Comparison

ABOVE vs When We First

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

ABOVE

This dating app connects individuals committed to a clean and sober lifestyle. It offers a substance-free community, authentic connections through verification, and tailored matchmaking based on shared values. Features include private messaging, icebreakers, community forums, and virtual events.

Highlights
  • Substance-free community
  • Verified profiles
  • Tailored matchmaking algorithms
  • Private messaging
  • Community forums
  • Virtual events
Features
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Welcome to ABOVE, the premier dating app for individuals who choose to live a clean and sober lifestyle. Whether you're in recovery, committed to a substance-free life, or simply seeking a partner who shares your values, ABOVE is the perfect platform for you. Why Choose ABOVE? Substance-Free Community: Every member on ABOVE is dedicated to a life free from alcohol and drugs. Connect with people who understand and support your commitment to a healthier, cleaner lifestyle. Authentic Connections: Our stringent verification process ensures that all profiles are genuine and aligned with our clean-living values. Focus on building meaningful relationships without the distractions of other dating apps. Tailored Matchmaking: Our intelligent algorithms consider your preferences, lifestyle, and values to connect you with like-minded singles. Enjoy personalized matches that truly resonate with your way of life. Engaging Features: From private messaging to fun icebreakers, ABOVE offers a variety of features designed to foster genuine connections. Participate in community forums, join virtual events, and find your perfect match in a supportive environment. Privacy and Security: Your safety is our top priority. ABOVE uses advanced security measures to protect your personal information, ensuring a secure and trustworthy dating experience. Join ABOVE Today! Ready to meet substance-free singles who share your values? Download ABOVE now and start connecting with a community that celebrates a clean and healthy lifestyle. Love is just a click away! Download ABOVE and discover your clean match today! • Privacy Policy: https://app.aboveapp.net/privacy • Terms & Conditions: https://app.aboveapp.net/terms • EULA: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

About

When We First

This dating app offers a human-centered approach to finding meaningful connections. It combines expert matchmakers and dating coaches with advanced algorithms to help users create standout profiles, receive personalized advice, and secure guaranteed dates. Access a partner marketplace for additional dating support services.

Highlights
  • Human Button for matchmaker access
  • Personalized profile help and setup
  • Dating coaching and advice
  • Guaranteed dates
  • Expert algorithms
  • Partner marketplace access
  • VIP membership options
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When We First: Look Beyond the Likes! Tired of swiping endlessly with no real connection? Welcome to When We First, the dating app that brings a real human touch back into the world of online dating. Whether you're busy with work or ready to find something meaningful, we've created a revolutionary experience to help you meet genuine people—with the help of real matchmakers. What Makes Us Different? At When We First, we believe finding love is personal. That's why we built an app with real people in mind. With our exclusive Human Button, you can connect with real matchmakers and dating experts for: • Personalized Profile Help & Setup: Struggling to make your profile stand out? We don't just review profiles—we can set them up for you! Get help from experts who know how to highlight your best traits and make you shine. • Dating Coaching: Receive real-time dating advice from professionals who guide you through everything from your first message to your first date. • Guaranteed Dates: Looking for something real? With matchmaking services, we guarantee dates based on your preferences and personality. How It Works 1. Create Your Profile: Share your interests, what you're looking for, and let us know a little about you. 2. Click the Human Button: Need help? Our matchmakers are standing by to review or set up your profile, offer guidance, or work with you one-on-one to ensure you're ready for meaningful connections. 3. Start Dating: See quality profiles prioritized by your relationship goals, and connect with real people who align with what you're looking for. 4. Upgrade for VIP Access: Unlock premium services for deeper matchmaking, dating insights, and exclusive date opportunities. Why When We First? • Real Matchmakers and Expert Algorithms: Our algorithm isn't just based on random swipes; it's designed by experienced dating experts to help you find genuine connections. • More Insights, More Connections: Unsure how you're doing online? We provide real-time dating insights, help you select your best photos, and guide you toward making stronger connections. • A Personal Touch: Whether you need help crafting that perfect first message or preparing for a big date, our team is here to guide you every step of the way. Marketplace Access Our customers gain access to an exclusive partner marketplace, where you can connect with professionals such as photographers, image consultants, wellness gurus, astrologers, and restaurant partners. These experts help you look and feel your best throughout your dating journey. From professional photos to curated date spots and tailored wellness advice, our marketplace ensures you're ready for every step. VIP Membership Ready to take things to the next level? Upgrade to our VIP membership and unlock premium features like: • Introductions to Real-Life Matches: Get introduced to matches who align with your relationship goals and meet in real life. • Exclusive Matchmaking Services: VIP members receive priority access to customized matchmaking services, including weekly coaching and guaranteed dates. Join the Movement! When We First is more than just a dating app—it's the first app built by a real matchmaking expert. By blending cutting-edge technology with personalized human insight, we create real connections. We're reintroducing what it means to find love in a digital world—with expertise and care. Download When We First today and experience the difference. Love starts here.

