Comparison

OUR DateBook vs DateMate Planner

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

OUR DateBook

Features
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DateBook: Date Ideas & Planner Tired of "what should we do tonight?" DateBook helps you discover, plan, and remember amazing dates - solo, as a couple, or with your whole crew. Personalized Date Ideas Near You Get AI-powered date suggestions based on your location, interests, and budget - backed by real venues, events, and spots you can actually book. From romantic restaurants to adventurous outings, find things to do that genuinely match your vibe. Open a Pack, Find Your Next Date Crack open a free daily card pack to reveal fresh date ideas, or grab premium and themed packs for curated experiences and special occasions. Every card links to real photos, websites, and maps. Plan It Together Open a Pack, Find Your Next Date Crack open a free daily card pack to reveal fresh date ideas, or grab premium and themed packs for curated experiences and special occasions. Every card links to real photos, websites, and maps. Plan It Together Swipe through ideas, match with your partner or group, and schedule dates right from the app. Sync with Google Calendar so you never miss date night. Remember Every Moment Capture photos, log your favorite spots, and build a scrapbook of your favorite memories - all in one place. Why People Love DateBook - Unlimited date ideas tailored to your city - Daily card packs with real, bookable spots - Custom AI search for exactly what you're craving - Plan solo, as a couple, or with a group of friends - Shared calendar to plan dates together - Digital scrapbook for your favorite memories - Quests and badges to keep the spark alive Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://ourdatebook.com/privacy

About

DateMate Planner

Features
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DateMate Planner is an emotionally aware AI dating assistant designed to help people navigate modern relationships more naturally and confidently. Instead of giving generic pickup lines or robotic replies, DateMate helps you understand the situation behind conversations and relationship dynamics. Whether you are: • waiting for a reply • unsure what to say next • planning a meaningful date • trying to understand mixed signals • rebuilding connection after distance • or simply improving everyday communication DateMate provides realistic, emotionally grounded guidance tailored to your context. FEATURES • Emotionally aware AI assistant Get suggestions that consider tone, timing, relationship stage, and emotional context. • Multiple assistant personalities Choose different assistant energies like Calm Secure, Romantic Soft, Playful Flirt, or Confident Direct. • Partner memory and context Save lightweight notes about communication style, interests, lifestyle, and preferences so suggestions feel more personal and relevant. • Real-world conversation help Generate natural replies, follow-up ideas, and conversation suggestions that feel human — not scripted. • Date planning assistant Create realistic date ideas and plans based on mood, location, timing, and relationship stage. • Practical relationship guidance Designed for real-life communication, not manipulation tactics or unrealistic dating advice. DateMate is built for people who want calmer, more thoughtful, and more emotionally intelligent dating experiences.

Screenshots

OUR DateBook4 screens
DateMate Planner4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is ads: DateMate Planner at none against OUR DateBook's shown. DateMate Planner also leads on update cadence (every 2 weeks vs every 2 months). On price, in-app purchases, device support and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price Ā· Rating Ā· Positive reviews Ā· Number of ratings Ā· Update frequency Ā· Ads Ā· In-app purchases Ā· Monetization Ā· Best chart rank Ā· Devices Ā· Requires iOS

CostPrice Ā· In-app purchases Ā· Ads Ā· Monetization

Both are free to download. OUR DateBook sells 1 in-app purchase, starting at $4.99 per month and DateMate Planner sells 1 one-off in-app purchase. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

OUR DateBook ships an update every 2 months, DateMate Planner every 2 weeks. The most recent releases landed on October 15, 2026 and October 5, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard2 real differences Ā· 4 level
OUR DateBook versus DateMate Planner: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterOUR DateBookDateMate Planner
PriceFreeFree
Update frequencyEvery 2 monthsEvery 2 weeks — better
AdsYesNo — better
In-app purchasesYesYes
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod — better
Requires iOS13.013.0
Further details — not scored
Size70 MB47 MB
Age rating4+4+
DeveloperDatebook Inc.ē…Œ 周

In-app purchases

1 purchases

OUR DateBook

Subscriptions1
  • Datebook Premium$4.991 Month
1 purchases

DateMate Planner

One-time1
  • Pro Version Unlock$14.99

Questions

Is OUR DateBook free?
OUR DateBook is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is DateMate Planner free?
DateMate Planner is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do OUR DateBook or DateMate Planner have ads?
OUR DateBook shows ads; DateMate Planner does not.
Which is updated more often, OUR DateBook or DateMate Planner?
OUR DateBook ships an update every 2 months, and DateMate Planner every 2 weeks. Most recently, OUR DateBook was updated on October 15, 2026 and DateMate Planner on October 5, 2026.

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