Comparison

Bond vs Obey

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Bond

This app helps couples explore BDSM and kink dynamics by setting rules, tracking obedience, and managing goals. It offers a secure, private space for communication and accountability, fostering trust and deeper connection within structured relationships.

Highlights
  • Define rules and boundaries
  • Track tasks and habits
  • Manage rewards and consequences
  • Points system for motivation
  • Private couples chat
  • Goal setting and accountability
Features
Read full description

Make your relationship more fun and playful with daily activities and challenges designed for couples. Bond helps partners stay connected through shared activities, daily habits, and progress tracking you build together. Download free and start exploring today. WHAT YOU'LL DO TOGETHER Bond creates a private space for you and your partner to: - Complete daily activities and challenges together - Build shared habits and routines - Track your progress and celebrate milestones - Stay connected with private messaging - See your journey grow over time Perfect for couples who want more fun, better communication, and consistent daily connection. HOW IT WORKS Get Started in Minutes - Connect with your partner instantly - Browse ready-to-play challenges and activities - Create custom activities tailored to your relationship - Complete tasks together - Track your progress and watch your journey grow Create Your Experience - Pre-made challenges and activities - Custom activities you design together - Daily habits and check-ins - Private messaging and real-time sync KEY FEATURES - Activities & Challenges – Pre-made and fully customizable - Daily Habits – Check-ins with reminders - Progress Tracking – See your journey together - Private Chat – Encrypted messaging for partners only - 100% Private – Your data stays between you two WHO BOND IS FOR - Couples wanting to add more fun and excitement - Partners who want better daily communication - Anyone looking for couples activities and challenges - Couples who value privacy and consistent connection Not a dating app—exclusively for committed couples. PRIVATE & SECURE Your relationship is personal. All activities, conversations, and progress stay completely private and encrypted between you and your partner. Privacy Policy: https://sites.google.com/view/kinhub/home Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

About

Obey

This app helps BDSM couples build structure, accountability, and communication within their dynamic. It offers habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, private chat, and mood check-ins to foster consent, trust, and mutual agreement. Designed for adults seeking intention and clarity in their relationships.

Highlights
  • Habit tracking with rewards and discipline
  • Role definition (Dominant, Submissive, Switch)
  • Multiple relationship management
  • Private chat with photo support
  • Task validation with pictures
  • Mood check-ins
  • Customizable themes and discreet interface
Features
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Obey is a habit tracker designed for consensual BDSM relationships, helping Dominant, Submissive, and Switch partners bring structure, accountability, and communication into their dynamic. Obey combines habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, allowing partners to create routines that support growth, motivation, and trust. Whether your focus is self-care, daily responsibilities, or agreed-upon discipline, the app adapts to your relationship instead of forcing a generic structure. Users can define their role as Dominant, Submissive, or Switch and manage multiple relationships independently. Each relationship has its own rules, limits, and boundaries, ensuring that consent and expectations are always clear. Tasks can be created with schedules and values, generating points or rewards when completed. These points can be exchanged for rewards or used to reduce agreed-upon punishments, creating a balanced and intentional accountability system. Obey also includes private chat for each relationship, with support for photos. Tasks can be validated manually or with a picture, reinforcing responsibility while keeping communication transparent and respectful. A built-in mood check-in helps partners stay emotionally aware and encourages regular reflection, which is especially important in Dominant and Submissive dynamics. Customization is simple and discreet. Users can choose a theme color and enjoy a clean interface designed for privacy. There are no public profiles or social feeds. Everything remains private between partners. Obey is not a game or a role-play simulator. It is a BDSM habit tracker built around consent, structure, and mutual agreement. It is intended for adults who want to bring intention and clarity into their Dominant or Submissive relationships through routines, accountability, and communication. If you are looking for a habit tracker that respects power exchange, limits, and trust, Obey provides the tools to support your dynamic in a thoughtful and responsible way.

Screenshots

Bond4 screens
Obey4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is rating: Bond at 4.1 against Obey's 1.0. Bond also leads on ratings volume (21 vs 1). Obey's advantage is device support (3 vs 1) and iOS requirement (13.0 vs 17.0). On price, ads, in-app purchases and monetization model there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Bond sells 3 in-app purchases, starting at $6.99 per month and Obey sells 6 one-off in-app purchases. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

Bond holds the better App Store score, 4.1 against 1.0. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Bond has 21 ratings behind it against 1, so its average is the more settled of the two.

Scorecard4 real differences · 6 level
Bond versus Obey: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterBondObey
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.1 (21 ratings) — better1.0 (1 ratings)
Positive reviews0.0% of reviews—
Number of ratings21 — better1
Update frequencyFortnightly—
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFree with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhoneiPhone, iPad, iPod — better
Requires iOS17.013.0 — better
Further details — not scored
Size83 MB50 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperZeus Innovations LLCClement Beal

In-app purchases

3 purchases

Bond

Subscriptions3
  • Monthly subscription3 Days trial$6.991 Month
  • 3 Months Subscription3 Days trial$14.993 Months
  • All Access7 Days trial$29.991 Year
6 purchases

Obey

One-time6
  • 1 Point$2.99
  • 5 Points$9.99
  • 10 Points$17.99
Show 3 more
  • 20 Points$29.99
  • 50 Points$59.99
  • 100 Points$99.99

Questions

Is Bond free?
Bond is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Obey free?
Obey is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, Bond or Obey?
Bond is rated higher. Bond averages 4.1 out of 5 from 21 ratings, while Obey averages 1.0 from 1 ratings.
Do Bond or Obey have ads?
Neither Bond nor Obey shows ads.

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