Ember vs BedStats

Do you follow the rhythm of your intimacy? Ember Tracker is a personal intimate life tracker for those who value mindfulness, depth, and relationship development — with a partner or with themselves. It's not just a counter. This is your personal proximity card. Inside you will find: > Calendar of events. Add any intimate events, from simple accounting to detailed statistics. > Detailed parameters. You can track: - partners - duration - places - accessories - grades and notes - and much more > Shared access with the partner. Keep a shared calendar and get closer than ever. > Deep statistics. Keep track of the dynamics, favorite scenarios and your preferences. Understand what brings you more pleasure. > Sync with health apps. Cycle monitoring and forecasting in one place. > Solo mode. Explore yourself whether you're paired up or not. > Minimalistic design. Nothing superfluous — just focus on the main thing. Ember Tracker is suitable for: - couples who want to develop a relationship - for those who want to know individual rhythms - for people who value privacy - for those who want to add awareness to their intimate life Your closeness is a part of your life. Start treating her consciously.

BedStats is a private, local-first intimacy journal for adults who want a calm record of their relationship life. Log the moments that matter. Keep track of mood, wellbeing, and connection. Plan ahead. Your story stays on your phone, where it belongs. — LOCAL-FIRST, NO ACCOUNT, NO TRACKING — • Your data lives on your phone, not on our servers • No sign-up, no tracking, no ads • The essentials are free — your app lock, backup, and export are never paywalled • Your story can't silently vanish: back up and export on your terms, anytime • Unlock with Face ID, Touch ID, or your passcode • Switch to a discreet home-screen icon when you want one — LOG WHAT MATTERS — • Solo or partnered entries • Multiple partners per entry, each with their own details • Activities, wellness, and safety notes • Protection preferences and reproductive health tracking • Initiator, place, duration, personal ratings • Mood, feelings, and free-form notes • Photos and short videos, stored locally • Customizable forms: hide fields you never use, rename the ones you do — SEE THE PATTERNS — • Wellbeing entries and optional daily check-ins • Frequency, streaks, and average duration • Per-partner insights and history • Safety coverage at a glance • Monthly calendar heatmap • Charts for protection, solo vs. partnered, and initiator • Wellbeing-vs-activity trendline • Map of entry locations (optional) • Live heart rate captured during a session, with a chart in the editor (optional) • Apple Health sync (optional) • On-device Apple Intelligence summary of recent patterns (optional, iOS 18.1+) — HOME SCREEN, LOCK SCREEN, CONTROL CENTER — • Activity Heatmap widget • Recent Entries widget • Days Since Last Entry counters • Filtered Entries, Metric Counter, and Quick Actions widgets • Control Center widget to start a Quick Entry in one tap • Live Activity and Dynamic Island timer for in-progress entries — ON YOUR WRIST — • Apple Watch app to start and stop a Quick Entry from your wrist • A live timer that keeps running, even when the screen sleeps • Live heart rate, captured during the session • Grant permissions once — no questions to answer every time • Complications to begin logging in one tap — PLAN AHEAD — • Schedule planned entries with reminders • Quick-start timer for live logging, with Live Activity • Notifications only when you ask for them — PARTNERS, YOUR WAY — • Add partners with pronouns, default preferences, and health dates • Works for monogamous, open, poly, or casual setups • Built for every gender, orientation, and relationship style • Hide partner names if you want extra discretion — PRIVACY, SERIOUSLY — BedStats was built around one idea: your personal life is nobody's business but yours. So the app is local-first by default. No account, no cloud, no analytics. Just a quiet, adult journal that stays on your phone. • Biometric lock with Face ID, Touch ID, or device passcode • Alternate discreet app icons • Local backup and export, on your terms • No third-party trackers, ever BedStats is for adults who want a more intentional approach to their relationship life, whether you're tracking solo, as a couple, as a polycule, or you just prefer a thoughtful log over another gamified dashboard. — A SMALL, INDEPENDENT TEAM — Questions, bug reports, ideas? We read every email. BedStats is actively maintained and shaped by the people who use it. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/