Comparison

Obey vs FetishForge

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side โ€” with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Obey

Features
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Obey is a habit tracker designed for consensual BDSM relationships, helping Dominant, Submissive, and Switch partners bring structure, accountability, and communication into their dynamic. Obey combines habit tracking with reward and discipline systems, allowing partners to create routines that support growth, motivation, and trust. Whether your focus is self-care, daily responsibilities, or agreed-upon discipline, the app adapts to your relationship instead of forcing a generic structure. Users can define their role as Dominant, Submissive, or Switch and manage multiple relationships independently. Each relationship has its own rules, limits, and boundaries, ensuring that consent and expectations are always clear. Tasks can be created with schedules and values, generating points or rewards when completed. These points can be exchanged for rewards or used to reduce agreed-upon punishments, creating a balanced and intentional accountability system. Obey also includes private chat for each relationship, with support for photos. Tasks can be validated manually or with a picture, reinforcing responsibility while keeping communication transparent and respectful. A built-in mood check-in helps partners stay emotionally aware and encourages regular reflection, which is especially important in Dominant and Submissive dynamics. Customization is simple and discreet. Users can choose a theme color and enjoy a clean interface designed for privacy. There are no public profiles or social feeds. Everything remains private between partners. Obey is not a game or a role-play simulator. It is a BDSM habit tracker built around consent, structure, and mutual agreement. It is intended for adults who want to bring intention and clarity into their Dominant or Submissive relationships through routines, accountability, and communication. If you are looking for a habit tracker that respects power exchange, limits, and trust, Obey provides the tools to support your dynamic in a thoughtful and responsible way.

About

FetishForge

Features
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A private space to understand yourself better, one reflection at a time. FetishForge is a discreet, on-device journal for adults (18+) who want to explore their desires, define personal boundaries, and track their self-discovery journey โ€” without accounts, social feeds, or judgment. Everything you write stays on your device. There are no logins, no cloud sync, no analytics, and no data collection of any kind. What you explore here is yours alone. Guided journaling walks you through curated prompt themes โ€” desire mapping, boundaries, origins, communication, and aftercare โ€” with adjustable depth levels so you can go as deep as feels right. The scenario builder helps you think through ideas with dedicated sections for safety notes and boundaries, encouraging thoughtful, intentional reflection rather than impulsive notes. Build a personal library to organize your interests with definitions, personal notes, and safety considerations, all in one organized, searchable place. An exploration log lets you capture mood before and after, along with satisfaction ratings, so patterns become clear over time. Trends & Insights turns your entries into monthly line charts, flexible range filters, and month-vs-month comparisons โ€” with shareable summaries that carry no app branding, keeping your reflections discreet. Lock the app with an optional 4-digit passcode stored securely in the iOS Keychain, so your journal stays private even if someone picks up your phone. FetishForge is built for calm, honest self-reflection โ€” a tasteful, judgment-free space designed for adults who value privacy above all else. Download FetishForge and start understanding yourself on your own terms. Terms of Use: https://zsfb6kea1shprg8nlgul2-web.rork.live/terms Privacy Policy: https://zsfb6kea1shprg8nlgul2-web.rork.live/privacy

Screenshots

Obey4 screens
FetishForge4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: FetishForge at none against Obey's 6. Obey's advantage is iOS requirement (13.0 vs 18.0). On price, ads and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price ยท Rating ยท Positive reviews ยท Number of ratings ยท Update frequency ยท Ads ยท In-app purchases ยท Monetization ยท Best chart rank ยท Devices ยท Requires iOS

CostPrice ยท In-app purchases ยท Ads ยท Monetization

Both are free to download. Obey sells 6 one-off in-app purchases. FetishForge asks for nothing beyond the download.

Scorecard2 real differences ยท 3 level
Obey versus FetishForge: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterObeyFetishForge
PriceFreeFree
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesNo โ€” better
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod โ€” betteriPhone, iPad
Requires iOS13.0 โ€” better18.0
Further details โ€” not scored
Size50 MB5 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperClement BealSheena Terrell

In-app purchases

6 purchases

Obey

One-time6
  • 1 Point$2.99
  • 5 Points$9.99
  • 10 Points$17.99
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  • 20 Points$29.99
  • 50 Points$59.99
  • 100 Points$99.99
None

FetishForge

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is Obey free?
Obey is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is FetishForge free?
FetishForge is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Do Obey or FetishForge have ads?
Neither Obey nor FetishForge shows ads.

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