Comparison

ShowingUp vs High Reply

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

ShowingUp

Facilitates deeper connections by creating private, organized spaces for important 1:1 relationships. Track shared topics, actions, and celebrate wins in a secure, distraction-free environment designed for meaningful interaction.

Highlights
  • Private 1:1 connection spaces
  • Organized topics for conversations
  • Action tracking for follow-ups
  • Celebrate wins and progress
  • Secure and distraction-free environment
  • Fully encrypted communication
Features
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ShowingUp helps you stay close to the people who matter, personally and professionally. Create private, organized spaces for your most important 1:1 relationships. Whether you’re reconnecting with a friend, checking in with your partner, supporting a teammate, or coaching a direct report, ShowingUp helps you stay aligned, thoughtful, and intentional. Every connection gets its own space. It’s secure, distraction-free, and just for the two of you. In each 1:1 space, you can: • Add Topics to remember what matters most • Track Actions so follow-ups never slip through the cracks • Celebrate Wins to reflect on progress and presence Use it with the people you care about: family, friends, partners, teammates, clients, mentors, and more. *** Built for presence, not pressure.*** ShowingUp is fully encrypted and designed to support authentic connection. There are no feeds. No followers. No noise. Just meaningful, private interaction with the people who matter most. Whether you’re planning a conversation, preparing for a 1:1 meeting, or simply making space for someone you care about, ShowingUp makes it easier to show up where it counts. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

About

High Reply

Connect with real people for dating and friendship. This app prioritizes quality profiles and offers features like video chat and audio messages. Enjoy unlimited swipes and communication with matches for free.

Highlights
  • Meet new people and find friends
  • Quality profiles with no fake accounts
  • Unlimited free daily swipes
  • Free communication with matches
  • Video chat functionality
  • Send audio messages
  • Verified profiles
Features
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MEET NEW PEOPLE & FIND FRIENDS! OUR FOCUS IS QUALITY. NO FAKE PROFILES CREATED. HighReply is the most trusted brand for fun open-minded dating. Our sole focus is the quality of our profiles and connecting you to real people. Our search results promote higher quality active profiles so that responses are maximized. Just know that if you verify your profile, you will be shown to more people, which will lead to more action! HighReply has a 24/7 customer service team to stop fake profiles and they are always available to answer all your questions. We are hyper-focused on creating the best user experience and would love to hear your feedback. Anything we can do to improve our app, we will do. HighReply was meticulously designed to take all the best features in online dating and combine them in one place. Top features in HighReply are: - 100’s of swipes allowed daily for FREE. - Communicate with all your matches FREE. - Search millions of quality profiles for FREE. - Use our video chat to connect with anyone. - Send audio messages while chatting. - See the most engaging pics and videos in our trending now section. - Verified profiles. START NOW TO MEET LOCAL SINGLES IN A LIVE CHAT! - Contact Us: https://www.highreply.com/help - Terms of Use: https://www.highreply.com/terms - Privacy Policy https://www.highreply.com/policy

Screenshots

ShowingUp4 screens
High Reply4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is rating: High Reply at 4.3 against ShowingUp's 3.7. High Reply also leads on ratings volume (63 vs 6). ShowingUp's advantage is review sentiment (100% vs 63%) and iOS requirement (12.0 vs 16.4). On price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. ShowingUp sells 1 in-app purchase, starting at $1.99 per month and High Reply sells 4 one-off in-app purchases. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

High Reply holds the better App Store score, 4.3 against 3.7. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: High Reply has 63 ratings behind it against 6, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews complicate that: 100% of ShowingUp's written reviews are positive against 63% of High Reply's, so the app with the better star average is not the one people write more warmly about.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

ShowingUp ships an update fortnightly, High Reply every 11 days. The most recent releases landed on October 24, 2026 and October 22, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard4 real differences · 6 level
ShowingUp versus High Reply: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterShowingUpHigh Reply
PriceFreeFree
Rating3.7 (6 ratings)4.3 (63 ratings) — better
Positive reviews100.0% of reviews — better63.2% of reviews
Number of ratings663 — better
Update frequencyFortnightlyEvery 11 days — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFreemiumFree with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhone, iPod — betteriPhone
Requires iOS12.0 — better16.4
Further details — not scored
Size110 MB77 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperRedwood Technologies Limited Liability CompanyHighreply LLC

Customer experience

ShowingUp

All ratings4 ratings
Positive75.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative25.0%
Written reviews1 reviews
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

High Reply

All ratings61 ratings
Positive85.2%
Neutral1.6%
Negative13.1%
Written reviews19 reviews
Positive63.2%
Neutral0.0%
Negative36.8%

In-app purchases

1 purchases

ShowingUp

Subscriptions1
  • ShowingUp Golden$1.991 Month
4 purchases

High Reply

One-time4
  • 5 Credits$0.99
  • 100 credits$49.99
  • 500 credits$149.99
Show 1 more
  • 1000 credits$249.99

Questions

Is ShowingUp free?
ShowingUp is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is High Reply free?
High Reply is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, ShowingUp or High Reply?
High Reply is rated higher. ShowingUp averages 3.7 out of 5 from 6 ratings, while High Reply averages 4.3 from 63 ratings.
Do ShowingUp or High Reply have ads?
Neither ShowingUp nor High Reply shows ads.
Which is updated more often, ShowingUp or High Reply?
ShowingUp ships an update fortnightly, and High Reply every 11 days. Most recently, ShowingUp was updated on October 24, 2026 and High Reply on October 22, 2026.

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