Comparison

Deep Conversations vs Unspoken

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Deep Conversations

Spark deeper connections with your partner through engaging and thought-provoking questions. This app facilitates meaningful conversations, moving beyond everyday topics to strengthen your relationship.

Highlights
  • Meaningful questions for couples
  • Enhance communication
  • Strengthen relationships
  • Deep, fun, engaging conversations
  • Thought-provoking discussion topics
Features
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Looking for ways to enhance your communication with your partner? Deeper offers meaningful questions for couples to discuss and strengthen their relationship. With this app, you can expect to have deep, fun, engaging, and thought-provoking conversations that go beyond mundane, day-to-day topics. Whether you are looking to connect on a deeper level, or simply want to spark up some interesting conversations with your partner, Deeper is the perfect app for you! Download now and start generating questions that will take your relationship to the next level. Terms and Conditions: https://potent-stew-cbf.notion.site/Deeper-Terms-and-Conditions-f81e24d37d6c4aa4abc8fd9dd1cd075c Privacy Policy: https://potent-stew-cbf.notion.site/Deeper-Privacy-Policy-e0643b91772347bf8f708ef3b2477503

About

Unspoken

Features
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Some sexual preferences rarely come up in everyday conversation. Not because they're dirty — but because saying them out loud the first time is hard. Maybe you've had the thought: "Would my partner want this too? If yes, I don't know." Unspoken is a small, quiet app for exactly that moment. You and your partner swipe — separately, unseen — through the same catalogue of wishes, practices, and fantasies: Yes, Maybe, No. What you reject or feel unsure about, your partner never sees. What they reject, you never see. Only the answers you both mark "Yes" — the real intersections — surface later as shared discoveries. And not as a list you work through in a single evening, but slowly: individual matches, spread across weeks and sometimes months, as small push notifications to you or your partner. The point isn't to tick off a catalogue. The point is to keep things in motion between you — month after month, a fresh nudge. FOR WHOM For couples who've been together for years and want to feel sparks in bed again — without having to negotiate every detail across an entire evening. For couples ready to go further: who've already tried plenty together and are curious what could come next. For anyone who hesitates to voice certain things before being sure the other person wants them too. Unspoken does the asking for you: when the match appears, you both know it's a mutual Yes. HOW IT WORKS • Install Unspoken for free and browse at your own pace — every category, every preference, no commitment. • Once you've decided to invite your partner, you open the pairing with a one-time in-app purchase. The app stays free for your partner. • You send the invitation link, you both swipe at your own pace, from wherever you are. • Matches arrive trickled out as push notifications, spread across weeks and months. • What you do with them is up to the two of you. WHAT MAKES UNSPOKEN DIFFERENT • Privacy by architecture, not by promise. Your answers are hashed cryptographically on-device; the server never sees what you ticked. Not even the developers can reverse the hashes. • No ads. No trackers. No recommendations based on what other couples answered. • No account, no profile, no real name. Each device gets a random anonymous ID — paired to your partner via the invitation link, to no one else. • You both see the same intersection — but only when there's a "Yes" on both sides. No one-sided "one of you sees something the other doesn't". • Built for the long run. Unspoken wants to keep you and your partner in conversation over time, not just for one evening. Each match arrives individually, with real spacing — momentum that lasts, instead of a checklist for date night. IMPORTANT Unspoken shares nothing with third parties. There's no matching with strangers, no public profiles. The app exists only for the connection between you and your partner.

Screenshots

Deep Conversations4 screens
Unspoken4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is update cadence: Deep Conversations at every 11 days against Unspoken's every 5 months. On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Deep Conversations sells 9 in-app purchases, starting at $3.99 per 7 days and Unspoken sells 1 one-off in-app purchase. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Deep Conversations ships an update every 11 days, Unspoken every 5 months. The most recent releases landed on October 2, 2026 and October 3, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard1 real difference · 9 level
Deep Conversations versus Unspoken: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterDeep ConversationsUnspoken
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.4 (27 ratings) — better—
Positive reviews0.0% of reviews—
Number of ratings27 — better—
Update frequencyEvery 11 days — betterEvery 5 months
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod — better
Requires iOS15.015.0
Further details — not scored
Size101 MB74 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperRalph Mendel OrdanzaCarl Philipp Bickmeier

In-app purchases

9 purchases

Deep Conversations

Subscriptions3
  • Weekly Plan3 Days trial$3.997 Days
  • Monthly Plan$4.991 Month
  • Yearly Plan$39.991 Year
One-time6
  • 100 Questions$1.99
  • 50 Questions$2.99
  • 300 Questions$3.99
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  • 500 Questions$4.99
  • 200 Questions$5.99
  • 500 Questions$7.99
1 purchases

Unspoken

One-time1
  • Unlock invitation$9.99

Questions

Is Deep Conversations free?
Deep Conversations is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Unspoken free?
Unspoken is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Deep Conversations or Unspoken have ads?
Neither Deep Conversations nor Unspoken shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Deep Conversations or Unspoken?
Deep Conversations ships an update every 11 days, and Unspoken every 5 months. Most recently, Deep Conversations was updated on October 2, 2026 and Unspoken on October 3, 2026.

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