Love Nudge vs Cupla
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
Love Nudge
This app helps users intentionally express love to their partners by focusing on the five love languages. It facilitates learning each other's preferences, sending encouraging messages, setting relationship goals, and tracking emotional connection levels.
- Identify partner's love language
- Send encouraging 'nudges'
- Set and track relationship goals
- Monitor 'love tank' levels
- Facilitates real-life connection
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Your Personal Assistant for Relationships Between busy schedules and long days, expressing love can sometimes fall by the wayside. We forget to give gifts “just because,” offer compliments, or linger in our embraces. The things that say “I love you” seem to either not get said or not get through. As a result, our relationships can easily erode and the spark can fade. Love Nudge is a fun, habit-forming app that helps you intentionally express love in ways that are most meaningful to your partner. Designed for real-life connection, Love Nudge takes the concepts of Dr. Gary Chapman’s #1 New York Times best-seller The 5 Love Languages® to the next level. You and your loved one can learn each other’s love languages, exchange encouraging and playful nudges, set and track activity goals, and monitor the levels of each other’s love tanks for better communication and intimacy. It’s like having a personal assistant… for your relationship. The 5 Love Languages® by Dr. Gary Chapman has helped millions of couples strengthen their relationships… one language at a time. For almost two decades, The 5 Love Languages® has stood unrivaled as a top resource for love and relationships. NOTE: Love Nudge relies on a consistent internet connection. If you’re not connected when you launch the app, or if you disconnect while you’re using the app, Love Nudge will not perform as it should.
Cupla
This app helps couples synchronize their lives by offering a shared calendar, to-do lists, and wishlists. It aims to reduce stress, improve communication, and facilitate planning for dates, chores, and future aspirations.
- Shared calendar synchronization
- Joint to-do lists and reminders
- Collaborative wishlists
- Key date tracking and countdowns
- Flexible privacy controls
- Date night goal setting
- Memories feed
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• • • Cupla: The fastest way to a better relationship.• • • Because great relationships don’t just happen. They are planned together. Cupla is the relationship app for couples who want to stay in sync, reduce mental load, improve communication, and plan life together more easily. Cupla is the only app with university-backed research on its impact on relationships: • 75% of users say Cupla reduces stress and friction in their relationship. • 65% of users say Cupla helps them spend more quality time together. Created by a real couple, Cupla is the original planning app trusted by 500,000+ couples to stay connected. • • • A shared calendar built for couples.• • • Complete schedule visibility. See all of your calendars and work schedules together in one place and make plans that actually happen. Cupla syncs with Apple, Google, Outlook, work rosters, and shared family calendars, so you can stay connected across work, life, and everything in between. • View both schedules side by side • Create shared events in seconds • Add plans directly to your partner’s calendar • Choose what to share with flexible privacy controls More quality time, less mental load with To-dos and Lists made for real life • Keep up with the details of life together without constant back-and-forth. • Share chores, groceries, errands, and travel plans • Assign reminders to yourself or your partner • Keep track of the little things without nagging • Turn everyday admin into shared teamwork Wishlists made for two • Save and organise the things you want to do together. • Create wishlists for date ideas, gifts, travel, and future plans, all in one place. • Found something on Instagram or TikTok? Save and share it instantly so nothing gets lost. Key Dates and Quality Time features that enhance relationships • Keep track of all of life’s important moments, from anniversaries and birthdays to upcoming trips, with Key Dates and countdowns. • Set a goal for how often you want to go on date night and Cupla will send you helpful reminders to meet your goal. • Relive past dates with the beautiful Memories feed. • Widgets to keep your life together front and center. Why couples love Cupla “Cupla has changed everything. We finally plan dates around his crazy schedule, and we have chores organised so we’re contributing equally.” “Cupla helps us feel more like partners in everything.” “Finding time was tough. Cupla makes it fast and easy.” Everything couples need to plan life together: • Shared calendar for couples • Wishlists for date ideas, gifts, and travel • Shared to-dos, lists, and reminders • Anniversary and event planning • Cross-platform calendar syncing • Private sharing controls No more diary clashes, forgotten plans, or missed opportunities to connect. Join the 500,000+ couples already using Cupla. Download Cupla and start planning life together. View the university-backed research - https://cupla.app/blog/2025-impact-report/ Terms & Conditions - https://cupla.app/terms/ Privacy Policy - https://cupla.app/privacy-policy/
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Verdict
The clearest difference is ads: Cupla at none against Love Nudge's shown. Cupla also leads on review sentiment (73% vs 44%) and update cadence (every 2 weeks vs every 2 months). Love Nudge's advantage is ratings volume (18K vs 2.3K) and iOS requirement (13.0 vs 16.0). On price, rating, in-app purchases and monetization model there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Love Nudge sells 1 one-off in-app purchase and Cupla sells 8 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
On the App Store both sit at effectively the same score — 4.6 for Love Nudge against 4.7 for Cupla. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Love Nudge has 18K ratings behind it against 2.3K, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews are what separate them: 44% of Love Nudge's written reviews are positive against 73% of Cupla's.
