Comparison

Swear Jar vs Relationship Help

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Swear Jar

This app helps you break bad language habits by tracking swear words. Log them manually or let the app listen, and watch your contributions grow in a fun, animated jar. Compete with friends on a live leaderboard to see who's the most accountable.

Highlights
  • Manual swear logging
  • Automatic word tracking via listening
  • Customizable swear word filters
  • Group jars with friends
  • Live leaderboard and top contributor crowns
  • Animated jar with customizable visuals
  • Dark mode support
Features
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Transform bad habits into better ones with The Ultimate Swear Jar — a fun and effective way to clean up your language and keep yourself (and your friends!) accountable. Just like the classic jar on the kitchen counter, every time a swear slips out, you (or your friends) add a contribution. Watch your total grow inside a whimsical animated jar — complete with floating dollar bills, a playful lid animation, and customizable colors and stickers. Features include: • Tap or Listen: Log swears manually with a single tap, or let the app listen and automatically track words from your custom filter. • Customizable Filters: Add the words you want to track (in any language). • Invite Friends: Create group jars with friends or family and see who contributes the most — with a live leaderboard and crowns for the top contributor. • Whimsical Animations: Watch dollar bills drop into your jar with satisfying animations and optional haptic feedback. • Dark Mode Support: Easy on the eyes, day or night. • Personalization: Change your jar color, swap dollar bills for emojis or stickers, and more. Whether you’re looking to curb swearing, promote positivity, or just have fun with friends, The Ultimate Swear Jar turns accountability into something you’ll actually enjoy.

About

Relationship Help

This AI-powered coach helps couples communicate more effectively by privately analyzing each partner's messages. It identifies underlying issues and reframes hurtful statements into constructive feedback, fostering understanding and resolving recurring arguments without direct message sharing.

Highlights
  • Private AI-driven communication analysis
  • Reframes hurtful messages constructively
  • Identifies underlying relationship issues
  • Facilitates understanding between partners
  • Available 24/7 without appointments
  • Protects user privacy by not sharing messages
Features
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A paid, auto-renewing Mediator Pro subscription (monthly or yearly) is required for AI conversations and all in-app relationship guidance. Downloading the app and pairing with your partner are free. You keep having the same argument. You say your side. They say theirs. Nobody feels heard. It keeps happening because arguments have a pattern: you say something hurtful, they get defensive, they say something hurtful, you get defensive. Repeat. Not because you don't care, but because you care too much to feel safe being vulnerable. What if someone could hear both of you? Mediator is an AI couples therapist that talks to each partner privately. You each message the same mediator from your own phone. It reads both perspectives, finds the real issue underneath the frustration, and helps each person say what they actually mean, reframed so the other person can hear it. Same feeling. No accusation. Now they can actually hear it. YOUR HONESTY IS PROTECTED You never see their messages. They never see yours. That privacy lets you say what you actually mean without worrying about how it lands. The mediator translates it so they can hear it. ALWAYS THERE WHEN YOU NEED IT No appointments. No waiting rooms. No $200/hour. When things get hard, open the app. Your mediator is ready. GREAT FOR - The same argument you keep having - Repair after a fight - Resentment, hurt, or miscommunication - Relationship check-ins before things get worse - Preparing for a hard in-person conversation Mediator is a relationship communication tool, not a replacement for a licensed therapist, crisis services, or emergency support. It does not provide medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions about your mental health. EULA: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Swear Jar3 screens
Relationship Help4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is rating: Relationship Help at 5.0 against Swear Jar's 1.0. Swear Jar's advantage is in-app purchases (none vs 2) and iOS requirement (17.6 vs 26.0). On price, ratings volume, ads and monetization model there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Relationship Help sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $5.99 per month. Swear Jar asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

Relationship Help holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 1.0. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 1 and 1 respectively.

Scorecard3 real differences · 6 level
Swear Jar versus Relationship Help: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterSwear JarRelationship Help
PriceFreeFree
Rating1.0 (1 ratings)5.0 (1 ratings) — better
Number of ratings11
Update frequency—Every 6 days
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesNo — betterYes
MonetizationFreeFree
DevicesiPhone, iPadiPhone, iPad
Requires iOS17.6 — better26.0
Further details — not scored
Size2 MB18 MB
Age rating12+4+
DeveloperShotgun Golf Franchising Corp.Alejandro Pacheco

In-app purchases

None

Swear Jar

No in-app purchases

2 purchases

Relationship Help

Subscriptions2
  • Mediator Pro Monthly7 Days trial$5.991 Month
  • Mediator Pro Yearly7 Days trial$39.991 Year

Questions

Is Swear Jar free?
Swear Jar is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is Relationship Help free?
Relationship Help is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, Swear Jar or Relationship Help?
Relationship Help is rated higher. Swear Jar averages 1.0 out of 5 from 1 ratings, while Relationship Help averages 5.0 from 1 ratings.
Do Swear Jar or Relationship Help have ads?
Neither Swear Jar nor Relationship Help shows ads.

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