Bully Shield Buddy vs Ickity

BullyShieldBuddy helps victims and parents document bullying incidents, recognize patterns, and access support. Create confidential entries with date, location, photos or notes and share them safely with trusted contacts, teachers or counselors.

You are not crazy. You are not overreacting. What happened to you was real. When you are dealing with a toxic partner, a manipulative family member, or a bad friend, the hardest thing to hold onto is your own memory. Conversations get twisted. Words get flipped on you. Arguments end with you apologizing for things you didn’t even do. Over time, the constant second-guessing wears you down until you don't even trust your own gut anymore. Then comes the love-bombing, the sweet apologies, or the quiet guilt that makes you think: "Maybe it wasn’t that bad. Maybe I’m the problem." Some people call it "toxic amnesia"—and it is the exact trap that keeps you stuck. Ickity is your reality anchor. Ickity is not a polite daily diary where you simply write about your feelings. In Ickity your feelings become revelations, your voice becomes your anchor, and your reality starts to become grounded in your truth. Ickity is an intentional, private tracking tool built to help you capture bad behavior the moment it happens, spot recurring patterns, and stand firm in your truth. By building an "Ick List"—a private log of disrespectful behavior, shifting stories, broken promises, and crossed boundaries—you take your power back. You don’t have to argue. You don’t have to convince them. You just have to remember. Ickity is Designed to Break the Fog When You Need It Most: The Reality Check: Feeling weak? Tempted to text them back? Questioning your decision to go low-contact or no-contact? Open the Reality Check. In one tap, see a top 5 incidents list and a clean timeline of past events. In a matter of seconds you're grounded in your own words, and you're seeing exactly why you set that boundary. Private PIN Lock: Keep your entries away from prying eyes. Set a personal PIN lock so casual browsers, nosy partners, or family members cannot simply open the app and read your logs if your device is unattended. Voice Transcription When Hands Shake: When an argument just ended and you are too overwhelmed or shaky to type, just talk. Record your raw voice. Ickity automatically transcribes your words right on your phone, preserving your tone, the facts, and your immediate reaction while it is fresh. Keep the Receipts: Don’t let records get buried in your camera roll. Attach text screenshots, pictures, PDFs, or files directly to any entry. Keep everything organized under the person involved so you never lose the context. 300+ Toxic Behavior Terms: Can’t put your finger on what just happened, but your gut is screaming at you? Browse plain-English breakdowns of manipulation tactics—from silent treatments and DARVO to moving goalposts and guilt-tripping. Learn the playbook so you can spot it before it works on you. Timeline Export: Don't force yourself to re-explain every painful event from memory. Export your full timeline—complete with written transcripts, audio recordings, and image attachments—into a single zip file to keep for yourself or share with someone you trust. Offline Sovereignty & Zero Spying: Your private thoughts should never sit on an unknown company server. Your journal, recordings, and files stay encrypted on your physical device and are never uploaded to us. We never see, store, or analyze a single word you write. Backups go only to your own iCloud, encrypted before they leave your phone, and you can turn them off at any time in iOS Settings. Stop Letting Them Rewrite History Whether you are navigating a high-conflict divorce, co-parenting with a difficult ex, establishing boundaries with family, or trying to walk away from a relationship that drains you: Your memory is not the problem. The manipulation is. Stop second-guessing yourself. Start your Ick List. Trust your voice again. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Terms of Service: https://jellyworksoffline.com/ickity/terms Privacy Policy: https://jellyworksoffline.com/ickity/privacy