BeYourLover vs Utimi
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
BeYourLover
Control a device remotely via Bluetooth to explore thrilling experiences. Select from over 10 modes and adjust intensity with intuitive controls. Enjoy endless pleasure anytime, anywhere.
- Bluetooth connectivity
- 10+ modes including intelligent mode
- Animation for mode selection
- Slide to adjust intensity
- Remote control via mobile
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BeYourLover can be controlled by the app via mobile phone. It connected with the phone via bluetooth and could be used in multiple occasions. Tap to choose the mode and slide to adjust the intensity. With this App, you can enjoy the endless pleasure in any place and any time to explore more thrilling experiences.The app is available in English and Chinese language Feature: 1.Support 10+1 modes including BeYourLove intelligent mode. 2.Animation for mode selection. 3.Slide to adjust the intensity. 4.Bluetooth connection.
Utimi
Control wearable toys remotely from anywhere. Share intimate experiences with partners, tailor pleasure settings, and enjoy various play modes including solo, discreet public, and long-distance options. Receive vibration notifications for text messages.
- Remote toy control
- Long-distance play
- Solo and public play modes
- Customizable vibration patterns
- Text message notifications
- Partner control sharing
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This app is the remote control for Utimi wearable toys. Take Control Utimi from Anywhere. Share the Joy with partners Tailor Your Pleasure to Perfection Settings: 1. Solo Play 2. Discreet Public Play 3. Long Distance Play 4. Give full control to some 5. Vibration notifications during text messages Not seeing a feature you would like? Contact us at support@utimi.com! Our full time development team would love to incorporate your suggestions into our app.
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Verdict
The clearest difference is rating: BeYourLover at 3.2 against Utimi's 1.3. Utimi's advantage is in-app purchases (none vs 7). On price, review sentiment, ratings volume and update cadence there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. BeYourLover sells 7 one-off in-app purchases. Utimi asks for nothing beyond the download.
BeYourLover holds the better App Store score, 3.2 against 1.3. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 14 and 12 respectively. Written reviews complicate that: 10% of BeYourLover's written reviews are positive against 14% of Utimi's, so the app with the better star average is not the one people write more warmly about.
BeYourLover ships an update monthly, Utimi every 5 weeks. The most recent releases landed on November 11, 2026 and November 12, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | BeYourLover | Utimi |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 3.2 (14 ratings) — better | 1.3 (12 ratings) |
| Positive reviews | 10.3% of reviews | 14.3% of reviews — better |
| Number of ratings | 14 — better | 12 |
| Update frequency | Monthly — better | Every 5 weeks |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | No — better |
| Monetization | Free | Free |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod | iPhone, iPod |
| Requires iOS | 15.5 | 15.0 — better |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 184 MB | 89 MB |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | Hong Kong Grace Profit Technology Limited | Shenzhen Youdimi Technology Co., Ltd. |
Customer experience
BeYourLover
Utimi
Bugs and requests
BeYourLover
Reported bugs
9 issues- Bluetooth connection unstable
- Remote control connection errors
- Lost functionality after app updates
- Inability to operate specific toy functions (suction, piston)
- App crashes during music playback
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- App not running in background
- Connection issues preventing remote control
- Disconnection when two users join a room
- Cannot reconnect butterfly device
Requested features
8 requests- Allow background operation for vibrations
- Add notification for entering remote rooms
- Display battery level on screen
- Revert UI changes or restore previous functionality
- Improve UX for touch mode, display emojis/text
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- Add anonymous random matching for remote play
- Fix music mode URL copy issue on iPhone
- Allow mode changes and switch on/off to be reflected when app is not open
Utimi
Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.
In-app purchases
BeYourLover
- cat_food_680$0.99
- cat_food_1800$2.99
- cat_food_3800$4.99
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- cat_food_6800$9.99
- cat_food_18800$29.99
- cat_food_28800$39.99
- cat_food_68800$99.99
Utimi
No in-app purchases
