finding where to go - it’s rounding up the crew. The Home for All the Plans: Stop losing important details in your crowded messages. Every Posse creates a dedicated group chat that lives right next to the event details. Coordinate Instantly: Invite friends, plan rides, and hype up the night without cluttering your main DMs. Go Together: See who’s in, who’s out, and exactly where to meet. THE "EVERYTHING" MAP • Stop checking five different websites to plan your weekend. HOWDI pulls event data from sources across the web and partners like Viator to give you the most comprehensive view of your city. Everything in One Place: From major stadium tours to hole-in-the-wall comedy nights to nights to local tours and outdoor adventures. Plus, each event includes easy access to directions, the official website, and a button to add the event to your calendar. Search by Where, When, and What: Don't just read a list of dates. Use the interactive map to filter events precisely by location, date, and over 80 categories, letting you see exactly what's happening in your neighborhood tonight. THE DIGITAL TOWN SQUARE • Connect with your local area like never before. County Chats: Every user is automatically added to their local County Chat. Ask for recommendations, meet new people, or see what’s buzzing in your neighborhood right now. Real-Time Community: No algorithms, just real people in your area talking about real things to do. Don't just find plans. Make them happen. Download HOWDI today.

Screenshots

Open4 screens
HOWDI4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: HOWDI at none against Open's 12. HOWDI also leads on ads (none vs shown). Open's advantage is iOS requirement (13.0 vs 15.1). On price, update cadence and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Open sells 12 in-app purchases, starting at $5.49 per 7 days. HOWDI asks for nothing beyond the download.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Open ships an update fortnightly, HOWDI weekly. The most recent releases landed on October 29, 2026 and October 28, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard3 real differences · 7 level
Open versus HOWDI: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterOpenHOWDI
PriceFreeFree
Rating2.9 (304 ratings) — better—
Positive reviews69.8% of reviews—
Number of ratings304 — better—
Update frequencyFortnightlyWeekly — better
AdsYesNo — better
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPod
Requires iOS13.0 — better15.1
Further details — not scored
Size77 MB44 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperFantasyHOWDI SOFTWARE LLC

Bugs and requests

Open

Reported bugs

3 issues
  • App crashes when trying to upload new photos
  • Inability to change location without paying
  • Profiles disappearing after account creation

Requested features

5 requests
  • Add ability to send photos in chat rooms
  • Expand search radius beyond local area
  • Increase number of free fantasy cards per day
  • Allow more than 2 people in a chat room
  • Improve location-based user matching

HOWDI

Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.

In-app purchases

12 purchases

Open

Subscriptions7
  • Membership Weekly$5.497 Days
  • Membership Weekly Trial3 Days trial$5.497 Days
  • Membership Weekly Full$9.997 Days
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  • Membership Weekly Full Trial3 Days trial$9.997 Days
  • 1 Month Membership$14.991 Month
  • Membership 1 Year Special$34.991 Year
  • Membership 3 Months$39.993 Months
One-time5
  • Couples Dating StoriesFree
  • Threesome$9.99
  • Shaking Things Up$9.99
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  • Meaningful Sex$9.99
  • Sexting Ideas$9.99
None

HOWDI

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is Open free?
Open is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is HOWDI free?
HOWDI is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Do Open or HOWDI have ads?
Open shows ads; HOWDI does not.
Which is updated more often, Open or HOWDI?
Open ships an update fortnightly, and HOWDI weekly. Most recently, Open was updated on October 29, 2026 and HOWDI on October 28, 2026.

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