Comparison

Obey vs Chore Wars

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Obey

This app helps BDSM couples build structure, accountability, and communication within their dynamic. It offers habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, private chat, and mood check-ins to foster consent, trust, and mutual agreement. Designed for adults seeking intention and clarity in their relationships.

Highlights
  • Habit tracking with rewards and discipline
  • Role definition (Dominant, Submissive, Switch)
  • Multiple relationship management
  • Private chat with photo support
  • Task validation with pictures
  • Mood check-ins
  • Customizable themes and discreet interface
Features
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Obey is a habit tracker designed for consensual BDSM relationships, helping Dominant, Submissive, and Switch partners bring structure, accountability, and communication into their dynamic. Obey combines habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, allowing partners to create routines that support growth, motivation, and trust. Whether your focus is self-care, daily responsibilities, or agreed-upon discipline, the app adapts to your relationship instead of forcing a generic structure. Users can define their role as Dominant, Submissive, or Switch and manage multiple relationships independently. Each relationship has its own rules, limits, and boundaries, ensuring that consent and expectations are always clear. Tasks can be created with schedules and values, generating points or rewards when completed. These points can be exchanged for rewards or used to reduce agreed-upon punishments, creating a balanced and intentional accountability system. Obey also includes private chat for each relationship, with support for photos. Tasks can be validated manually or with a picture, reinforcing responsibility while keeping communication transparent and respectful. A built-in mood check-in helps partners stay emotionally aware and encourages regular reflection, which is especially important in Dominant and Submissive dynamics. Customization is simple and discreet. Users can choose a theme color and enjoy a clean interface designed for privacy. There are no public profiles or social feeds. Everything remains private between partners. Obey is not a game or a role-play simulator. It is a BDSM habit tracker built around consent, structure, and mutual agreement. It is intended for adults who want to bring intention and clarity into their Dominant or Submissive relationships through routines, accountability, and communication. If you are looking for a habit tracker that respects power exchange, limits, and trust, Obey provides the tools to support your dynamic in a thoughtful and responsible way.

About

Chore Wars

Features
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Stop fighting over chores — start winning together! Tired of the "whose turn is it?" argument? Chore Wars turns boring household tasks into a fun, gamified adventure for couples. Every chore you finish earns XP, levels you up, and brings you one step closer to rewards you actually want. Whether you're moving in together, newly married, or just want a fairer split of the mental load — Chore Wars is the chore tracker built for two. **TURN CHORES INTO QUESTS Your to-do list is now a leaderboard. Scrubbing the bathroom? +50 XP. Taking out the trash? Level up. Track your progress and see who's the real MVP of the household. **REAL-TIME SYNC No more "did you do it yet?" texts. The moment your partner finishes a task, you'll know. Instant updates, zero friction. **CUSTOM REWARDS Set rewards that actually matter to you: • A back rub after a long day • Movie night — winner picks the film • A week off from laundry duty Complete chores, earn XP, spend it on rewards. Simple. **VERIFY & TRUST Did they really clean the kitchen? Chores go through verification — no cutting corners! Mark complete, partner verifies, XP awarded. ** WHY COUPLES LOVE IT • End the chore wars — Transparent tracking means no more guessing who did what • ADHD-friendly — Quick dopamine hits through XP and rewards make even mundane tasks satisfying • Shared lists — Groceries, household supplies, or custom lists you both can edit in real-time • Beautiful design — Clean, minimalist UI with smooth animations • Built for two — A private, shared space just for you and your partner • Works for roommates too — Fair chore splitting for anyone sharing a home Tired of the mental load? Download Chore Wars and turn your household chores into a game you both want to play. Privacy Policy - https://bubblejs39.xyz/privacy.html Terms of Use - https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Obey4 screens
Chore Wars4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is ads: Obey at none against Chore Wars's shown. Obey also leads on iOS requirement (13.0 vs 16.6). On price, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Obey sells 6 one-off in-app purchases and Chore Wars sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $2.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Scorecard2 real differences · 7 level
Obey versus Chore Wars: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterObeyChore Wars
PriceFreeFree
Rating1.0 (1 ratings) — better—
Number of ratings1 — better—
Update frequency—Every 3 weeks
AdsNo — betterYes
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPhone, iPad
Requires iOS13.0 — better16.6
Further details — not scored
Size50 MB99 MB
Age rating17++4
DeveloperClement BealSanjeev Tiwary

In-app purchases

6 purchases

Obey

One-time6
  • 1 Point$2.99
  • 5 Points$9.99
  • 10 Points$17.99
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  • 20 Points$29.99
  • 50 Points$59.99
  • 100 Points$99.99
2 purchases

Chore Wars

Subscriptions2
  • Chores War Pro - Monthly Plan$2.991 Month
  • Chores War Pro - Yearly Plan$29.991 Year

Questions

Is Obey free?
Obey is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Chore Wars free?
Chore Wars is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Obey or Chore Wars have ads?
Chore Wars shows ads; Obey does not.

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