Comparison

Wingmate vs Datey

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Wingmate

This app helps users track their social interactions, providing data-driven insights and AI-powered coaching to improve their approach skills. It offers practical lessons and a community for users to learn and compete.

Highlights
  • Log every approach with details
  • Visualize approach data over time
  • AI-powered coaching for in-the-moment help
  • Daily check-ins and streak building
  • Practical lessons on interaction fundamentals
  • Leaderboard and community comparison
Features
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Wingmate is the cold approach app for guys who are done overthinking and ready to actually go talk to her. Track every approach, get coached in the moment, and watch yourself get better. LOG EVERY APPROACH Add the people you approach and record what really happened — did you get her number or Instagram, how the approach went, did she flake or ghost, and how far it went. Add a photo, her nationality, and notes so you never blank on a name. SEE YOUR REAL NUMBERS Your approaches plotted over time like a stock chart. Filter the data and spot your patterns — contact rate, flake rate, where you convert and where you stall. Then let the built-in AI read your stats and tell you the one thing to work on next. YOUR AI WINGMAN, 24/7 Stuck on an opener? Got shut down and need to reset? Chat with the Wingmate coach for tactical, in-the-moment help — openers, what to text back, handling tough replies, and escalating without being weird. BUILD THE STREAK Daily check-ins and reminders keep you in the field. One conversation a day is the whole assignment — and the streak makes sure you don't skip it. LEARN THE CRAFT Short, practical lessons on the fundamentals: openers, reading her signals, push-pull, body language, and closing. COMPARE AND COMPETE See where you rank on the leaderboard and trade field reports with other guys chasing the same goal. Approaching is a skill. Wingmate makes it measurable — so every hello gets you closer.

About

Datey

This app helps you privately track your dating life, remembering details about people, dates, and patterns. It offers insights into your dating habits with charts and maps, all while prioritizing your privacy with on-device storage.

Highlights
  • Track potential, exploring, dated, and relationship statuses
  • Rich profiles with photos, meeting details, and notes
  • Log date activities, ratings, and create recap cards
  • Calendar integration for planned dates
  • Visualize dating patterns with charts and stats
  • World map with dating history and country stamps
  • On-device storage and optional Face ID/iCloud sync
Features
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Datey is a relationship tracker and journal for couples and singles. Count your days together, save shared memories and make plans as a couple. Use Single mode to keep track of your dates, the people you’re seeing and how you felt. COUPLE MODE • Track your days together from your relationship start date, and keep anniversaries and special days in view. • Link with your partner to build a shared collection of memories and photos from your time together. • Plan your next date and make a bucket list of places to go and things to do together. • Keep your trips and places visited together in one place, so you can look back on where you’ve been. • Answer questions, guess your partner’s answers and compare your responses. • Add widgets for your days together, upcoming plans and special days, so you can check them at a glance. SINGLE MODE • Create profiles for the people you date and keep notes and photos organized by person. • Record each date with its place, your feelings and what you spent, then revisit the details later. • Plan upcoming dates and add them to your calendar to keep track of what’s next. • Review your dating history with stats about the people you’ve met, places you’ve been and spending. • Create shareable recaps to look back on your dating experiences. PRIVACY Use an optional app lock and a private photo vault. Optional iCloud sync connects your own devices; linking with a partner requires iCloud. DATEY PRO Datey requires a monthly or yearly subscription, or a one-time Lifetime purchase. An invited partner can use Couple mode without a separate purchase while shared access is active. Payment is charged to your Apple Account at purchase confirmation. Subscriptions renew automatically unless canceled at least 24 hours before the current period ends. Manage or cancel in your Apple Account settings. Terms of Use: https://dateyapp.co/terms/ Privacy Policy: https://dateyapp.co/privacy/

Screenshots

Wingmate4 screens
Datey4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is rating: Datey at 5.0 against Wingmate's 1.8. Datey also leads on update cadence (daily vs weekly). Wingmate's advantage is iOS requirement (15.0 vs 18.0). On price, ratings volume, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Wingmate sells 5 in-app purchases, starting at $9.99 per month and Datey sells 4 in-app purchases, starting at $12.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

Datey holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 1.8. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 5 and 2 respectively.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Wingmate ships an update weekly, Datey daily. Both last shipped on October 24, 2026.

Scorecard3 real differences · 7 level
Wingmate versus Datey: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterWingmateDatey
PriceFreeFree
Rating1.8 (5 ratings)5.0 (2 ratings) — better
Positive reviews—100.0% of reviews
Number of ratings5 — better2
Update frequencyWeeklyDaily — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFreemiumFree with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPhone, iPad
Requires iOS15.0 — better18.0
Further details — not scored
Size17 MB834 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperKeugene LeeTortuga Global Tech LLC

Customer experience

Wingmate

All ratings4 ratings
Positive25.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative75.0%

Datey

All ratings2 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%
Written reviews2 reviews
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

In-app purchases

5 purchases

Wingmate

Subscriptions2
  • Wingmate Pro Monthly$9.991 Month
  • Wingmate Pro Yearly3 Days trial$29.991 Year
One-time3
  • 250 messages$4.99
  • 600 messages$9.99
  • 1500 messages$19.99
4 purchases

Datey

Subscriptions3
  • Monthly7 Days trial$12.991 Month
  • Datey Pro Yearly14 Days trial$29.991 Year
  • Yearly14 Days trial$39.991 Year
One-time1
  • Lifetime$129.99

Questions

Is Wingmate free?
Wingmate is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Datey free?
Datey is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, Wingmate or Datey?
Datey is rated higher. Wingmate averages 1.8 out of 5 from 5 ratings, while Datey averages 5.0 from 2 ratings.
Do Wingmate or Datey have ads?
Neither Wingmate nor Datey shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Wingmate or Datey?
Wingmate ships an update weekly, and Datey daily. Most recently, Wingmate was updated on October 24, 2026 and Datey on October 24, 2026.

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