Comparison

The Bench vs Clique.it

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

The Bench

Easily update your closest friends and family on your dating life and relationship drama. Create profiles for people you're dating or interested in, invite your trusted inner circle, and share updates through an activity feed. It's designed for deeper personal connections, not mindless engagement.

Highlights
  • Create player profiles with photos and details
  • Organize contacts into an active roster or 'bench'
  • Invite a trusted inner circle for private sharing
  • Update dating status and drama via activity feed
  • Focuses on deep personal interactions
  • Drama Updating Technology (DUP Tech)
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The Bench is the ultimate app for all of your dating and drama needs. Never again will you have to update all of your friends on a new development or the status of your relationship – or lack thereof – on multiple platforms. With The Bench, you can easily and quickly update everyone in your inner circle on all of your dating and drama news without having to repeat yourself. The Bench - because there's always something going on. Staying up to date with your friends and the dating drama in their lives has never been easier. The Bench is focused on lifting the pain of the drama of dating and improving the quality of engagement with your closest friends and family. While other apps are creating algorithms to generate content to attract users, The Bench nails the concept of time well spent. The content goes beyond mindless engagement and is focused on the actual personal interactions one has with their close friends. The interaction is more deeply involved and deeply engaged. The Bench is Human Interest Sticky, not Algorithmically Sticky. The Bench is the pioneer of drama updating technology (DUP Tech) by providing an app that allows users to foster more than just surface level engagement. The industry-leading app empowers users to update their closest friends and family on the drama in their dating lives in three simple steps: Creating your Roster: You will create your roster by creating your individual players' profiles. So what is a player? A player is anyone you are dating, talking to, have a crush on or are in a situation-ship with. For each person that you’re talking to or have talked to YOU create their profile. This is not pulled from some other social media accounts. You add their name, photos, important information like their birthday, zodiac sign and dog’s name or anything else you want to remember and you give them a nickname that will be used throughout the app. The players will not be able to see this profile unless you invite them and they will not even necessarily know that they are on your roster unless you or someone you know tells them. You can add as many players as you like to your roster. And if there are players who you have talked to in the past but may not be talking to now you can swipe right and move them from your active roster to the bench. Invite your Inner Circle: You will invite your closest friends and confidantes to your inner circle. This is a one time invite link that cannot be shared. This is for your people. The people with whom you spill the tea. This is not for casual friends and acquaintances or friends who you don’t trust with your drama. Your shared with me page is the list of people who have shared their inner circles with you. Note: just because you are in someone’s inner circle does not necessarily mean they have to be in yours. Now Spill the Tea: By clicking on a player’s profile and updating the status you can easily update your inner circle on new drama via the activity feed. You can type comments or add screenshots/screen-recordings, photos or videos. When you update a players' status, your friends will be notified that you have updated a status. You can drag and drop players up and down the roster to change their rank or as I mentioned earlier, swipe right to bench them. And if they’re really awful, it’s easy to "trade" them and delete them altogether simply by swiping left. You can also see an individual player’s activity from their individual page. People in your inner circle are the only ones who can see your roster and the activity "drama" within it. They can comment, like, dislike and love any update on your activity feed. Or they can DM you if needed.

About

Clique.it

Connect your friend group with other squads nearby for shared activities. Create a squad, swipe on other groups, and instantly chat to make plans for nights out, games, or events. Designed for college students looking to expand their social circle.

Highlights
  • Create and manage friend squads
  • Swipe to discover and match with other squads
  • Group chat with polls and media sharing
  • Squad profiles and temporary stories
  • Discover filter by distance and group size
  • Account verification and privacy controls
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Cliqueit is where friend groups meet friend groups. Make a squad with 1 to 3 of your friends and swipe on other squads near you. When both squads like each other, a group chat opens so you can make plans together. Game nights, pickup games, shows, a night out: it's all better when your crew meets another crew. HOW IT WORKS • Make your squad: invite 1 to 3 friends, and your squad leader can give everyone a tag like "The Organizer" or "Party Starter" • Swipe on squads near you: anyone in the squad can swipe for the group • It's a match when both squads like each other. One like from each squad is all it takes. • The group chat opens: plan it together with polls, GIFs and photos GOING OUT TONIGHT Tap one button and your squad moves to the top of Discover nearby. Say where you're headed and find another crew to meet up with. FEATURES • Squad profiles with group photos and member tags • Squad stories: photos that last 24 hours, with your squadmates tagged • Discover filtered by distance and group size • A group chat for every match, with polls, GIFs and photos • Private messages between members of matched squads • Pause your profile without leaving your squad • Block, report and privacy controls BUILT FOR COLLEGE School filters, a 0 to 50 mile radius and going-out boosts make Cliqueit most fun on a Friday. Bring your friends. SAFETY FIRST Every account is verified with a phone or email code. Blocks and reports are reviewed by our team. Your data is yours, with a 30-day grace period if you delete your account and a full export on request. Cliqueit is free and for ages 18 and up. Questions? support@cliqueit.org Privacy: cliqueit.org/privacy Terms: cliqueit.org/terms

Screenshots

The Bench4 screens
Clique.it4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is rating: Clique.it at 5.0 against The Bench's 4.0. Clique.it also leads on update cadence (every 4 days vs every 5 weeks). The Bench's advantage is ads (none vs shown) and monetization model (free vs ad-supported). On price, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Neither carries in-app purchases, so what you see is what you pay.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

Clique.it holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 4.0. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: The Bench has 8 ratings behind it against 1, so its average is the more settled of the two.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

The Bench ships an update every 5 weeks, Clique.it every 4 days. The most recent releases landed on November 3, 2026 and November 9, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard6 real differences · 4 level
The Bench versus Clique.it: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterThe BenchClique.it
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.0 (8 ratings)5.0 (1 ratings) — better
Positive reviews100.0% of reviews—
Number of ratings8 — better1
Update frequencyEvery 5 weeksEvery 4 days — better
AdsNo — betterYes
In-app purchasesNoNo
MonetizationFree — betterAd-supported
DevicesiPhone, iPod — betteriPhone
Requires iOS14.0 — better16.4
Further details — not scored
Size61 MB57 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperAample Social IncClique It, Inc

In-app purchases

None

The Bench

No in-app purchases

None

Clique.it

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is The Bench free?
The Bench is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is Clique.it free?
Clique.it is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Which has better reviews, The Bench or Clique.it?
Clique.it is rated higher. The Bench averages 4.0 out of 5 from 8 ratings, while Clique.it averages 5.0 from 1 ratings.
Do The Bench or Clique.it have ads?
Clique.it shows ads; The Bench does not.
Which is updated more often, The Bench or Clique.it?
The Bench ships an update every 5 weeks, and Clique.it every 4 days. Most recently, The Bench was updated on November 3, 2026 and Clique.it on November 9, 2026.

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