Comparison

iToys vs Embrace

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

iToys

This app offers a variety of interactive modes to control vibrations and sensations. Connect via Bluetooth for automatic pairing and explore options like touch, sound, shake, music, and remote control for a personalized experience.

Highlights
  • Bluetooth one-button automatic connection
  • 12 vibration frequencies
  • Shock, heating, sucking, and telescopic modes
  • Touch control
  • Sound-reactive vibration
  • Shake-activated frequency
  • Music synchronization
Features
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[auto connect] just open the app. Bluetooth one button automatic connection. Save your heart and effort! [automatic mode] you can choose from 12 different vibration frequencies! Shock mode, heating mode, sucking mode and telescopic mode are optional. [touch mode] slide your fingers at will, control yourself, and want to be overbearing? Want to be gentle? There is always a rhythm you like! [sound mode] beat in decibels according to the sound of the environment, and integrate with the environment with the rhythm. [shake mode] shake your mobile phone, and the randomly generated frequency makes you full of expectations. [music mode] follow the music rhythm of a hot DJ or lingering music, so that you can dance with the music. [remote mode] let love have no distance, and your partner can make you connect no matter where you are.

About

Embrace

This app facilitates shared journaling for couples in a BDSM dynamic. It allows private or shared entries, offers daily prompts, and includes features like partner assignment, reminders, and in-app chat to foster connection and communication.

Highlights
  • Private or shared journaling
  • Daily journaling prompts
  • Assign prompts to partner
  • Journaling reminders
  • Partner entry notifications
  • In-app chat
  • Passcode protection
Features
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Embrace is a journalling app for couples in a BDSM dynamic. Embrace allows you to keep a diary together with your partner. You can choose to write entries that are private (just for you), or entries that you want to share with your partner(s). Whether you've been practicing kink for a long time, or you're new to the scene, Embrace will help you and your partner(s) feel more connected! Main features: - Journal privately or together with your partner - Get unique journaling prompts and questions every day to inspire you to write - Assign prompts for your partner to write about - Set reminders to help you keep on track - Get notified when your partner writes an entry - Chat with your partner - Protect your app with a passcode - Customize your app with different color themes - Connect with Obedience to get rewards for journalling ----------------------------------------- This app contains auto-renewable subscriptions. Subscriptions will automatically renew unless canceled within 24-hours before the end of the current period. You can cancel anytime with your iTunes account settings. Any unused portion of a free trial will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription. Privacy policy: https://theembraceapp.com/privacy-policy Terms of Service: https://theembraceapp.com/terms-of-service

Screenshots

iToys4 screens
Embrace4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is review sentiment: Embrace at 92% against iToys's 0%. Embrace also leads on rating (4.8 vs 2.2) and ratings volume (476 vs 12). iToys's advantage is in-app purchases (none vs 7). On price, update cadence, ads and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Embrace sells 6 in-app purchases, starting at $6.99 per month. iToys asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

Embrace holds the better App Store score, 4.8 against 2.2. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Embrace has 476 ratings behind it against 12, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 0% of iToys's written reviews are positive against 92% of Embrace's.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

iToys ships an update every 4 weeks, Embrace fortnightly. Both last shipped on October 24, 2026.

Scorecard5 real differences · 5 level
iToys versus Embrace: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameteriToysEmbrace
PriceFreeFree
Rating2.2 (12 ratings)4.8 (476 ratings) — better
Positive reviews0.0% of reviews91.7% of reviews — better
Number of ratings12476 — better
Update frequencyEvery 4 weeksFortnightly — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesNo — betterYes
MonetizationFree — betterSubscription
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod — better
Requires iOS15.615.6
Further details — not scored
Size26 MB75 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperShenZhen SYL Technology CO.,LtdObedience B.V.

Customer experience

iToys

All ratings11 ratings
Positive27.3%
Neutral9.1%
Negative63.6%
Written reviews2 reviews
Positive0.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative100.0%

Embrace

All ratings456 ratings
Positive98.0%
Neutral1.3%
Negative0.7%
Written reviews72 reviews
Positive91.7%
Neutral2.8%
Negative5.6%

Bugs and requests

iToys

Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.

Embrace

Reported bugs

2 issues
  • Inconsistent syncing between Obedience and Embrace apps
  • Notifications of incomplete assignments despite completing them

Requested features

5 requests
  • Save/favorite prompts for later use
  • Personalize relationship types for better questions
  • Ability to see when partner has read an entry
  • Folders to organize different types of journal entries
  • Visualization of mood tracking over time

In-app purchases

None

iToys

No in-app purchases

6 purchases

Embrace

Subscriptions6
  • Monthly$6.991 Month
  • Quarterly$14.993 Months
  • Yearly$14.991 Year
Show 3 more
  • Yearly1 Year trial2 variants$29.991 Year
  • Yearly$29.991 Year
  • Yearly7 Days trial$29.991 Year

Questions

Is iToys free?
iToys is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is Embrace free?
Embrace is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, iToys or Embrace?
Embrace is rated higher. iToys averages 2.2 out of 5 from 12 ratings, while Embrace averages 4.8 from 476 ratings.
Do iToys or Embrace have ads?
Neither iToys nor Embrace shows ads.
Which is updated more often, iToys or Embrace?
iToys ships an update every 4 weeks, and Embrace fortnightly. Most recently, iToys was updated on October 24, 2026 and Embrace on October 24, 2026.

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