SoulTie vs Extra Date Night
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
SoulTie
This app helps couples improve their communication and understanding, especially during disagreements. It offers guided conversations, private mood sharing, and reminders for appreciation to foster emotional safety and connection.
- Guided conversation assistance during disagreements
- Private mood sharing for emotional awareness
- Appreciation and gratitude reminders
- Helps prevent misunderstandings and escalation
- Designed for daily use in real relationships
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SoulTie, Feel understood again. Arguments don’t usually start because two people don’t care. They start because two people are hurting and don’t know how to say it. SoulTie is a relationship communication companion designed to help couples slow down, understand each other, and reconnect, especially during difficult moments. Instead of letting conversations spiral into frustration, SoulTie helps you express what you really mean and understand what your partner is actually feeling. You’re not trying to win an argument. You’re trying to keep the relationship. What SoulTie helps you do: Argument Assist When a disagreement happens, SoulTie acts as a calm mediator between both partners. Our guided conversation assistant helps you phrase your thoughts in a way your partner can receive, and helps you understand their perspective without escalation. It turns reactions into communication. Mood Sharing: Not every feeling needs a full conversation. Throughout the day you can share your emotional state privately and safely. Your partner can understand your mood before speaking, helping you both avoid misunderstandings and bad timing. Sometimes a relationship improves simply because you knew how the other person was feeling. Appreciation & Gratitude Reminders Strong relationships are built on small moments. SoulTie gently reminds you to acknowledge your partner. Not grand gestures. Just consistent care. Because most relationships don’t fail from one big problem. They fade from many small silences. Designed for real relationships SoulTie is not therapy and does not replace professional therapy. It’s a daily communication tool that helps couples feel heard, respected, and emotionally safe when talking to each other. Whether you’re dating, long-distance, living together, or married - SoulTie helps you communicate before frustration turns into distance. You don’t need a perfect relationship. You just need a better conversation. Start reconnecting with SoulTie today. EULA: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula
Extra Date Night
Discover local date ideas, plan them easily, and create lasting memories. This app offers fun decision-making games and gamified progression to keep your relationship exciting. It's designed for couples but also works for solo outings or friend meetups.
- Discover local date ideas
- Decision-making games
- Date planning and reminders
- Memory journal with photos
- Gamified progression (XP, levels, badges)
- Partner account linking
- Offline access
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Date night, upgraded. Extra Date Night helps you find something worth doing, actually plan it, and remember it forever — whether you're keeping a long-term spark alive or planning a first date that doesn't start with "idk, what do you want to do?" DISCOVER IDEAS NEAR YOU Browse thousands of date ideas and local events — concerts, distillery tours, zipline adventures, cozy bookstore hangs, cooking classes, and more. Set your location once and everything stays within driving distance, with real distances on every card and a map with one-tap directions on every idea. Filter by vibe (chill, playful, thrilling) and budget (free to fancy) until something clicks. CAN'T DECIDE? PLAY FOR IT Deciding is the hardest part of date night, so we turned it into a game: • Mystery Date — tap to reveal a surprise pick. No take-backs. • Spin the Wheel — load it with your saved ideas and let fate call it. • Quick Picks — answer three quick questions and get a matched shortlist. PLAN IT IN SECONDS Found the one? Set a date and time, add it to your calendar, and watch the countdown on your home screen. We'll even remind you the evening before and again two hours out — no more "we should totally do that sometime" dates that never happen. Plans change? Move the date in two taps. TURN DATES INTO MEMORIES When a date's done, mark it complete, rate it with hearts, and add photos right from the app. Your Memories tab becomes a photo wall of everything you've done together — the story of your relationship, one date at a time. MAKE IT A JOURNEY Every date you save, plan, complete, and rate earns XP. Level up from First Sparks to relationship royalty, keep your weekly date streak alive, unlock badges, and earn real perks like extra Mystery Date spins. Date night, but make it a game you're winning together. BETTER TOGETHER Link your partner's account and you'll share one space: the ideas you both save, the dates you plan, and the memories you make. Either of you can plan; both of you get the credit. FLYING SOLO? No partner required. Use Extra Date Night to find things to do nearby, plan outings with friends, or line up a great first date. WHY YOU'LL KEEP IT ON YOUR HOME SCREEN • Local recommendations that actually feel local • Three decision games for when "you pick" meets "no, you pick" • Date-night reminders and one-tap calendar sync • A private photo journal of every date, with in-app photo upload • Your saved ideas in one place — and on the Wheel • Streaks, levels, badges, and unlockable perks • Works offline — your ideas and plans are always there • Free to use, with an optional Premium upgrade for unlimited photos and full date guides Life gets busy. Weeks blur together. The couples (and people) who keep having great dates aren't luckier — they just have a system. This is the system, and it happens to be fun. Download Extra Date Night and never waste another "what do you want to do?" night again. PREMIUM SUBSCRIPTION Extra Date Night Premium is an auto-renewable subscription: • Premium Monthly — $9.99 per month • Premium Yearly — $19.99 per year Payment is charged to your Apple Account at confirmation of purchase. The subscription renews automatically unless it is cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Your account is charged for renewal within 24 hours prior to the end of the current period. Manage your subscription or turn off auto-renewal in Settings → Apple Account → Subscriptions. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://www.extradatenight.com/privacy Terms of Service: https://www.extradatenight.com/terms
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Verdict
The clearest difference is rating: Extra Date Night at 5.0 against SoulTie's 4.1. Extra Date Night also leads on update cadence (daily vs every 2 weeks). SoulTie's advantage is ratings volume (11 vs 1) and iOS requirement (13.0 vs 17.0). On price, ads, in-app purchases and monetization model there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. SoulTie sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $7.99 per month and Extra Date Night sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $9.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
Extra Date Night holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 4.1. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: SoulTie has 11 ratings behind it against 1, so its average is the more settled of the two.
SoulTie ships an update every 2 weeks, Extra Date Night daily. Both last shipped on October 31, 2026.
| Parameter | SoulTie | Extra Date Night |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 4.1 (11 ratings) | 5.0 (1 ratings) — better |
| Number of ratings | 11 — better | 1 |
| Update frequency | Every 2 weeks | Daily — better |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | Freemium |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod | iPhone, iPad |
| Requires iOS | 13.0 — better | 17.0 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 57 MB | 4 MB |
| Age rating | 4+ | 12+ |
| Developer | Amirreza KHODDAM | Alexander Plisov |
In-app purchases
SoulTie
- SoulTie Monthly Subscription$7.991 Month
- SoulTie Yearly$24.991 Year
Extra Date Night
- Premium Monthly$9.991 Month
- Premium Yearly$19.991 Year









