Comparison

WhenYou vs Nest

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

WhenYou

This app helps couples strengthen their connection by sending personalized love messages. It offers a library of prompts and a private chat feature to foster intimacy and understanding. Discover new ways to express love and appreciate your partner.

Highlights
  • Personalized love messages
  • Love notes library with templates
  • Weekly love note sharing
  • In-app chat for couples
  • Scheduled message delivery
  • 52 weeks of connection program
Features
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WhenYou helps couples cherish their love story, notice the good in each other, and bring more fun into their relationship through thoughtful, scheduled love notes. Create authentic messages that celebrate the everyday moments that often go unnoticed. Whether it's appreciation for a kind gesture, gratitude for unwavering support, or simply reminding your partner why you love them, WhenYou helps you express what matters most. There's something exciting about knowing a heartfelt love note could arrive at any moment. Surprise each other with scheduled deliveries, smile together over meaningful messages, and create new moments of connection that keep your relationship fresh, playful, and intentional. As your collection grows, every love note becomes part of your private love story—a place to revisit the words, memories, and moments that have strengthened your relationship over the years. Features Send personalized love notes to your partner Schedule messages to arrive at meaningful times Receive surprise love notes throughout the week Save every love note in your private love story Browse conversation prompts when you need inspiration Share a secure, private space with your partner Whether you've been together for one year or thirty, WhenYou helps you celebrate each other, laugh together, express appreciation more often, and keep the fun and romance alive—one love note at a time. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://www.whenyou.co/privacy-policy

About

Nest

Features
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Nest helps couples understand how they connect and turn that insight into simple daily actions. Take a short Connection Profile quiz, explore your strongest relationship patterns, and get personalized tasks for yourself, your partner, or both of you. With Nest, you can: • Discover your Connection Profile • Get AI-supported relationship insights • Create personalized couple tasks • Choose tasks for yourself, your partner, or together • Plan thoughtful gestures, shared moments, and playful surprises • Build small habits that make your relationship feel warmer Nest is an independent relationship-care app focused on practical, kind, and playful ways to grow together. Terms of Use: https://nestapp.live/terms Privacy Policy: https://nestapp.live/privacy

Screenshots

WhenYou4 screens
Nest4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is update cadence: Nest at fortnightly against WhenYou's every 6 weeks. On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. WhenYou sells 1 in-app purchase, starting at $27.99 per year and Nest sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $0.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

WhenYou ships an update every 6 weeks, Nest fortnightly. The most recent releases landed on October 30, 2026 and November 9, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard1 real difference · 9 level
WhenYou versus Nest: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterWhenYouNest
PriceFreeFree
Rating5.0 (10 ratings) — better—
Positive reviews100.0% of reviews—
Number of ratings10 — better—
Update frequencyEvery 6 weeksFortnightly — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod — better
Requires iOS15.615.1 — better
Further details — not scored
Size75 MB40 MB
Age rating12+9+
DeveloperAutoShine, LLCLorien Software Ltd

In-app purchases

1 purchases

WhenYou

Subscriptions1
  • Whenyou Subscription Plan3 Days trial$27.991 Year
2 purchases

Nest

Subscriptions2
  • Nest Premium3 Days trial$0.991 Month
  • Nest Premium$0.991 Year

Questions

Is WhenYou free?
WhenYou is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Nest free?
Nest is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do WhenYou or Nest have ads?
Neither WhenYou nor Nest shows ads.
Which is updated more often, WhenYou or Nest?
WhenYou ships an update every 6 weeks, and Nest fortnightly. Most recently, WhenYou was updated on October 30, 2026 and Nest on November 9, 2026.

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