Refairly vs Relationship Help
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
Refairly
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refairly is a private app for two people who are actually together. There is no free version and no solo mode. You bring your partner, or the app does nothing. ONE SHARED PROFILE, FIVE PLACES TO USE IT Today — a daily heartbeat for the two of you One short, personal question a day, and a one-tap Partner Pulse: you both know how the other is doing without needing words. Whatever the day leaves behind collects in a single thread. Us — a shared map of who you are You each answer privately about values, hopes and friction. refairly brings both into one map: where you align, where you differ, and what to grow toward. Periodic prompts keep it current instead of letting it go stale. Ideas — for when neither of you can decide Quick, low-cost things to do together, drawn from both your tastes. Or a full plan — a dinner, a day out, a weekend away — built end to end, with a chat alongside to refine it together. Kitchen — where things get worked out Mutfak is the Turkish word for kitchen: the room where couples actually talk. Not the living room kept for guests. Two ways to use it. Kitchen Chat, when something small is bothering you. One of you pulls up a chair, and refairly holds space and gently surfaces what is really being said. Kitchen Table, when something bigger needs both of you: 1. One of you brings it to the table. The other is invited in. 2. You each speak privately first. Your raw words are never shown to your partner. 3. refairly drafts a neutral summary of each side. You approve yours before the other person sees it. 4. You weigh options together and agree on one small step. 5. You check in a week or two later to see whether it held. Either of you can ask to close things, and the other confirms. Nothing stays open forever, and nothing quietly disappears. Buzz — reach each other without words Send a Buzz: a wordless vibration you draw and they feel. Or open a Buzz Call — a live, two-way vibration you both shape in real time. For the moments when a message is not enough and words are not needed. PRIVACY What you write privately stays private. At the Kitchen Table your raw words are never shown to your partner — only the neutral summary you approve first. Everything is encrypted in transit. You can report any message, and crisis resources are one tap away from every conversation. You can delete your account and all of your data at any time. WHAT REFAIRLY IS NOT refairly is not therapy, counselling, or medical advice. It is a structured place to talk. If you are in crisis, the app will point you to real help. SUBSCRIPTION refairly requires a subscription, and one subscription covers both partners. Payment is charged to your Apple ID account at confirmation of purchase. The subscription renews automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period; your account is charged for renewal within 24 hours prior to the end of the current period. You can manage your subscription and turn off auto-renewal in your App Store account settings after purchase. Privacy policy: https://refairly.app/en/privacy/ Terms of service: https://refairly.app/en/terms/
Relationship Help
This AI-powered coach helps couples communicate more effectively by privately analyzing each partner's messages. It identifies underlying issues and reframes hurtful statements into constructive feedback, fostering understanding and resolving recurring arguments without direct message sharing.
- Private AI-driven communication analysis
- Reframes hurtful messages constructively
- Identifies underlying relationship issues
- Facilitates understanding between partners
- Available 24/7 without appointments
- Protects user privacy by not sharing messages
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A paid, auto-renewing Mediator Pro subscription (monthly or yearly) is required for AI conversations and all in-app relationship guidance. Downloading the app and pairing with your partner are free. You keep having the same argument. You say your side. They say theirs. Nobody feels heard. It keeps happening because arguments have a pattern: you say something hurtful, they get defensive, they say something hurtful, you get defensive. Repeat. Not because you don't care, but because you care too much to feel safe being vulnerable. What if someone could hear both of you? Mediator is an AI couples therapist that talks to each partner privately. You each message the same mediator from your own phone. It reads both perspectives, finds the real issue underneath the frustration, and helps each person say what they actually mean, reframed so the other person can hear it. Same feeling. No accusation. Now they can actually hear it. YOUR HONESTY IS PROTECTED You never see their messages. They never see yours. That privacy lets you say what you actually mean without worrying about how it lands. The mediator translates it so they can hear it. ALWAYS THERE WHEN YOU NEED IT No appointments. No waiting rooms. No $200/hour. When things get hard, open the app. Your mediator is ready. GREAT FOR - The same argument you keep having - Repair after a fight - Resentment, hurt, or miscommunication - Relationship check-ins before things get worse - Preparing for a hard in-person conversation Mediator is a relationship communication tool, not a replacement for a licensed therapist, crisis services, or emergency support. It does not provide medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions about your mental health. EULA: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
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Verdict
The clearest difference is in-app purchases: Relationship Help at none against Refairly's 6. Refairly's advantage is iOS requirement (15.1 vs 26.0). On price, ads and device support there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Refairly sells 6 in-app purchases, starting at $0.99 per 7 days. Relationship Help asks for nothing beyond the download.
| Parameter | Refairly | Relationship Help |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | — | 5.0 (1 ratings) — better |
| Number of ratings | — | 1 — better |
| Update frequency | — | Every 6 days |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | No — better |
| Monetization | — | Free |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod | iPhone, iPad |
| Requires iOS | 15.1 — better | 26.0 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 48 MB | 18 MB |
| Age rating | 4+ | 4+ |
| Developer | Ali Onur Can IREY | Alejandro Pacheco |
In-app purchases
Refairly
- Weekly$0.997 Days
- Pro$12.991 Month
- Max$24.991 Month
- Capacity Boost$2.99
- +1 Case$4.99
- +3 Cases$12.99
Relationship Help
No in-app purchases









