Comparison

Kinki Collective vs Obey

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Kinki Collective

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Kinki Collective – Join & Discover Events Connect with your community, find events, and take part in experiences hosted by Kinki Collective all in one place. Kinki Collective app lets you easily explore events happening near you, join the ones you love, and get involved with the Kinki community. Whether it’s social meetups, creative gatherings, or community experiences, this app makes it simple to stay connected and engaged. App Features Discover Events – Browse a curated list of upcoming Kinki community activities. Find Local Happenings – See events with clear details and times. Join Instantly – Sign up for events with a single tap. Community Participation – Get involved, meet new people, and participate in exciting activities. Stay Updated – Get event reminders and notifications so you never miss out.

About

Obey

This app helps BDSM couples build structure, accountability, and communication within their dynamic. It offers habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, private chat, and mood check-ins to foster consent, trust, and mutual agreement. Designed for adults seeking intention and clarity in their relationships.

Highlights
  • Habit tracking with rewards and discipline
  • Role definition (Dominant, Submissive, Switch)
  • Multiple relationship management
  • Private chat with photo support
  • Task validation with pictures
  • Mood check-ins
  • Customizable themes and discreet interface
Features
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Obey is a habit tracker designed for consensual BDSM relationships, helping Dominant, Submissive, and Switch partners bring structure, accountability, and communication into their dynamic. Obey combines habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, allowing partners to create routines that support growth, motivation, and trust. Whether your focus is self-care, daily responsibilities, or agreed-upon discipline, the app adapts to your relationship instead of forcing a generic structure. Users can define their role as Dominant, Submissive, or Switch and manage multiple relationships independently. Each relationship has its own rules, limits, and boundaries, ensuring that consent and expectations are always clear. Tasks can be created with schedules and values, generating points or rewards when completed. These points can be exchanged for rewards or used to reduce agreed-upon punishments, creating a balanced and intentional accountability system. Obey also includes private chat for each relationship, with support for photos. Tasks can be validated manually or with a picture, reinforcing responsibility while keeping communication transparent and respectful. A built-in mood check-in helps partners stay emotionally aware and encourages regular reflection, which is especially important in Dominant and Submissive dynamics. Customization is simple and discreet. Users can choose a theme color and enjoy a clean interface designed for privacy. There are no public profiles or social feeds. Everything remains private between partners. Obey is not a game or a role-play simulator. It is a BDSM habit tracker built around consent, structure, and mutual agreement. It is intended for adults who want to bring intention and clarity into their Dominant or Submissive relationships through routines, accountability, and communication. If you are looking for a habit tracker that respects power exchange, limits, and trust, Obey provides the tools to support your dynamic in a thoughtful and responsible way.

Screenshots

Kinki Collective3 screens
Obey4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: Kinki Collective at none against Obey's 6. On price, ads, device support and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Obey sells 6 one-off in-app purchases. Kinki Collective asks for nothing beyond the download.

Scorecard1 real difference · 8 level
Kinki Collective versus Obey: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterKinki CollectiveObey
PriceFreeFree
Rating—1.0 (1 ratings) — better
Number of ratings—1 — better
Update frequencyFortnightly—
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesNo — betterYes
Monetization—Free with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod
Requires iOS14.013.0 — better
Further details — not scored
Size18 MB50 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperWMP LLCClement Beal

In-app purchases

None

Kinki Collective

No in-app purchases

6 purchases

Obey

One-time6
  • 1 Point$2.99
  • 5 Points$9.99
  • 10 Points$17.99
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  • 20 Points$29.99
  • 50 Points$59.99
  • 100 Points$99.99

Questions

Is Kinki Collective free?
Kinki Collective is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is Obey free?
Obey is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Kinki Collective or Obey have ads?
Neither Kinki Collective nor Obey shows ads.

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