Obey vs SubTasks

Obey is a habit tracker designed for consensual BDSM relationships, helping Dominant, Submissive, and Switch partners bring structure, accountability, and communication into their dynamic. Obey combines habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, allowing partners to create routines that support growth, motivation, and trust. Whether your focus is self-care, daily responsibilities, or agreed-upon discipline, the app adapts to your relationship instead of forcing a generic structure. Users can define their role as Dominant, Submissive, or Switch and manage multiple relationships independently. Each relationship has its own rules, limits, and boundaries, ensuring that consent and expectations are always clear. Tasks can be created with schedules and values, generating points or rewards when completed. These points can be exchanged for rewards or used to reduce agreed-upon punishments, creating a balanced and intentional accountability system. Obey also includes private chat for each relationship, with support for photos. Tasks can be validated manually or with a picture, reinforcing responsibility while keeping communication transparent and respectful. A built-in mood check-in helps partners stay emotionally aware and encourages regular reflection, which is especially important in Dominant and Submissive dynamics. Customization is simple and discreet. Users can choose a theme color and enjoy a clean interface designed for privacy. There are no public profiles or social feeds. Everything remains private between partners. Obey is not a game or a role-play simulator. It is a BDSM habit tracker built around consent, structure, and mutual agreement. It is intended for adults who want to bring intention and clarity into their Dominant or Submissive relationships through routines, accountability, and communication. If you are looking for a habit tracker that respects power exchange, limits, and trust, Obey provides the tools to support your dynamic in a thoughtful and responsible way.

Keep your D/s dynamic on track. A Dom sets the tasks and rules, a sub follows through and earns rewards, and the app keeps count so nobody has to nag or chase. It works for couples under one roof, long distance dynamics, and solo subs holding themselves to their own structure. SubTasks is free to start, built by a small independent team, and syncs across your phone, tablet and the web. TASKS AND RULES - Assign daily, weekly and one-off tasks with due dates and point values - Break a bigger goal into steps with challenges - Send a lightning task with a countdown when you want an answer today - Ask for a note or photo proof before a task counts, then approve it or send it back with a rating and a comment - Keep your rules, limits and protocols in shared Notes, and write down Agreements you both sign - Push reminders when something is assigned or due REWARDS, PUNISHMENTS AND FOLLOW THROUGH - Choose the rewards and punishments and set what they cost - Points for finished tasks, streaks for consistency, achievements along the way - Missed tasks earn demerits, and redemption tasks put things right - See how your partner is doing without asking LONG DISTANCE - Tasks, reminders and approvals reach your partner wherever they are - Pro adds in-app chat next to the task it is about SOLO - Solo mode is free. Set your own tasks, rules, rewards and punishments, track your streak, and invite a partner later if that changes GETTING STARTED - Task Kits are ready-made sets of tasks, rewards and punishments you can preview and import in a few taps, or build and share your own PRIVACY - No ads, and we don't sell your data - Tasks, notes and messages are encrypted at rest, and connections use TLS - Pro includes alternate app icons, including discreet ones, for your home screen - Delete your account and your data anytime FREE AND PRO The core app is free: unlimited tasks, solo mode, rewards, punishments, points, streaks, achievements, partner linking and reminders. Pro is optional. It lifts the weekly limits on approvals, photo proof and lightning tasks, and adds chat, custom app icons and multiple partners. One subscription covers all of your relationships, so your partner gets Pro too. Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/