Comparison

Obey vs RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Obey

This app helps BDSM couples build structure, accountability, and communication within their dynamic. It offers habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, private chat, and mood check-ins to foster consent, trust, and mutual agreement. Designed for adults seeking intention and clarity in their relationships.

Highlights
  • Habit tracking with rewards and discipline
  • Role definition (Dominant, Submissive, Switch)
  • Multiple relationship management
  • Private chat with photo support
  • Task validation with pictures
  • Mood check-ins
  • Customizable themes and discreet interface
Features
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Obey is a habit tracker designed for consensual BDSM relationships, helping Dominant, Submissive, and Switch partners bring structure, accountability, and communication into their dynamic. Obey combines habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, allowing partners to create routines that support growth, motivation, and trust. Whether your focus is self-care, daily responsibilities, or agreed-upon discipline, the app adapts to your relationship instead of forcing a generic structure. Users can define their role as Dominant, Submissive, or Switch and manage multiple relationships independently. Each relationship has its own rules, limits, and boundaries, ensuring that consent and expectations are always clear. Tasks can be created with schedules and values, generating points or rewards when completed. These points can be exchanged for rewards or used to reduce agreed-upon punishments, creating a balanced and intentional accountability system. Obey also includes private chat for each relationship, with support for photos. Tasks can be validated manually or with a picture, reinforcing responsibility while keeping communication transparent and respectful. A built-in mood check-in helps partners stay emotionally aware and encourages regular reflection, which is especially important in Dominant and Submissive dynamics. Customization is simple and discreet. Users can choose a theme color and enjoy a clean interface designed for privacy. There are no public profiles or social feeds. Everything remains private between partners. Obey is not a game or a role-play simulator. It is a BDSM habit tracker built around consent, structure, and mutual agreement. It is intended for adults who want to bring intention and clarity into their Dominant or Submissive relationships through routines, accountability, and communication. If you are looking for a habit tracker that respects power exchange, limits, and trust, Obey provides the tools to support your dynamic in a thoughtful and responsible way.

About

RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder

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RemoteGuard is a remote chastity keyholding app, built around a TTLock-compatible Bluetooth smart lock. The real key stays in the safe, you hand control to a keyholder you trust, and access works over any distance. REAL, PHYSICAL KEYHOLDING Keep the physical key of your chastity setup in a TTLock-compatible Bluetooth key safe. The key stays genuinely locked away until access is granted. This is real keyholding, not an honor-system code or a photo of a lock. SHARE ACCESS PRIVATELY Invite your keyholder with a short code. No real names, phone numbers or email addresses are shared between you. You keep full control of every lock and can review, change or revoke access at any time, over any distance. CONFIRM REMOTE REQUESTS When your keyholder requests an action, you review and confirm it in the app. To complete a request, your phone needs RemoteGuard open and to be within Bluetooth range of the lock. RemoteGuard does not promise unattended remote operation. DISCREET AND SECURE Coordinate over a private, end-to-end encrypted chat with text and photos. Every lock action is kept in a clear, shared history. Built-in block and report tools keep things safe, and an emergency-open path means you are never permanently locked out. REMOTEGUARD PRO RemoteGuard is free to download and free to use with one active key handover, including keyholder invitations, confirmed remote requests, the shared action history, private chat and the safety features. RemoteGuard Pro adds unlimited simultaneous key handovers, and in any handover only one of the two people needs Pro. New subscribers can start with a 7-day free trial. Subscriptions are billed through your app store account. COMPATIBILITY RemoteGuard works with TTLock-compatible Bluetooth smart locks and key safes; compatibility depends on the model. See the current list at https://remoteguard.app. No physical lock is required to try it, create a demo lock after signing in. Terms of Use (EULA): https://remoteguard.app/app/terms Privacy Policy: https://remoteguard.app/app/privacy

Screenshots

Obey4 screens
RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is iOS requirement: Obey at 13.0 against RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder's 15.0. On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Obey sells 6 one-off in-app purchases and RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $5.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Scorecard1 real difference · 8 level
Obey versus RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterObeyRemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder
PriceFreeFree
Rating1.0 (1 ratings) — better—
Number of ratings1 — better—
Update frequency—Every 3 days
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod
Requires iOS13.0 — better15.0
Further details — not scored
Size50 MB57 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperClement BealMatthias Huether

In-app purchases

6 purchases

Obey

One-time6
  • 1 Point$2.99
  • 5 Points$9.99
  • 10 Points$17.99
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  • 20 Points$29.99
  • 50 Points$59.99
  • 100 Points$99.99
2 purchases

RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder

Subscriptions2
  • Monthly subscription7 Days trial$5.991 Month
  • Remote Control Annual7 Days trial$49.991 Year

Questions

Is Obey free?
Obey is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder free?
RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Obey or RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder have ads?
Neither Obey nor RemoteGuard Chastity Keyholder shows ads.

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