OurRelationship vs Vesper
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
OurRelationship
An online program offering research-backed tools and activities to help couples improve communication, intimacy, and trust. It addresses common relationship issues and can be completed in four to six weeks, with options for self-direction or guided coaching.
- Tailored content and activities
- Improve communication skills
- Regain intimacy
- Build trust
- Self-directed or coach-guided options
- Research-backed tools
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OurRelationship is an inclusive online program with tailored content and activities designed to uncover, understand and solve the relationship issues that couples face. The program is backed by more than a decade of research and provides effective tools and resources for couples and individuals to improve communication skills, regain intimacy and build trust. The program takes four to six weeks to complete and can be self-directed or guided by a program coach.
Vesper
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Vesper is the AI-powered date night app built for couples who want to stop saying "I don't know, what do you want to do?" and actually do something worth remembering. Tell Vesper your vibe — cozy, romantic, adventurous, foodie — and it builds a complete evening plan in seconds. Real venues, a full timeline, drink pairings, conversation starters, and a budget that works for you. WHAT'S INSIDE 70+ date night cards across 6 moods AI planner that builds a full itinerary from any card Question of the Day — one meaningful question to ask your partner every day Card of the Day with a daily streak to keep the habit Memories tab to log, rate, and revisit your favorite nights Smart suggestions that learn what you love over time Share any date card or question to Instagram or iMessage VESPER PLUS Unlock everything with Vesper Plus: Unlimited AI date plans 15 premium experiences — private chef dinners, helicopter tours, spa days, glamping, rooftop cinema and more 22 spicy intimacy cards across 3 escalating tiers 4 deep question packs — Going Deeper, Intimacy & Connection, The Future, What's Working $4.99/month. Cancel anytime. Make tonight worth remembering.
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Verdict
The clearest difference is in-app purchases: OurRelationship at none against Vesper's 2. OurRelationship also leads on iOS requirement (14.0 vs 26.5). On price, ads and device support there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Vesper sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month. OurRelationship asks for nothing beyond the download.
| Parameter | OurRelationship | Vesper |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 5.0 (14 ratings) — better | — |
| Positive reviews | 100.0% of reviews | — |
| Number of ratings | 14 — better | — |
| Update frequency | Every 9 months | — |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | No — better | Yes |
| Monetization | Free | — |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod — better | iPhone |
| Requires iOS | 14.0 — better | 26.5 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 1 MB | 13 MB |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | Kineo Group Inc. | Jasmine Maddy-Taylor |
In-app purchases
OurRelationship
No in-app purchases
Vesper
- Vesper Plus$4.991 Month
- Vesper Plus$29.991 Year
Questions
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