MyLilVi vs Couples Confluence Mental Load
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
MyLilVi
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MyLilVi - mobile app for parents. MyLilVi connects parents with verified local postpartum and parenting support such as house cleaning, child care, laundry and so on.
Couples Confluence Mental Load
This app makes invisible household labor visible for partners. It tracks and balances the actual work completed by each person, facilitating more realistic conversations about household contributions. Setup is quick and designed for two users.
- Invisible labor tracking
- Real-time balance of completed tasks
- Quick setup with presets
- Designed for two partners
- Private household view
- Focus on completed work
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The planning stops being yours alone. You already know who remembers the dentist, the field trip form, what's for dinner Thursday, and when the car needs its oil changed. Couples Confluence doesn't ask you to stop doing that. It makes it count, and then it does the asking for you. SUNDAY NIGHT, IN ABOUT A MINUTE Pick the household that sounds like yours. Add your name and his. Answer five questions about who does the remembering. That's setup — there is no hour of ticking boxes. ADD WHAT'S ACTUALLY HAPPENING THIS WEEK Lucy's dentist Thursday at ten. Soccer Tuesday and Friday. Your mother's birthday dinner Saturday. A day, a time, and a line about what it involves. THEN THE APP SPLITS THE WEEK One tap. Couples Confluence looks at the whole list — the household rhythm and this week's extras — and divides it toward the balance you chose. Not 50/50. The balance you can live with. Anything he genuinely can't do, you move back once and it remembers. AND IT SENDS HIM HIS LIST By email with a link to his week, or as a text from your own phone written for you — his days, his times, in plain words. He doesn't need to download anything, make an account, or remember a password. He can add the whole week to his calendar in one tap. ONE HONEST NUMBER You see what you're carrying and what he is, across the house, the remembering, and the money if you choose to add it. Not a scoreboard. Not stickers on a chart. A number you can both look at. BUILT FOR THE WOMAN WHO MANAGES EVERYTHING For the one with a partner who is willing but keeps asking what needs doing. Couples Confluence answers him, so you don't have to. WHAT IT COSTS Planning and your balance are free. The split and sending his list are Together Pro: $7.99 a month or $49.99 a year, with a 7-day free trial on both plans. One subscription covers both of you. Cancel before the trial ends and you're never charged. App Store subscriptions are managed through Apple. Questions? support@couplesconfluence.com Subscription unlocks the full app for both partners on one plan. Cancel any time. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://www.couplesconfluence.store/privacy
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Verdict
The clearest difference is in-app purchases: MyLilVi at none against Couples Confluence Mental Load's 2. Couples Confluence Mental Load's advantage is update cadence (fortnightly vs every 3 months). On price, ads, device support and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Couples Confluence Mental Load sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $7.99 per month. MyLilVi asks for nothing beyond the download.
MyLilVi ships an update every 3 months, Couples Confluence Mental Load fortnightly. The most recent releases landed on October 25, 2026 and October 31, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | MyLilVi | Couples Confluence Mental Load |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | — | 5.0 (1 ratings) — better |
| Positive reviews | — | 100.0% of reviews |
| Number of ratings | — | 1 — better |
| Update frequency | Every 3 months | Fortnightly — better |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | No — better | Yes |
| Monetization | — | Freemium |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod | iPhone, iPad, iPod — better |
| Requires iOS | 15.1 | 15.0 — better |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 25 MB | 9 MB |
| Age rating | 17+ | 4+ |
| Developer | Helperhive | Justin Ranek Inc |
In-app purchases
MyLilVi
No in-app purchases
Couples Confluence Mental Load
- Together Pro Monthly7 Days trial$7.991 Month
- Together Pro Annual7 Days trial$49.991 Year
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