Infidelity ER vs Bonki
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
Infidelity ER
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The Infidelity ER is exactly what the name implies: An Emergency Room for anyone who is affected by infidelity, one way or the other. When experiencing a personal crisis, we are all helped by a clear structure that help us understand, but also create a visual picture of the change ahead. Therefore the Infidelity ER is constructed in five different processes that can be followed step by step. You will receive help and support to handle both feelings and behaviors through every step of the different phases; from suspected to confirmed infidelity and further on to repairing the relationship. There are also two following processes that help you build a stronger, more open and happy relationship, as well as increasing your own awareness. You get advice, support and knowledge, and the possibility to write down your own thoughts and reflections, anonymous of course. You will also get access to a chat where you can ask personal questions about specific circumstances that you need help to understand. The Infidelity ER is available in your mobile phone whenever you need it, and works as a guide through the different phases that inevitably follow infidelity, but also as an “education” in handling relationships and your own emotional luggage. You get an opportunity to browse through the app, read introductions and an extensive Q&A, before deciding if you want to subscribe. The Infidelity ER Lets you be totally anonymous Cost as much as one single visit at the therapists office Is available in both English and Swedish Is available in your mobile 24 hours a day, 7 days a week Can be worked on together as a couple, or individually Also doubles as ”homework” to reach a good result faster when consulting other therapists Offers a great possibility to reach personal growth, at the same time as the relationship is not only healed but strengthened for the future Can also work as a tool to reach en empathetic communication and mutual respect, for those couples who chose to split up Background The Infidelity ER is created by Anneli Östling and based on scientific models of psychology and extensive research on relationships. Anneli works as a couples therapist and are specialized on problems related to infidelity, with many years of experience. Earlier in her career she worked with risk analysing within change- and development processes at big companies. That experience has affected her way to trust distinct and structured processes in her work as therapist as well. More information about sources of facts, research and inspiration is available within the app. In the Infidelity ER you are guided, individually or as a couple, step by step through the same processes as at the therapists office. The purpose of the app is to reach more people in need of support, who might not have the possibility, resources, time or will to attend a therapists office Payment and price information Payment is made inside the Application. You need to purchase a one month automatic renewal subscription to access all the features of the app. When you start your subscription you will get access to all chapters and chat with a professional adviser. You have access to the complete app during the subscription time - Payment is charged with SEK 99 for a month subscription, after which the subscription is renewed monthly for SEK 99 per month. - Payment is debited to your iTunes account upon confirmation of purchase. - The account is charged for renewal within 24 hours before the end of the current period. - Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period. - Subscriptions can be managed by the user and automatic renewal can be turned off by going to the user's account settings after purchase. Read our Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policy: https://app.otrohetsakuten.se/terms
Bonki
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Här är den: Leg. psykologens frågor i fickan. För er som par och era barn. Bonki är guidade samtal utvecklade av Ida Welbourn — leg. psykolog och leg. Psykoterapeut med 29 års klinisk erfarenhet av familjer och par. Inte terapi. Inte en prenumeration. Inte ännu en app som kräver att ni är motiverade på samma gång. Frågorna öppnar samtalen ni inte visste hur ni skulle börja. VÄLJ MELLAN SJU PRODUKTER. ENGÅNGSKÖP. ERT FÖR ALLTID. Ni köper de produkter ni vill ha, när ni är redo — och betalar bara en gång. Vårt Vi — för er som par Det ni inte hinner säga i vardagen. Det ni glömt att fråga. 21 samtal som håller relationen levande genom föräldraskapets tyngsta år. Jag i Mig — barnets inre liv Glädje, ilska, sorg, rädsla. Hjälper barnet att förstå sig självt inifrån. Jag med Andra — vänskap och samspel Att vara sig själv och fungera med andra. Konflikt, närhet, gränser. Jag i Världen — när världen blir större Tillhörighet, mening, framtid. För barnet som börjar ställa de stora frågorna. Vardag — rytmen i veckan Korta samtal för kvällar, måltider och övergångar. När det är lättast att börja. Syskon — relationen som varar längst Avundsjuka, lojalitet, närhet, distans. För syskon i alla åldrar. Närhet & Respekt — att förstå sin egen integritet, respektera andras gränser och förstå vad samtycke betyder. Om kroppen, gränser och samtycke NÄR ANVÄNDS BONKI? En söndagskväll när huset blivit tyst. På en bilresa när barnet vågar prata. När ni två ligger kvar vid frukostbordet efter att alla andra gått. Samtalen är 2–10 minuter. Ni gör dem när det passar — i den ordning ni vill, så ofta ni vill. Frågor? hello@bonkistudio.com
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Verdict
The clearest difference is update cadence: Bonki at every 3 days against Infidelity ER's every 2 months. Infidelity ER's advantage is iOS requirement (12.0 vs 15.0). On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Infidelity ER sells 1 in-app purchase, starting at $7.99 per month and Bonki sells 8 one-off in-app purchases. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
Infidelity ER ships an update every 2 months, Bonki every 3 days. The most recent releases landed on October 24, 2026 and October 23, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | Infidelity ER | Bonki |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 1.0 (1 ratings) — better | — |
| Number of ratings | 1 — better | — |
| Update frequency | Every 2 months | Every 3 days — better |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod | iPhone, iPad, iPod — better |
| Requires iOS | 12.0 — better | 15.0 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 39 MB | 22 MB |
| Age rating | 4+ | 9+ |
| Developer | Relationskonsulten Stockholm AB | Bonki |
In-app purchases
Infidelity ER
- ER Infidelity subscription$7.991 Month
Bonki
- Intimacy & respect$14.99
- Bonki Complete$14.99
- Me in Me$14.99
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- Me with Others$14.99
- Me in the World$14.99
- The Everyday$14.99
- Siblings$14.99
- Still Us$19.99