Screenshots

ABOVE4 screens
When We First4 screens

Verdict

The call

ABOVE and When We First both sit at 3.7 stars, but that hides the real split: 57% of When We First's written reviews are positive against 0% of ABOVE's. When We First also leads on ratings volume (19 vs 3). ABOVE's advantage is iOS requirement (12.0 vs 14.0.0). On price, rating, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. ABOVE sells 10 in-app purchases, starting at $12.99 per month and When We First sells 10 in-app purchases, starting at $50.00 per 7 days. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

On the App Store both sit at effectively the same score — 3.7 for ABOVE against 3.6 for When We First. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: When We First has 19 ratings behind it against 3, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews are what separate them: 0% of ABOVE's written reviews are positive against 57% of When We First's.

Scorecard3 real differences · 7 level
ABOVE versus When We First: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterABOVEWhen We First
PriceFreeFree
Rating3.7 (3 ratings) — better3.6 (19 ratings)
Positive reviews0.0% of reviews57.1% of reviews — better
Number of ratings319 — better
Update frequency—Fortnightly
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFreemiumFree with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPod
Requires iOS12.0 — better14.0.0
Further details — not scored
Size38 MB128 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperClean Connections LLCWhenWeFirst Inc.

Customer experience

ABOVE

All ratings3 ratings
Positive66.7%
Neutral0.0%
Negative33.3%
Written reviews1 reviews
Positive0.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative100.0%

When We First

All ratings19 ratings
Positive63.2%
Neutral0.0%
Negative36.8%
Written reviews7 reviews
Positive57.1%
Neutral0.0%
Negative42.9%

In-app purchases

10 purchases

ABOVE

Subscriptions1
  • Premium - Monthly$12.991 Month
One-time9
  • 1 Boost credit$0.49
  • 1 Superlike$0.59
  • 5 Super Likes$14.95
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  • 5 Boost credits$14.95
  • 5 Superlikes$14.95
  • 10 Boosts$24.90
  • 10 Superlikes$24.90
  • 3 Boosts$26.99
  • 15 Superlikes$29.95
10 purchases

When We First

Subscriptions5
  • Premium Membership$50.007 Days
  • Advantage Membership$59.001 Month
  • Elite Membership$100.007 Days
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  • Premium Membership$174.991 Month
  • Elite Membership$350.001 Month
One-time5
  • 3 Green Flags$8.00
  • Trusted Badge$10.00
  • Get Endorsed$10.00
Show 2 more
  • 10 Green Flags$22.00
  • 20 Green Flags$30.00

Questions

Is ABOVE free?
ABOVE is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is When We First free?
When We First is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, ABOVE or When We First?
ABOVE is rated higher. ABOVE averages 3.7 out of 5 from 3 ratings, while When We First averages 3.6 from 19 ratings.
Do ABOVE or When We First have ads?
Neither ABOVE nor When We First shows ads.

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