Comparison

Don’t Ask vs DateSpark

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Don’t Ask

This app provides a variety of questions to spark engaging conversations in social settings. Users can select different moods and categories to tailor the discussion, making it ideal for friends, dates, or couples looking to deepen their connections.

Highlights
  • 300+ conversation questions
  • Multiple question categories
  • Mood-based question selection
  • Hide disliked questions
  • Suitable for friends, dates, and couples
  • Unlock additional questions
Features
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Don’t Ask turns ordinary conversations into funny, honest, deep, and sometimes spicy moments. Choose your mood, mix different categories, and start right away. Whether you’re with friends, on a date, spending time as a couple, or hanging out in a group, Don’t Ask gives you questions that keep the conversation going. With 300+ questions, there’s something for every mood – from easy icebreakers and random questions to personal, direct, deep, and spicy topics. Make the game yours: • 300+ questions • Many questions available for free • Choose one mood or mix multiple categories • Hide questions you don’t like • Funny, random, personal, deep, direct, and spicy questions • Made for friends, dates, couples, and groups • Unlock even more questions • No complicated rules – just choose and start Skip the small talk, discover new sides of each other, and see where the conversation takes you.

About

DateSpark

Features
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DateSpark transforms any date into an unforgettable experience with over 1,400 thoughtfully crafted conversation starters. Whether you're on a first date or celebrating years together, DateSpark helps you move beyond small talk and discover what truly matters. Spin the interactive wheel to land on a surprise category, or browse ten curated themes designed to deepen connection. TEN UNIQUE CATEGORIES • Ice Breakers – Warm up with easy, lighthearted questions • Dreams & Goals – Discover each other's ambitions • Travel – Share adventures near and far • Childhood – Explore fun memories from growing up • Deep Thoughts – Get philosophical together • Fun & Silly – Laugh and be playful • Love & Life – Discuss what matters most • Hypothetical – Explore "what if" scenarios • Romance & Flirting – Fun questions to grow closer together • Chemistry – Fun prompts to build deeper bonds FEATURES • 1,400+ curated questions across all depth levels • Beautiful spin wheel for spontaneous discovery • Save favorites for later • Create custom questions • Share questions as beautiful images • Light, Medium, and Deep conversation levels • No ads, no distractions DateSpark is perfect for date nights, road trips, dinner conversations, or any moment you want to connect on a deeper level. Download now and turn every conversation into something special.

Screenshots

Don’t Ask4 screens
DateSpark4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is iOS requirement: Don’t Ask at 15.6 against DateSpark's 26.0. On price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Don’t Ask sells 1 one-off in-app purchase and DateSpark sells 1 one-off in-app purchase. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Don’t Ask ships an update every 2 weeks, DateSpark every 3 weeks. The most recent releases landed on November 1, 2026 and November 5, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard1 real difference · 7 level
Don’t Ask versus DateSpark: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterDon’t AskDateSpark
PriceFreeFree
Positive reviews100.0% of reviews—
Update frequencyEvery 2 weeks — betterEvery 3 weeks
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPhone, iPad
Requires iOS15.6 — better26.0
Further details — not scored
Size20 MB8 MB
Age rating12+4+
DeveloperFinn MikoschekSebastian Strus

In-app purchases

1 purchases

Don’t Ask

One-time1
  • 65+ Spicy Questions$1.49
1 purchases

DateSpark

One-time1
  • DateSpark Premium$3.99

Questions

Is Don’t Ask free?
Don’t Ask is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is DateSpark free?
DateSpark is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Don’t Ask or DateSpark have ads?
Neither Don’t Ask nor DateSpark shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Don’t Ask or DateSpark?
Don’t Ask ships an update every 2 weeks, and DateSpark every 3 weeks. Most recently, Don’t Ask was updated on November 1, 2026 and DateSpark on November 5, 2026.

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