Love Nudge ships an update every 2 months, Cupla every 2 weeks. The most recent releases landed on November 8, 2026 and November 7, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | Love Nudge | Cupla |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 4.6 (18K ratings) | 4.7 (2.3K ratings) — better |
| Positive reviews | 44.0% of reviews | 72.7% of reviews — better |
| Number of ratings | 18K — better | 2.3K |
| Update frequency | Every 2 months | Every 2 weeks — better |
| Ads | Yes | No — better |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | Free with in-app purchases |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod — better | iPhone |
| Requires iOS | 13.0 — better | 16.0 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 78 MB | 248 MB |
| Age rating | 9+ | 12+ |
| Developer | The Moody Bible Institute of Chicago | Cupla Limited |
Customer experience
Love Nudge
Cupla
User reviews
Love Nudge
From 18K App Store ratingsWhat we love
- 💕 Great concept
- 🤝 Helps with communication
- 🧠 Insightful love language quiz
- 🔍 Provides relationship insights
- 🗓️ Helpful reminders
Room to improve
- 🤔 Confusing interface
- 🔒 Requires account creation
- 🤫 Notes not visible to partner
- 🚫 Limited functionality for singles
- 📈 Subjective love tank percentages
Cupla
From 2.3K App Store ratingsWhat we love
- 👍 Easy to use
- 🚀 Helpful for organizing schedules
- 💡 Great shared calendar features
- 👍 Useful for couples and busy lives
- 👍 Intuitive interface
Room to improve
- 🐛 Calendar sync issues
- 🐛 Buggy and glitchy at times
- 🔒 Paywall for full functionality
- 🐛 Inconsistent performance
- 🐛 Inability to delete old synced events
Bugs and requests
Love Nudge
Reported bugs
4 issues- Login issues
- Notifications not working
- App crashes
- Inconsistent date/time display
Requested features
5 requests- Ability to share goals with partner
- Option to order love languages
- Customizable reminders
- Suggestions based on love languages
- Family/group version
Cupla
Reported bugs
4 issues- Notifications not working as expected
- Calendar dates and events not displaying correctly
- Syncing issues between partner calendars
- App freezing or crashing
Requested features
5 requests- More customization options (colors, widgets, etc.)
- Ability to add more than 3 calendars (e.g. for kids)
- Improved calendar view and navigation
- Integration with other apps and calendars
- Chat or notes feature for events
In-app purchases
Love Nudge
- Learning the 5 Love Languages$9.99
Cupla
- Monthly14 Days trial2 variants$4.991 Month
- Monthly$4.991 Month
- Monthly$5.991 Month
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- Monthly$7.991 Month
- Yearly14 Days trial2 variants$34.991 Year
- Cupla Plus14 Days trial$39.991 Year
- Yearly14 Days trial$44.991 Year
- Yearly14 Days trial$59.991 Year








