Comparison

Infidelity ER vs BUP app

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

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About

Infidelity ER

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The Infidelity ER is exactly what the name implies: An Emergency Room for anyone who is affected by infidelity, one way or the other. When experiencing a personal crisis, we are all helped by a clear structure that help us understand, but also create a visual picture of the change ahead. Therefore the Infidelity ER is constructed in five different processes that can be followed step by step. You will receive help and support to handle both feelings and behaviors through every step of the different phases; from suspected to confirmed infidelity and further on to repairing the relationship. There are also two following processes that help you build a stronger, more open and happy relationship, as well as increasing your own awareness. You get advice, support and knowledge, and the possibility to write down your own thoughts and reflections, anonymous of course. You will also get access to a chat where you can ask personal questions about specific circumstances that you need help to understand. The Infidelity ER is available in your mobile phone whenever you need it, and works as a guide through the different phases that inevitably follow infidelity, but also as an “education” in handling relationships and your own emotional luggage. You get an opportunity to browse through the app, read introductions and an extensive Q&A, before deciding if you want to subscribe. The Infidelity ER Lets you be totally anonymous Cost as much as one single visit at the therapists office Is available in both English and Swedish Is available in your mobile 24 hours a day, 7 days a week Can be worked on together as a couple, or individually Also doubles as ”homework” to reach a good result faster when consulting other therapists Offers a great possibility to reach personal growth, at the same time as the relationship is not only healed but strengthened for the future Can also work as a tool to reach en empathetic communication and mutual respect, for those couples who chose to split up Background The Infidelity ER is created by Anneli Östling and based on scientific models of psychology and extensive research on relationships. Anneli works as a couples therapist and are specialized on problems related to infidelity, with many years of experience. Earlier in her career she worked with risk analysing within change- and development processes at big companies. That experience has affected her way to trust distinct and structured processes in her work as therapist as well. More information about sources of facts, research and inspiration is available within the app. In the Infidelity ER you are guided, individually or as a couple, step by step through the same processes as at the therapists office. The purpose of the app is to reach more people in need of support, who might not have the possibility, resources, time or will to attend a therapists office Payment and price information Payment is made inside the Application. You need to purchase a one month automatic renewal subscription to access all the features of the app. When you start your subscription you will get access to all chapters and chat with a professional adviser. You have access to the complete app during the subscription time - Payment is charged with SEK 99 for a month subscription, after which the subscription is renewed monthly for SEK 99 per month. - Payment is debited to your iTunes account upon confirmation of purchase. - The account is charged for renewal within 24 hours before the end of the current period. - Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period. - Subscriptions can be managed by the user and automatic renewal can be turned off by going to the user's account settings after purchase. Read our Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policy: https://app.otrohetsakuten.se/terms

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Infidelity ER4 screens
BUP app4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: BUP app at none against Infidelity ER's 1. BUP app also leads on update cadence (every 3 weeks vs every 2 months). On price, ads, device support and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Infidelity ER sells 1 in-app purchase, starting at $7.99 per month. BUP app asks for nothing beyond the download.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Infidelity ER ships an update every 2 months, BUP app every 3 weeks. The most recent releases landed on September 10, 2026 and September 9, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard2 real differences · 4 level
Infidelity ER versus BUP app: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterInfidelity ERBUP app
PriceFreeFree
Update frequencyEvery 2 monthsEvery 3 weeks — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPod
Requires iOS12.012.0
Further details — not scored
Size39 MB50 MB
Age rating4+4+
DeveloperRelationskonsulten Stockholm ABLandstinget i Uppsala län

In-app purchases

1 purchases

Infidelity ER

Subscriptions1
  • ER Infidelity subscription$7.991 Month
None

BUP app

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is Infidelity ER free?
Infidelity ER is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is BUP app free?
BUP app is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Do Infidelity ER or BUP app have ads?
Neither Infidelity ER nor BUP app shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Infidelity ER or BUP app?
Infidelity ER ships an update every 2 months, and BUP app every 3 weeks. Most recently, Infidelity ER was updated on September 10, 2026 and BUP app on September 9, 2026.

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