Comparison

With Whom vs MingleSea

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

With Whom

Features
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‘With Whom do you want to _____ ?’, is the question that With Whom answers. Take control and directly seek relationships with people you know rather than rely on limited selections from the usual dating apps and websites, while remaining anonymous if the other person doesn’t have the same interest in you! Risk free dating for the modern era, date only people you already know in real life! RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE YOU KNOW AND TRUST: No artificial algorithms, no profiles, no strangers, just seek your desired relationships with people you already know and trust but hesitate in asking out directly. ANONYMOUS: With Whom allows you to choose the person with whom you want to have a relationship and *only* if that person also wants the same relationship with you, will With Whom let both of you know. Otherwise, you stay totally anonymous! FREE: Using the With Whom app remains free!! LONG TERM: Sometimes the person you seek the relationship with may not have an immediate interest in you right now. No problem. Just submit your desired relationship request and leave it open for a longer period of your choice (days, months, even years). Whenever they put in a request to seek a relationship with you, your pending request will automatically spark, and the app will let you both know!! RELATIONSHIP TYPES INCLUDE: - Date - Collaborate - Recreation/Social - Commitment - Travel - Friendship See the app for more ways to use! SIMPLE: - Open With Whom app and sign into With Whom. - First tap ‘Me’ at the bottom and then tap 'Edit' at the top to fill out your information, including your Identities. Identities are things like your email address, mobile phone number, etc. that other people would use to seek a relationship with you. - You must validate all of your identities using details that With Whom would have sent to that email address or mobile phone number. - Now tap ‘Active’ at the bottom and then tap the ‘+’ on the bottom-right, to add a new Relationship. - On the ‘AddRequest’ screen that follows, tap the red magnifying glass icon at the bottom-right, to find a contact in your Mobile device’s address book, with whom you seek a relationship. You can also directly add the details if the person is not in your address book. - Fill out the Identities as well as the Relationship types for the Request from the respective sub-screens that follow. - When the other person seeks a similar relationship with you (or may already have a pending request With Whom), using one of your Identities that you have provided and validated, With Whom will let both of you know. -With Whom will contact you at the email address associated with your Google, Facebook, or Apple account (whichever one you used to sign up With Whom) -You can also always check any completed requests by tapping on the ‘Connected!’ button on the Main screen. -You can come back at any time and edit your details and relationship requests. -That’s it, you’re all set! Happy With Whom-ing!!

About

MingleSea

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Find out more on: minglesea.com - Free - Serious - PassLike - Intentional - Active Match - Active Match Limit - Chat Time - Active Hide - Algorithm Transparency #TheMagicalDatingApp

Screenshots

With Whom4 screens
MingleSea4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: With Whom at none against MingleSea's 1. MingleSea's advantage is update cadence (every 3 weeks vs every 3 months). On price, ads, device support and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. MingleSea sells 1 one-off in-app purchase. With Whom asks for nothing beyond the download.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

With Whom ships an update every 3 months, MingleSea every 3 weeks. The most recent releases landed on November 11, 2026 and October 30, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard2 real differences · 4 level
With Whom versus MingleSea: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterWith WhomMingleSea
PriceFreeFree
Update frequencyEvery 3 monthsEvery 3 weeks — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesNo — betterYes
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPhone, iPod
Requires iOS15.215.1 — better
Further details — not scored
Size12 MB50 MB
Age rating17+17+
DevelopereInterface Technologies Inc.MINGLESEA SDN. BHD.

In-app purchases

None

With Whom

No in-app purchases

1 purchases

MingleSea

One-time1
  • Match Quota 10 USD$9.99

Questions

Is With Whom free?
With Whom is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is MingleSea free?
MingleSea is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do With Whom or MingleSea have ads?
Neither With Whom nor MingleSea shows ads.
Which is updated more often, With Whom or MingleSea?
With Whom ships an update every 3 months, and MingleSea every 3 weeks. Most recently, With Whom was updated on November 11, 2026 and MingleSea on October 30, 2026.

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