Comparison

Loopist vs Relationship Help

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

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About

Loopist

This AI-powered relationship coach helps you break free from exhausting push-pull cycles with an avoidant partner. It offers guided activities and personalized programs based on attachment theory and the Gottman Method to improve communication and build deeper connection.

Highlights
  • AI relationship coach for real-time support
  • Daily guided activities
  • Personalized relationship playbook
  • Progress tracking
  • Programs for anxious-avoidant dynamics
  • Communication improvement tools
  • Relationship anxiety support
Features
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They pull away. You chase. They come back. Then they pull away again. If you're stuck in this exhausting push-pull cycle with an avoidant partner, you're not imagining it. It's a pattern, and 83% of our users break it within 3 weeks. Loopist is an AI-powered relationship coach that helps you decode avoidant attachment, stop the hot-cold cycle, and build real connection. 5 PROGRAMS: The Avoidant Playbook For anyone in an anxious-avoidant dynamic. Your partner withdraws when things get close. Learn what triggers their retreat, how to create safety, and how to break the push-pull cycle. Reconnect For couples who feel more like roommates than partners. The spark is gone, conversations are surface-level. Rebuild closeness step by step, even if only one of you starts. Communicate Better For couples where every conversation turns into an argument. One person shuts down, the other gets frustrated. Learn to express needs without attacking and listen without getting defensive. Relationship Anxiety For those who overthink every interaction, need constant reassurance, or feel insecure even when things are fine. Build security from within instead of seeking it from your partner. Break the Conflict Cycle For couples stuck in the same fights over and over. Different topics, same patterns. Identify triggers and respond differently. WHAT YOU GET: - 24/7 AI relationship coach (Aria) for real-time support - Daily guided activities tailored to your specific situation - Personalized playbook based on your relationship dynamic - Progress tracking to see your relationship improve over time THE PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND IT: Loopist is built on Attachment Theory and the Gottman Method. Attachment Theory explains why some people become anxious in relationships while others pull away, and how to break those patterns. The Gottman Method comes from decades of research on what makes relationships succeed or fail. WORKS EVEN IF ONLY ONE PARTNER USES IT: You can't force your partner to change. But when you change how you show up, how you communicate, how you respond, the whole dynamic shifts. Most relationship problems are pattern problems, and patterns can be broken from one side. WHO LOOPIST IS FOR: People in relationships that feel stuck. If you're dealing with an avoidant partner, constant arguments, emotional distance, or relationship anxiety, Loopist gives you a clear path forward. Privacy Policy: https://loopist.app/privacy Terms of Service: https://loopist.app/terms

About

Relationship Help

This AI-powered coach helps couples communicate more effectively by privately analyzing each partner's messages. It identifies underlying issues and reframes hurtful statements into constructive feedback, fostering understanding and resolving recurring arguments without direct message sharing.

Highlights
  • Private AI-driven communication analysis
  • Reframes hurtful messages constructively
  • Identifies underlying relationship issues
  • Facilitates understanding between partners
  • Available 24/7 without appointments
  • Protects user privacy by not sharing messages
Features
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A paid, auto-renewing Mediator Pro subscription (monthly or yearly) is required for AI conversations and all in-app relationship guidance. Downloading the app and pairing with your partner are free. You keep having the same argument. You say your side. They say theirs. Nobody feels heard. It keeps happening because arguments have a pattern: you say something hurtful, they get defensive, they say something hurtful, you get defensive. Repeat. Not because you don't care, but because you care too much to feel safe being vulnerable. What if someone could hear both of you? Mediator is an AI couples therapist that talks to each partner privately. You each message the same mediator from your own phone. It reads both perspectives, finds the real issue underneath the frustration, and helps each person say what they actually mean, reframed so the other person can hear it. Same feeling. No accusation. Now they can actually hear it. YOUR HONESTY IS PROTECTED You never see their messages. They never see yours. That privacy lets you say what you actually mean without worrying about how it lands. The mediator translates it so they can hear it. ALWAYS THERE WHEN YOU NEED IT No appointments. No waiting rooms. No $200/hour. When things get hard, open the app. Your mediator is ready. GREAT FOR - The same argument you keep having - Repair after a fight - Resentment, hurt, or miscommunication - Relationship check-ins before things get worse - Preparing for a hard in-person conversation Mediator is a relationship communication tool, not a replacement for a licensed therapist, crisis services, or emergency support. It does not provide medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions about your mental health. EULA: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Loopist4 screens
Relationship Help4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: Relationship Help at none against Loopist's 2. Relationship Help also leads on update cadence (every 5 days vs every 5 weeks) and rating (5.0 vs 4.6). Loopist's advantage is ratings volume (116 vs 1) and iOS requirement (15.0 vs 26.0). On price, ads and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Loopist sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $7.99 per 7 days. Relationship Help asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

Relationship Help holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 4.6. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Loopist has 116 ratings behind it against 1, so its average is the more settled of the two.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Loopist ships an update every 5 weeks, Relationship Help every 5 days. The most recent releases landed on September 22, 2026 and September 20, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard6 real differences · 4 level
Loopist versus Relationship Help: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterLoopistRelationship Help
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.6 (116 ratings)5.0 (1 ratings) — better
Positive reviews50.0% of reviews—
Number of ratings116 — better1
Update frequencyEvery 5 weeksEvery 5 days — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFree — better
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPad
Requires iOS15.0 — better26.0
Further details — not scored
Size51 MB19 MB
Age rating4+4+
DeveloperBteabreak Marketing Pvt LtdAlejandro Pacheco

Customer experience

Loopist

All ratings116 ratings
Positive89.7%
Neutral8.6%
Negative1.7%
Written reviews4 reviews
Positive50.0%
Neutral50.0%
Negative0.0%

Relationship Help

All ratings1 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

In-app purchases

2 purchases

Loopist

Subscriptions2
  • Loopist Weekly Premium$7.997 Days
  • Loopist Yearly Premium$29.991 Year
None

Relationship Help

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is Loopist free?
Loopist is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Relationship Help free?
Relationship Help is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Which has better reviews, Loopist or Relationship Help?
Relationship Help is rated higher. Loopist averages 4.6 out of 5 from 116 ratings, while Relationship Help averages 5.0 from 1 ratings.
Do Loopist or Relationship Help have ads?
Neither Loopist nor Relationship Help shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Loopist or Relationship Help?
Loopist ships an update every 5 weeks, and Relationship Help every 5 days. Most recently, Loopist was updated on September 22, 2026 and Relationship Help on September 20, 2026.

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