Comparison

Pumpkin vs RelationshipXP

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Pumpkin

Discover genuine connections with new friends or activity partners. This app uses AI to learn your vibe and suggest compatible people, offering AI assistance for bios and conversation starters. It also suggests real-life hangouts based on your interests.

Highlights
  • AI-powered suggestions for compatible people
  • AI social assistant for bios and conversation
  • AI-curated hangout spot suggestions
  • Privacy controls: block, report, pause, hide
  • Profile management: hide or delete anytime
  • Focus on real connections and shared interests
Features
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Pumpkin: Real People. Real Vibes. Real Connections. Tired of endless swiping and small talk that goes nowhere? Pumpkin is your smarter way to find genuine connections – new friends, activity partners, or your next hangout crew. Find Your People, Not Just a Match Smarter Suggestions – Aura learns your vibe and recommends people who truly click with you for friendship and shared interests. Aura – Your AI Social Assistant – Need help with bios, conversation starters, or photos for meeting new people? Aura's got you. She's fun, clever, and always has your back in social situations. Connect Through Real-Life Moments AI-Curated Hangouts – Get social spot suggestions tailored to your interests and location, perfect for groups or one-on-one meetups. Privacy & Control, Always - Block or report from the start. - Pause, hide, or delete your profile anytime. - Your vibe, your rules. Whether you're exploring new friendships, finding partners for shared hobbies, or just looking for people who match your energy—Pumpkin makes connecting effortlessly, safely, and fun. Download Pumpkin and expand your social world today!

About

RelationshipXP

Build a private shared world with your partner through daily check-ins. Answer questions, share selfies, and complete simple quests to earn XP and unlock memories. This app fosters connection and creates a lasting digital journal of your relationship.

Highlights
  • Daily selfie and mood sharing
  • Thoughtful daily questions
  • Earn shared XP and level up
  • Unlock relationship milestones
  • Weekly connection quests
  • Private shared timeline
  • On This Day memories
Features
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RelationshipXP turns a few intentional minutes each day into a private story you build with your partner. Share your own daily selfie, choose a mood, and answer one thoughtful question. When you both check in, your moments reveal together—and everyday connection becomes shared XP, memories, quests, achievements, and a world that grows with you. A DAILY RITUAL THAT FITS REAL LIFE Each check-in takes only a few minutes: - Post your own solo selfie - Share how your day feels - Answer the daily question - Reveal and revisit the moment together GROW SOMETHING TOGETHER Earn shared XP and watch your relationship world evolve. Build a streak, reach new levels, and unlock milestones simply by showing up for each other. SMALL QUESTS, REAL CONNECTION Choose simple weekly activities—take a slow walk, trade a song, try something new—and confirm them together. No leaderboards and no comparing partners. A MEMORY BOOK THAT WRITES ITSELF Your selfies and answers become a shared timeline organized by month and year, with On This Day memories that bring meaningful moments back. PRIVATE BY DESIGN RelationshipXP is a private, two-person space. There is no public feed, no audience, and no pressure to perform. Whether you’re side by side or miles apart, RelationshipXP helps you notice the ordinary moments that make your relationship yours. Start your shared world today. Terms of Use https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Pumpkin4 screens
RelationshipXP4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is rating: RelationshipXP at 4.8 against Pumpkin's 4.6. RelationshipXP also leads on device support (3 vs 1) and iOS requirement (15.0 vs 17.0). On price, review sentiment, ratings volume and update cadence there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Pumpkin sells 5 in-app purchases, starting at $3.99 per 7 days and RelationshipXP sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $9.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

RelationshipXP holds the better App Store score, 4.8 against 4.6. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 5 and 5 respectively. Written reviews split almost evenly too, at 100% and 100% positive.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Pumpkin ships an update weekly, RelationshipXP every 9 days. The most recent releases landed on October 28, 2026 and October 29, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard3 real differences · 7 level
Pumpkin versus RelationshipXP: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterPumpkinRelationshipXP
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.6 (5 ratings)4.8 (5 ratings) — better
Positive reviews100.0% of reviews100.0% of reviews
Number of ratings55
Update frequencyWeekly — betterEvery 9 days
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFreemium
DevicesiPhoneiPhone, iPad, iPod — better
Requires iOS17.015.0 — better
Further details — not scored
Size139 MB95 MB
Age rating17+12+
DeveloperDatebook AI LLCDTECH GLOBAL LLC

Customer experience

Pumpkin

All ratings5 ratings
Positive80.0%
Neutral20.0%
Negative0.0%
Written reviews1 reviews
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

RelationshipXP

All ratings5 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%
Written reviews2 reviews
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

In-app purchases

5 purchases

Pumpkin

Subscriptions5
  • Pumpkin Premium Weekly$3.997 Days
  • Premium - 1 Week$5.997 Days
  • Pumpkin Premium Monthly$7.991 Month
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  • Premium - 1 Month$24.991 Month
  • Pumpkin Premium 6 Months$29.996 Months
2 purchases

RelationshipXP

Subscriptions2
  • Premium Monthly$9.991 Month
  • Premium Yearly$49.991 Year

Questions

Is Pumpkin free?
Pumpkin is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is RelationshipXP free?
RelationshipXP is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, Pumpkin or RelationshipXP?
RelationshipXP is rated higher. Pumpkin averages 4.6 out of 5 from 5 ratings, while RelationshipXP averages 4.8 from 5 ratings.
Do Pumpkin or RelationshipXP have ads?
Neither Pumpkin nor RelationshipXP shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Pumpkin or RelationshipXP?
Pumpkin ships an update weekly, and RelationshipXP every 9 days. Most recently, Pumpkin was updated on October 28, 2026 and RelationshipXP on October 29, 2026.

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