Comparison

Don't Send vs Cherish

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Don't Send

Features
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Think twice before you hit send. Don't Send checks your messages before they go out. Paste any text you're about to send and get a risk score that tells you how likely it is to backfire. Whether you're texting an ex, a crush, a partner, or anyone you care about, Don't Send helps you avoid regret. Don't Send is not a substitute for professional counseling or therapy. It is designed as a communication tool to help you think before you send. Get a risk score from 0 to 100, see what's working and what's not in your message, and choose from smarter alternatives you can copy and send instead. Track your patterns over time and watch yourself get better at saying what you actually mean. Features: Risk scoring from 0 to 100 for every message AI suggested rewrites and alternative messages Context aware analysis for ex, crush, partner, situationship and more Communication growth tracking with charts and trends Coach mode for optimizing your replies No raw data stored Don't Send Pro Subscription: Don't Send offers an optional paid subscription, Don't Send Pro, which unlocks unlimited message checks and full access to Coach mode. A 3-day free trial is included with your first subscription. One-Time Deep Report: A single in-depth analysis is also available as a one-time purchase, including a detailed relationship dynamics report and bonus guides. Payment will be charged to your Apple ID account at the end of the free trial period. Subscriptions automatically renew unless canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. You can manage or cancel your subscription in your Apple ID account settings. If you cancel during the free trial, you will not be charged. Privacy Policy: https://www.donotsend.app/privacy Terms of Use: https://www.donotsend.app/terms

About

Cherish

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Cherish is built for exactly two people. Not to manage your relationship. Not to replace the chat app you already use. Not to fill out another journal. It's something you actually do together. Open Cherish, play tonight's round on your own phone, and wait for your partner to finish. Neither of you sees the other's answers until you're both done. Then everything opens at once: your answers, your score, and the conversation that follows. That's the ritual. Everything else grows from it. TONIGHT'S PICK Every evening starts with one featured round. Some make you choose a side. Some ask who is more likely. Some push you to answer before time runs out. And Trivia asks something different: Can you think like your partner? Answer for yourself, predict what they'll choose, then discover who knows the other best. THE REVEAL The best part isn't answering. It's seeing where you matched. Where you completely missed. Where one answer starts a conversation that lasts longer than the game itself. Every completed round keeps its own recap, score, and private conversation, so every game becomes another chapter in your story together. MEMORIES THAT STAY Games create moments. Cherish helps you keep them. Save photos, little stories, and the days that matter most in your shared Journey. Birthdays, anniversaries, weekend trips, and everyday memories all become part of one timeline that grows with you. LEAVE LITTLE SURPRISES Draw something. A quick sketch. A terrible doodle. A tiny love note. Share it with your partner, and either of you can pin it to your Home Screen with the Cherish widget. More Cherish widgets keep you close all day: days together, your next countdown, the distance between you, and a one-tap Buzz. Sometimes the smallest surprise is the one they'll remember most. KEEP YOUR STREAK GOING A day counts when you both open Cherish, on your own local time. Thinking of them? Tap Buzz and their phone gives a little buzz. No words needed. MAKE CHERISH YOURS Choose from three handcrafted themes: Rose, Lavender and Golden Hour, each in light and dark. Every part of Cherish follows the atmosphere you choose. FREE FEATURES • Pair with your partner • Free quiz collection, including Couple Trivia • Shared Debrief conversations • Your Journey timeline with birthday and anniversary countdowns • Your first memory and big day, added during setup • Drawing canvas • Three themes, each in light and dark • Couple streak and Buzz • Optimized for iPhone Duo, with two screens side by side CHERISH PREMIUM • The complete quiz collection and premium game packs, including every Tonight's Pick • Save new memories to your Journey • Add new big days with countdowns and reminders • Doodle saving and sharing • Home Screen widgets: Counters, Countdown, Distance, Buzz and Doodle • One free streak repair every month A SMALL RITUAL FOR TWO The best relationships aren't built by grand gestures every day. They're built by little moments shared again and again. Cherish gives you one simple reason to spend a few minutes together tonight, and another memory to keep tomorrow. Cherish Premium is an auto-renewing subscription, offered as a weekly or a yearly plan. Eligible new subscribers get a 3-day free trial on the yearly plan, then the yearly price shown in the app. Payment is charged to your Apple ID at confirmation of purchase, or when the free trial ends. Subscriptions renew automatically unless canceled at least 24 hours before the current period ends. You can manage or cancel your subscription anytime in your Apple Account Settings. Terms of Use: https://btapps.netlify.app/lovz/terms-of-use Privacy Policy: https://btapps.netlify.app/lovz/privacy-policy

Screenshots

Don't Send4 screens
Cherish4 screens

Verdict

The call

Don't Send and Cherish are too close to call on the numbers: across 6 compared parameters — price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases among them — neither pulls far enough ahead to decide it. What separates them is feature set and interface, not measurable difference.

Scored on Price Ā· Rating Ā· Positive reviews Ā· Number of ratings Ā· Update frequency Ā· Ads Ā· In-app purchases Ā· Monetization Ā· Best chart rank Ā· Devices Ā· Requires iOS

CostPrice Ā· In-app purchases Ā· Ads Ā· Monetization

Both are free to download. Don't Send sells 3 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month and Cherish sells 8 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per 7 days. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Don't Send ships an update every 2 weeks, Cherish weekly. The most recent releases landed on October 31, 2026 and November 5, 2026 respectively.

ScorecardNo meaningful differences
Don't Send versus Cherish: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterDon't SendCherish
PriceFreeFree
Update frequencyEvery 2 weeksWeekly — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
DevicesiPhoneiPhone
Requires iOS17.616.4 — better
Further details — not scored
Size13 MB102 MB
Age rating4+12+
DeveloperInsight Mind AI LLCBetul TOSUN

In-app purchases

3 purchases

Don't Send

Subscriptions2
  • Pro Monthly3 Days trial$4.991 Month
  • Pro Yearly3 Days trial$34.991 Year
One-time1
  • Deep Analysis Report$1.49
8 purchases

Cherish

Subscriptions7
  • Cherish Premium Weekly$4.997 Days
  • Premium Lovers3 Days trial$4.997 Days
  • Cherish Premium Weekly3 Days trial$5.997 Days
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  • Cherish Premium Monthly$12.991 Month
  • Cherish Premium Annual$19.991 Year
  • Cherish Premium Yearly$39.991 Year
  • Cherish Premium Yearly3 Days trial$39.991 Year
One-time1
  • Streak Repair$0.99

Questions

Is Don't Send free?
Don't Send is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Cherish free?
Cherish is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Don't Send or Cherish have ads?
Neither Don't Send nor Cherish shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Don't Send or Cherish?
Don't Send ships an update every 2 weeks, and Cherish weekly. Most recently, Don't Send was updated on October 31, 2026 and Cherish on November 5, 2026.

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