Comparison

SecondDate vs Nexumi

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side β€” with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

SecondDate

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SecondDate is video-first dating designed to help you get to know someone before you match. MEET PEOPLE IN MOTION Browse photos and short videos from people in your area. Hear their voice, see their smile, and discover more than a static profile can show. SKIP THE SMALL TALK Build your profile with a short introduction and answers to first-date questions. When you connect, the basics are already coveredβ€”so it feels more like a second date. SEND A VIDEO FLIRT When someone catches your attention, send a short video flirt and make a better first impression than β€œhey.” KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING If the feeling is mutual, continue privately with short video messages made for two. FREE OR PREMIUM SecondDate is free to download. Free members can browse Finding and maintain one active relationship at a time. SecondDate Premium removes Finding ads and allows multiple active relationships. SAFETY AND CONTROL Report or block profiles and content, stop chatting at any time, and delete your account from Settings. Uploaded media is screened, and reported content can be reviewed by our moderation team. SecondDate is for adults 18 and older. Location access is required for nearby discovery. Premium subscriptions renew automatically unless canceled through your Apple account. TERMS OF USE Apple Standard End User License Agreement (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

About

Nexumi

Features
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Nexumi brings all your conversations into one place. Connect WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, Instagram, Telegram, LinkedIn, Discord and more, then read and reply from a single unified timeline β€” no more app-switching. - One inbox for every platform: see all your DMs and chats together. - Reply from anywhere: message any connected platform without leaving Nexumi. - Unified contacts: the same person across platforms, in one view. - Private by design: your accounts stay yours. Sign in with Apple, Google, or email, connect your messaging accounts, and take back control of your inbox.

Screenshots

SecondDate4 screens
Nexumi4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is ads: Nexumi at none against SecondDate's shown. Nexumi also leads on update cadence (every 4 days vs every 8 months) and device support (3 vs 1). On price, in-app purchases and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price Β· Rating Β· Positive reviews Β· Number of ratings Β· Update frequency Β· Ads Β· In-app purchases Β· Monetization Β· Best chart rank Β· Devices Β· Requires iOS

CostPrice Β· In-app purchases Β· Ads Β· Monetization

Both are free to download. Neither carries in-app purchases, so what you see is what you pay.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

SecondDate ships an update every 8 months, Nexumi every 4 days. The most recent releases landed on November 7, 2026 and November 13, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard3 real differences Β· 3 level
SecondDate versus Nexumi: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterSecondDateNexumi
PriceFreeFree
Update frequencyEvery 8 monthsEvery 4 days β€” better
AdsYesNo β€” better
In-app purchasesNoNo
DevicesiPhoneiPhone, iPad, Mac β€” better
Requires iOS16.4 β€” better17.0
Further details β€” not scored
Size60 MB27 MB
Age rating17+4+
DeveloperProject Osprey LLCRatKing Labs Pty Ltd

In-app purchases

None

SecondDate

No in-app purchases

None

Nexumi

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is SecondDate free?
SecondDate is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is Nexumi free?
Nexumi is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Do SecondDate or Nexumi have ads?
SecondDate shows ads; Nexumi does not.
Which is updated more often, SecondDate or Nexumi?
SecondDate ships an update every 8 months, and Nexumi every 4 days. Most recently, SecondDate was updated on November 7, 2026 and Nexumi on November 13, 2026.

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