Comparison

SafePlusMore vs BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

SafePlusMore

Features
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There is an epidemic among the youth of our community, that invokes the consciousness of the private, business and faith based sectors of the nation. The number of underage pregnancies, suicides, underage drinking, drug use, criminal behavior and educational dropouts has continued to escalate despite the measures that have been used for generations. The youth today find themselves combating many negative influences that could ultimately lead to the destruction of an entire generation as well as, the debasement of our entire economic and social structure. We as a society, have been trying to combat these issues by lecturing, informative posters and literature, and punitive measures to no avail. It is unacceptable to allow the number of youth that are at-risk to follow the pattern that has been demonstrated. The future and success of our community is dependent on the children of today. If they are not living in a safe and nurturing environment we will find ourselves at risk for a continuation of poverty, crime and disease. No child is expendable and each child must know their value.

About

BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating

This dating app uses a scientifically developed personality quiz to match users based on BDSM compatibility. It filters potential partners to ensure shared dynamics and relationship preferences, streamlining the search for play partners, lifestyle relationships, or friendships within the kink community.

Highlights
  • BDSMTest compatibility matching
  • Pre-selected compatible matches
  • Dynamic role preference setting
  • Profile customization with prompts
  • Privacy-focused features
  • Link real partners
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BeeDee takes a personality first approach, helping you connect with people who share your desires, relationship dynamics, and lifestyle. Our smart matching system prioritizes compatibility, making it easy to find partners who truly align with what you’re looking for—whether that’s deep connections, meaningful relationships, or something more adventurous. Looking for a dating app that truly understands you? Find your people. Start your journey with BeeDee today. Download and sign up for free.

Screenshots

SafePlusMore4 screens
BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: SafePlusMore at none against BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating's 10. SafePlusMore also leads on ads (none vs shown) and iOS requirement (12.0 vs 16.4). On price, update cadence and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating sells 9 in-app purchases, starting at $19.99 per month. SafePlusMore asks for nothing beyond the download.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

SafePlusMore ships an update every 4 weeks, BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating fortnightly. The most recent releases landed on October 2, 2026 and October 25, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard3 real differences · 7 level
SafePlusMore versus BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterSafePlusMoreBeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating
PriceFreeFree
Rating—4.0 (89 ratings) — better
Positive reviews—32.6% of reviews
Number of ratings—89 — better
Update frequencyEvery 4 weeksFortnightly — better
AdsNo — betterYes
In-app purchasesNo — betterYes
Monetization—Free with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPhone, iPad
Requires iOS12.0 — better16.4
Further details — not scored
Size46 MB68 MB
Age rating4+17+
DeveloperAsheville Community Enterprises, LLCBeedee

In-app purchases

None

SafePlusMore

No in-app purchases

9 purchases

BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating

Subscriptions5
  • Monthly Premium Membership2 variants$19.991 Month
  • Premium membership - Monthly$24.991 Month
  • 3 Months of BeeDee Premium$44.993 Months
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  • Quarterly Membership$59.993 Months
  • 6 Months of BeeDee Premium$59.996 Months
One-time4
  • 1 Whip$0.99
  • "I'm invested" badge$2.99
  • 5 Whips$3.99
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  • 10 Whips$6.99

Questions

Is SafePlusMore free?
SafePlusMore is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating free?
BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do SafePlusMore or BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating have ads?
BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating shows ads; SafePlusMore does not.
Which is updated more often, SafePlusMore or BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating?
SafePlusMore ships an update every 4 weeks, and BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating fortnightly. Most recently, SafePlusMore was updated on October 2, 2026 and BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating on October 25, 2026.

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