Comparison

Obey vs Partner in action

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Obey

This app helps BDSM couples build structure, accountability, and communication within their dynamic. It offers habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, private chat, and mood check-ins to foster consent, trust, and mutual agreement. Designed for adults seeking intention and clarity in their relationships.

Highlights
  • Habit tracking with rewards and discipline
  • Role definition (Dominant, Submissive, Switch)
  • Multiple relationship management
  • Private chat with photo support
  • Task validation with pictures
  • Mood check-ins
  • Customizable themes and discreet interface
Features
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Obey is a habit tracker designed for consensual BDSM relationships, helping Dominant, Submissive, and Switch partners bring structure, accountability, and communication into their dynamic. Obey combines habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, allowing partners to create routines that support growth, motivation, and trust. Whether your focus is self-care, daily responsibilities, or agreed-upon discipline, the app adapts to your relationship instead of forcing a generic structure. Users can define their role as Dominant, Submissive, or Switch and manage multiple relationships independently. Each relationship has its own rules, limits, and boundaries, ensuring that consent and expectations are always clear. Tasks can be created with schedules and values, generating points or rewards when completed. These points can be exchanged for rewards or used to reduce agreed-upon punishments, creating a balanced and intentional accountability system. Obey also includes private chat for each relationship, with support for photos. Tasks can be validated manually or with a picture, reinforcing responsibility while keeping communication transparent and respectful. A built-in mood check-in helps partners stay emotionally aware and encourages regular reflection, which is especially important in Dominant and Submissive dynamics. Customization is simple and discreet. Users can choose a theme color and enjoy a clean interface designed for privacy. There are no public profiles or social feeds. Everything remains private between partners. Obey is not a game or a role-play simulator. It is a BDSM habit tracker built around consent, structure, and mutual agreement. It is intended for adults who want to bring intention and clarity into their Dominant or Submissive relationships through routines, accountability, and communication. If you are looking for a habit tracker that respects power exchange, limits, and trust, Obey provides the tools to support your dynamic in a thoughtful and responsible way.

About

Partner in action

Features
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Partner in Action is a unique, gamified guide through pregnancy and the postpartum period, created specifically for expectant and new dads. No more boring pink handbooks – here, pregnancy is a military operation, and you are the commander! The app will guide you step-by-step through every phase of expecting a baby. Complete missions, get insights on development, and be the ultimate support for your partner. WHAT AWAITS YOU IN THE APP: Mission System – Complete tasks, earn XP, unlock achievements, and advance through military ranks from Private to General. A Man's Perspective – We don't compare baby development to fruit; we compare it to real manly things and tools! Development & Advice – Find out what’s currently happening with the fetus and your partner's body, and learn how you can genuinely help her. Practical Tips – We’ll teach you everything from choosing a stroller and packing the hospital bag to assembling the crib. Postpartum Module – Handle the first weeks after birth like a pro. You'll learn proper holding techniques, bathing, diaper changing, and how to manage visitors. Download the Partner in Action app, level up, and be a true hero for your new family. Because a real commander never leaves his unit behind! Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Obey4 screens
Partner in action4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is iOS requirement: Obey at 13.0 against Partner in action's 15.0. On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Obey sells 6 one-off in-app purchases and Partner in action sells 4 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Scorecard1 real difference · 8 level
Obey versus Partner in action: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterObeyPartner in action
PriceFreeFree
Rating1.0 (1 ratings) — better—
Number of ratings1 — better—
Update frequency—Monthly
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod
Requires iOS13.0 — better15.0
Further details — not scored
Size50 MB48 MB
Age rating17+12+
DeveloperClement BealMarketa Balazova

In-app purchases

6 purchases

Obey

One-time6
  • 1 Point$2.99
  • 5 Points$9.99
  • 10 Points$17.99
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  • 20 Points$29.99
  • 50 Points$59.99
  • 100 Points$99.99
4 purchases

Partner in action

Subscriptions2
  • Monthly Access$4.991 Month
  • Annual Access7 Days trial$22.991 Year
One-time2
  • Discounted Lifetime Access$29.99
  • Lifetime Access$34.99

Questions

Is Obey free?
Obey is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Partner in action free?
Partner in action is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Obey or Partner in action have ads?
Neither Obey nor Partner in action shows ads.

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