Tandem vs FairShare

Tandem is the easiest way for couples to stay in sync. • Shared calendar — see each other's events at a glance, never double-book • Smart todos — split chores, errands, and errands fairly so nothing falls through • Live shopping list — both of you add items, the cart stays fresh in real time • Priority pings — gentle, reliable nudges when something needs attention • Built for two — share one calendar with your partner with a single invite code Subscribe to Tandem Pro to unlock unlimited shared events, todos, and shopping lists. Choose weekly with a 3-day free trial or save with the yearly plan. Subscriptions auto-renew until cancelled. Cancel anytime in your Apple ID settings.

FairShare — the mental load OS for couples. Not a chore chart, not a bill splitter. You're not crazy. You're carrying a lot. FairShare helps you split the invisible work, so your partner owns whole areas of household life — not just "helps" when asked. Inspired by Eve Rodsky's Fair Play method, FairShare replaces chore charts with over 100 cards. Each card is full ownership: Conceive, Plan, Execute. No more delegating. No more reminding. No more mental load running your life. WHY FAIRSHARE IS DIFFERENT • Card-based, not task-based — own the whole domain, not one-off tasks • AI Brain Dump — say what's on your mind; we turn it into cards • Noticing Score — the only app that measures who notices what needs doing, not just who does it • Visualizer heat map — see the invisible load made visible • A shared docket — recurring cards come back when they're actually due, instead of quietly settling forever • Built for every household — two-parent, same-sex, single, blended, roommates • Weekly check-ins — renegotiate with kindness, not blow-ups • Minimum Standard of Care — no more "but you didn't tell me how" KEY FEATURES AI mental load interceptor Speak or type what's running through your head. The AI turns it into clean cards across Home, Kids, Out, Wild, and Unicorn — and suggests who should own each one. 100+ card deck Every domain covered. Filtered to your household shape during onboarding, so you only see what's relevant to your life. Invisible load visualizer Dashboard heat map of who holds what. Track imbalance and watch it shift over time. Noticing Score The signature number: how much of the household's noticing — the invisible "I'll remember it" work — lands on you. Tap a card to rebalance, then share your Report Card to start the conversation. Weekly Re-deal About 15 minutes a week. Structured, calm prompts to renegotiate cards and update Minimum Standards of Care without the resentment loop. Renegotiation Coach One card not working? Say what's off in your own words. You get a no-blame reframe, three concrete ways to re-deal it, and one question to ask each other out loud. The Unicorn card Your hobbies, friendships, dreams. Protect your own bandwidth — it's a card too. Built for all households Two-parent, same-sex, single-parent + co-parent, blended, roommates, solo, multigenerational. Calendar sync (FairShare+) Two-way iOS Calendar, MSC reminders, fewer dropped balls. Facilitator mode (FairShare+) Invite a certified Fair Play coach for a session with read-only board access. SUBSCRIPTION FairShare Free — up to 20 cards, 5 Brain Dumps per month, one weekly check-in, basic visualizer. FairShare+ unlocks unlimited cards, unlimited AI Brain Dumps, full visualizer, MSC library, calendar sync, partner-share mode, facilitator invite, and priority support. 7-day free trial. One subscription covers your whole household. Pricing shown in app. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in Settings. PRIVACY & CARE Your data is yours. Encrypted at rest. We don't sell your data or train AI models on your conversations. GDPR- and CCPA-aligned. Export or delete your data anytime. ABOUT CULI FairShare is made by culi — a small studio building apps that make midlife lighter. culi.app Questions: help@culi.app Privacy Policy: https://tryfairshare.app/privacy-policy/ Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Welcome to a lighter load.