Comparison

抖友 vs SecondMe

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

抖友

A pure and safe community for niche cultural enthusiasts to connect. Find like-minded individuals and expand your social circle within exclusive interest groups. Designed for adults aged 17+ seeking genuine connections.

Highlights
  • Exclusive niche cultural circles
  • Connect with like-minded users
  • Pure and safe community
  • Expert knowledge sharing
  • 24/7 active users
  • Privacy protection and anti-harassment
Features
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抖友 - 一个极致纯粹的圈内交友平台 基于圈内文化打造的专属字母交友圈 愿有人能时刻探探你的孤独,soul与你时刻相伴。 简介: 一个更专业、更纯粹、更安全的小圈交友软件。 所有用户皆为圈内真实用户,探探索小众风格,热爱生活,拒绝低俗。 大量的志同道合的圈友选择在抖友结识知己、扩大sm 圈子交际。 同时我们也欢迎Blued、cdts、Les热拉拉的朋友们一起玩转字母文化。 特色: 【更纯粹】 过滤了大部分无关人士,还你一个更纯粹的圈子。 【更专业】资深大佬分享海量圈内知识,在交友的同时增长见识。 【更活跃】海量真实圈友用户,24小时在线交流,想聊就聊。 【更安全】多项隐私保护和防骚扰功能,全方位保障您的隐私安全。 门票 进入需会员认证,18元门票但永久有效,核心目的是为了屏蔽圈外无关人士,让更多用户拥有一个更纯粹的圈子 请务必确认,你已年满18岁,并能遵守各项法律规定和认同抖友社区管理规定。 我们提供 一次性购买、月度订阅、季度订阅、年度订阅等内购会员服务 - 会员订阅协议:https://www.douuuapp.com/page/sub.html - 隐私协议:https://avudo5rqjb.feishu.cn/docx/doxcncyX35gvS5dGwVy8wvUc5Pe

About

SecondMe

Connect with like-minded individuals in a community celebrating diverse subcultures and contrasting personalities. Share your multiple facets and discover others who understand your unique interests and preferences. Engage with multimedia content and explore a world of niche communities.

Highlights
  • Connect with subculture enthusiasts
  • Share multiple personalities
  • Discover niche communities
  • Multimedia content sharing
  • Find like-minded individuals
  • Explore diverse interests
Features
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亚文化爱好者的交友首选App 平台稳定运营2年期间,汇聚百万级真实用户注册。 SecondMe是一个高质量的亚文化扩圈社交平台,是以多元反差为主题来分享自己多重性格的交友社区。 【遇见懂我的人】 高质量年轻人的乌托邦,无论是来倾诉你内心隐匿的另一面,还是寻找情趣相投的另一半,这里都会给你带来惊喜。 【开创反差新玩法】 如果你想“窥探”Ta的第二面,每一组「反差」都会让你充满期待,乐此不疲。 如果你想“暴露”自己的第二面,「反差」或许会让你收获很多“喝彩”。 生活中的我VS圈子里的我、可爱VS性感、奶狗VS狼狗,超多主题,惊艳尽在每一次的翻转~ 【猎奇多元内心世界】 每个人的内心或许都住着一只小野兽,社区尊重任何癖好、亚文化以及小众情趣,分享图文、视频以及语音动态,展现自己的每一面。 *请务必确认你已年满18岁,并能遵守各项法律规定和社区公约。 【会员订阅服务】 1. 订阅档位:VIP1周、VIP1个月、VIP3个月、VIP6个月、VIP1年(非自动续订)。 2. 参考价格:1周12元、1个月28元、3个月78元、6个月138元、1年268元(价格可能随运营调整,具体以App内订购页为准)。 3. 开通规则:付款后立即开通,到期需手动再次购买;重复购买,会员时长自动累计。 4. 协议详情:可查阅《SecondMe会员服务协议》:https://www.secondme.top/hyxy.html • 用户服务协议:https://www.secondme.top/yhxy.html • 隐私政策:https://www.secondme.top/yszc-i.html • 官方网站:secondme.top • 微信服务号:SecondMe APP 感恩每一位秒宝的宝贵建议与温暖包容,是你们的支持,让平台得以持续健康成长!

Screenshots

抖友4 screens
SecondMe4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is rating: SecondMe at 4.2 against 抖友's 3.4. SecondMe also leads on review sentiment (46% vs 25%) and update cadence (fortnightly vs every 5 weeks). 抖友's advantage is ads (none vs shown). On price, in-app purchases, monetization model and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. 抖友 sells 16 in-app purchases, starting at $3.99 per month and SecondMe sells 10 one-off in-app purchases. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

SecondMe holds the better App Store score, 4.2 against 3.4. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 5 and 22 respectively. Written reviews point the same way: 25% of 抖友's written reviews are positive against 46% of SecondMe's.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

抖友 ships an update every 5 weeks, SecondMe fortnightly. The most recent releases landed on September 19, 2026 and September 23, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard5 real differences · 5 level
抖友 versus SecondMe: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
Parameter抖友SecondMe
PriceFreeFree
Rating3.4 (5 ratings)4.2 (22 ratings) — better
Positive reviews25.0% of reviews46.3% of reviews — better
Number of ratings522 — better
Update frequencyEvery 5 weeksFortnightly — better
AdsNo — betterYes
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFree with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPod
Requires iOS13.013.0
Further details — not scored
Size142 MB234 MB
Age rating17+17+
Developer鸽 宋刘军 周

Customer experience

抖友

All ratings4 ratings
Positive50.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative50.0%
Written reviews4 reviews
Positive25.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative75.0%

SecondMe

All ratings22 ratings
Positive77.3%
Neutral9.1%
Negative13.6%
Written reviews41 reviews
Positive46.3%
Neutral9.8%
Negative43.9%

In-app purchases

16 purchases

抖友

Subscriptions4
  • 连续包月 VIP$3.991 Month
  • 连续包月 svip$22.991 Month
  • 连续包季 svip$49.993 Months
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  • 连续包年 svip$99.991 Year
One-time12
  • VIP会员费用$2.99
  • 60 MCoins$6.00
  • VIP Membership ($9.99)$9.99
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  • 120 MCoins$12.00
  • 年费会员$14.99
  • First Month Membership$18.00
  • 永久会员$29.99
  • Gold Quarterly Card$38.00
  • 680 MCoins$68.00
  • Diamond Annual Card$98.00
  • Permanent SVIP$168.99
  • 3480 MCoins$344.99
10 purchases

SecondMe

One-time10
  • SecondMe秒币二级$0.99
  • SecondMe-1周(7天)会员$1.99
  • SecondMe秒币三级$2.99
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  • SecondMe-1个月(30天)会员$3.99
  • SecondMe秒币四级$6.99
  • SecondMe-3个月(92天)会员$9.99
  • SecondMe秒币五级$14.99
  • SecondMe-6个月(183天)会员$19.99
  • SecondMe秒币六级$29.99
  • SecondMe秒币七级$69.99

Questions

Is 抖友 free?
抖友 is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is SecondMe free?
SecondMe is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, 抖友 or SecondMe?
SecondMe is rated higher. 抖友 averages 3.4 out of 5 from 5 ratings, while SecondMe averages 4.2 from 22 ratings.
Do 抖友 or SecondMe have ads?
SecondMe shows ads; 抖友 does not.
Which is updated more often, 抖友 or SecondMe?
抖友 ships an update every 5 weeks, and SecondMe fortnightly. Most recently, 抖友 was updated on September 19, 2026 and SecondMe on September 23, 2026.

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