Comparison

Obey vs SitterSheet

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side โ€” with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Obey

Features
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Obey is a habit tracker designed for consensual BDSM relationships, helping Dominant, Submissive, and Switch partners bring structure, accountability, and communication into their dynamic. Obey combines habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, allowing partners to create routines that support growth, motivation, and trust. Whether your focus is self-care, daily responsibilities, or agreed-upon discipline, the app adapts to your relationship instead of forcing a generic structure. Users can define their role as Dominant, Submissive, or Switch and manage multiple relationships independently. Each relationship has its own rules, limits, and boundaries, ensuring that consent and expectations are always clear. Tasks can be created with schedules and values, generating points or rewards when completed. These points can be exchanged for rewards or used to reduce agreed-upon punishments, creating a balanced and intentional accountability system. Obey also includes private chat for each relationship, with support for photos. Tasks can be validated manually or with a picture, reinforcing responsibility while keeping communication transparent and respectful. A built-in mood check-in helps partners stay emotionally aware and encourages regular reflection, which is especially important in Dominant and Submissive dynamics. Customization is simple and discreet. Users can choose a theme color and enjoy a clean interface designed for privacy. There are no public profiles or social feeds. Everything remains private between partners. Obey is not a game or a role-play simulator. It is a BDSM habit tracker built around consent, structure, and mutual agreement. It is intended for adults who want to bring intention and clarity into their Dominant or Submissive relationships through routines, accountability, and communication. If you are looking for a habit tracker that respects power exchange, limits, and trust, Obey provides the tools to support your dynamic in a thoughtful and responsible way.

About

SitterSheet

Features
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Leave clear instructions, not another long message. SitterSheet turns your family's saved details into a visit-specific handover that your babysitter can read without installing an app. YOUR FAMILY LIBRARY Keep meals, comfort items, routines, bedtime steps, allergy and medication instructions, contact numbers and house notes together. Search the library when you need a detail quickly. A readiness checklist points out missing information; always confirm important instructions with your sitter. PREPARE EACH VISIT Plan the date and return time, add instructions for that visit and reuse your usual plan as a template. Keep a preparation checklist for each visit and see timed routines together. Review family details that changed since the last shared handover. PREVIEW, THEN SHARE Choose the children, contacts and house notes to include. Select a compact or detailed layout, review every page in the PDF preview, then share that same document or print it using the system share menu. Allergy and care instructions stay with each included child. FREE AND PRO Free includes one child profile and the family contact and house-note library. Existing records remain readable and editable. Pro adds more child profiles, PDF preview and export options, visit plans and templates, saved visit checklists, the routine timeline and handover-change comparison. Monthly, yearly and one-time lifetime options unlock the same Pro features. Subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the current period ends. Manage subscriptions in your App Store account settings. Restore Purchases is in Settings. Existing legitimate lifetime purchases remain valid. PRIVATE FAMILY INFORMATION Care instructions, child notes, routines, contact notes and visits stay on this device and are excluded from device backups. Only basic child details, contact details and house notes can sync through your private iCloud. Check local care information on the device used to prepare the PDF and keep an independent copy of essential instructions. No advertising or tracking SDKs. You choose what to share. Support requests send your message, reply details and app/device diagnostics to our support service. SitterSheet organizes family-provided information. It does not provide childcare, medical advice or emergency monitoring. Keep essential instructions available independently and check them with the responsible adults. Support: https://innovalabworks.com/a/sittersheet/support Privacy: https://innovalabworks.com/a/sittersheet/privacy Terms: https://innovalabworks.com/a/sittersheet/terms Apple Standard EULA: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Obey4 screens
SitterSheet4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is iOS requirement: Obey at 13.0 against SitterSheet's 18.0. On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price ยท Rating ยท Positive reviews ยท Number of ratings ยท Update frequency ยท Ads ยท In-app purchases ยท Monetization ยท Best chart rank ยท Devices ยท Requires iOS

CostPrice ยท In-app purchases ยท Ads ยท Monetization

Both are free to download. Obey sells 6 one-off in-app purchases and SitterSheet sells 1 one-off in-app purchase. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Scorecard1 real difference ยท 5 level
Obey versus SitterSheet: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterObeySitterSheet
PriceFreeFree
Update frequencyโ€”Every 2 months
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod โ€” betteriPhone, iPad
Requires iOS13.0 โ€” better18.0
Further details โ€” not scored
Size50 MB4 MB
Age rating17+4+
DeveloperClement BealInnovaLabWorks

In-app purchases

6 purchases

Obey

One-time6
  • 1 Point$2.99
  • 5 Points$9.99
  • 10 Points$17.99
Show 3 more
  • 20 Points$29.99
  • 50 Points$59.99
  • 100 Points$99.99
1 purchases

SitterSheet

One-time1
  • SitterSheet Lifetime$49.99

Questions

Is Obey free?
Obey is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is SitterSheet free?
SitterSheet is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Obey or SitterSheet have ads?
Neither Obey nor SitterSheet shows ads.

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