Comparison

FlrtAlert vs NOTICED YOU

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

FlrtAlert

Discover compatible people nearby in real-time without endless swiping. This app alerts you when someone matching your preferences is within range, allowing for low-pressure initial contact and instant messaging. Safety features like a home privacy zone and ghost mode are included.

Highlights
  • Real-time proximity alerts
  • Low-pressure nudges
  • Home privacy zone
  • Ghost Mode
  • Smart matching filters
  • Real-time chat
  • Panic button
Features
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FlrtAlert is the ambient proximity dating app -- Find My Friends meets serendipity. Instead of endless swiping, FlrtAlert quietly runs in the background and alerts you in real time when someone compatible is physically nearby. HOW IT WORKS Set up your profile, preferences, and discovery radius. FlrtAlert monitors your surroundings and pings your phone when a match walks into range. No more missed connections. WHAT MAKES FLRTALERT DIFFERENT - FlrtAlert Nudge: engage with potential matches BEFORE either of you has to swipe. Send a low-pressure nudge first, see if there is interest, then connect. Unique to FlrtAlert. - Real-Time Proximity Alerts: instant notification when a compatible match is nearby. Live your life. FlrtAlert does the watching. - Home Privacy Zone: your home location is automatically fuzzed using GPS scrambling so nobody can pinpoint your address. A safety feature unique to FlrtAlert. - Ghost Mode: go fully invisible with one tap, anytime. - Smart Matching: filter by age, gender preferences, and exact distance radius. - Real-Time Chat: message your matches the moment sparks fly. With read receipts and typing indicators. - Night Mode: automatically pause location sharing while you sleep. - Panic Button: one tap sends your GPS location to your emergency contact. BUILT FOR SAFETY Your precise coordinates are NEVER shared with other users. Only approximate distance is shown. Background location is encrypted at every step. HOW WE USE LOCATION FlrtAlert needs background location access to deliver proximity alerts when the app is not actively open. You can disable location anytime in settings or activate Ghost Mode for full invisibility. FOR ADULTS 18+ FlrtAlert is for adults seeking genuine human connection in the real world.

About

NOTICED YOU

Connect with people you've had a 'mutual notice' with in public. Create a profile, share photos, and message others. Find potential matches using detailed search filters based on location and identifiers.

Highlights
  • Profile creation with photos
  • Favorite other members
  • Photo albums
  • Direct messaging
  • View online users nearby
  • Search by location and identifiers
  • Username search (upgraded)
Features
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Description Noticed You is designed to connect people who have experienced a ‘mutual notice’ in public and allows them to interact via messaging directly through the site. The site is free to join but upgradeable features can be purchased as well. The following are descriptions of features throughout the site: Profile Users will be able to create a profile which will have the option to post a profile photo, cover photo and basic info about the user. Favorites Users will be able to favorite other members and can also be favorited by others. Photos Users will be able to post 8 photos as free members but can post an additional 8 photos as upgraded members. Photos can be cropped. Photo Album In addition to photos, users will be able to post photos to a Photo Album, essentially grouping photos in one location. Messaging Users will be able to message each other, block users and delete conversations. Online Users There is a button located throughout the site which allows users to view other members that are currently online within a 30-mile radius of the users’ zip code. Usernames Users will create a ‘username’ at their discretion. Noticed You does not require that users use their own personal names as their username. Find Who Noticed You The find who noticed you feature is unique in that it allows users to locate the person with whom they experienced a ‘mutual notice.’ When attempting to locate a person the user simply will use the filters which include State, City, Specific Location and Key Identifiers. Key Identifiers are any descriptive item of clothing that either person was wearing during the mutual notice. Note: key identifiers can be items other than clothing, it can be a vehicle as well or anything that will assist in identifying e.g., Key Identifiers can look like this: Blue Dress, White Car, Black Pants. Free users will be able to use 3 Key Identifier filters. Upgraded members will be allowed to use an additional 3 filters for a total of 6 and will also be allowed to search using a Username filter as well. Upgradeable feature buttons such as Username Search, Additional Key Identifiers and Additional Photos are shaded in gray and once clicked the user will be redirected to the Payment Options page. Users will be able to search by Distance by inputting miles in increments of 10 miles with a max of 80 miles. Users can also search by Age Range. Note: It is not necessary to have noticed someone in public to browse other singles on the site. Edit Identifiers When editing identifiers, a user must enter as many details as possible in the Edit Identifiers page. The idea is that the person that they noticed will also enter a few matching details (details do not all need to match), in hopes of returning the person they noticed during their search. Key Identifiers, State, City, Specific Location and Zip Code editable fields on the Edit Identifiers page. Zip Code: The entered zip code here will allow the user to be displayed in other member searches. For example, when a user searches by zip code, when being displayed on the Photo Slider on the main page and in Online Users. 48-hour Wipe of fields: After 48 hours of inactivity on this page, a users’ information will be deleted. The reason behind this is to ensure that the user is actively using this feature and not returning in user searches while not using the service. Photo Slider As new members begin populating the site, the photo slider on the main page will display members of the opposite sex within a 90-mile radius. This is a trial and can be adjusted to a shorter distance by Noticed You. Note: Prior to becoming a member and when a person is just deciding whether to create a profile or not, both male and female members will be displayed on the photo slider. Up to 40 members will be displayed on the Photo Slider. Terms of Use: https://noticedyou.com/terms-and-agreement/

Screenshots

FlrtAlert4 screens
NOTICED YOU4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: NOTICED YOU at none against FlrtAlert's 2. FlrtAlert's advantage is update cadence (every 3 months vs every 21 months). On price, rating, ratings volume and ads there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. FlrtAlert sells 1 one-off in-app purchase. NOTICED YOU asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

On the App Store both sit at effectively the same score — 5.0 for FlrtAlert against 5.0 for NOTICED YOU. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 2 and 2 respectively.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

FlrtAlert ships an update every 3 months, NOTICED YOU every 21 months. The most recent releases landed on November 1, 2026 and November 3, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard3 real differences · 7 level
FlrtAlert versus NOTICED YOU: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterFlrtAlertNOTICED YOU
PriceFreeFree
Rating5.0 (2 ratings)5.0 (2 ratings)
Positive reviews100.0% of reviews—
Number of ratings22
Update frequencyEvery 3 months — betterEvery 21 months
AdsYesYes
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
MonetizationFree — betterFree with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod
Requires iOS15.114.0 — better
Further details — not scored
Size52 MB1 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperFlrtAlertNOTICEDYOU.COM LLC

Customer experience

FlrtAlert

All ratings2 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%
Written reviews2 reviews
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

NOTICED YOU

All ratings2 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

In-app purchases

1 purchases

FlrtAlert

One-time1
  • FlrtAlert Pro2 variants$3.99
None

NOTICED YOU

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is FlrtAlert free?
FlrtAlert is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is NOTICED YOU free?
NOTICED YOU is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Which has better reviews, FlrtAlert or NOTICED YOU?
FlrtAlert and NOTICED YOU are both rated 5.0 out of 5 on the App Store, from 2 and 2 ratings respectively.
Do FlrtAlert or NOTICED YOU have ads?
Both FlrtAlert and NOTICED YOU show ads.
Which is updated more often, FlrtAlert or NOTICED YOU?
FlrtAlert ships an update every 3 months, and NOTICED YOU every 21 months. Most recently, FlrtAlert was updated on November 1, 2026 and NOTICED YOU on November 3, 2026.

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