Agapi vs Softly

Agapi is a warm app for couples who want to keep noticing each other. Every day brings one discovery question for the two of you. You each answer on your own, guess how the other answered, then reveal together. Small daily rituals that add up to a richer picture of the two of you over time. WHAT'S INSIDE - Today's discovery: one question a day. Answer apart, guess each other, reveal together. - Today's read: a short daily read written for the two of you, drawn from how your days have actually gone. - Couples quizzes: love languages, attachment style, MBTI, Enneagram, Big Five. Each builds a shared report showing where you meet and where you stretch. - Thumb kiss: touch the screen at the same moment from anywhere and feel each other through your phones. - A shared streak for every day you both show up. - Home Screen and Lock Screen widgets that count your days together. - Important dates and countdowns: anniversaries, birthdays, trips, the next time you see each other. - Shared lists for movies to watch, places to go and things to try together. - Pokes: a kiss, a hug, a "thinking of you." - Love notes for the things a text can't hold. - Optional cycle sharing: period, ovulation and gentle reminders, shared privately between partners. Fully opt-in. ONE SUBSCRIPTION, TWO PEOPLE One partner subscribes and both of you get Premium. No ads. No feed. No followers. Just a quiet space that belongs to you two. EARN UP TO A YEAR FREE Do things together, like pairing up, taking quizzes and keeping your streak, and earn up to a year of Premium for free. PREMIUM INCLUDES - Today's discovery, every day - Full reads for every quiz and every part of your relationship FREE INCLUDES - Today's read for both of you - Thumb kiss, pokes and love notes - Shared lists, important dates and widgets - Your shared streak - Cycle sharing WHAT AGAPI MEANS Agapi is Greek for unconditional love, the deep and steady kind. We built this for the long middle of a relationship: after the infatuation, into the real work, through the parts that don't fit in a highlight reel. PRIVACY Your space is shared only between you and your partner. No social graph. No public profiles. No sharing with anyone outside the two of you. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the current period ends. Manage or cancel any time from Apple ID, Subscriptions. Terms of Use: https://getagapi.com/terms Privacy Policy: https://getagapi.com/privacy

79% of couples fight over text. It's called fexting — and it makes everything worse. You type something hurtful at 11 pm. You hit send. You spend the next two hours escalating. By morning, a small misunderstanding has become a full-blown fight. Softly stops that cycle — right inside your keyboard. HOW IT WORKS Softly is a keyboard for iPhone that works in every messaging app. Type what you feel. Tap "Soften." See a kinder version that says the same thing without the blame. • Works in iMessage, WhatsApp, Telegram, Instagram DMs, Slack, Email — everywhere you type • One tap to soften — no copy-pasting, no switching apps, no awkward AI workarounds • Your feelings stay. The blame disappears. • Based on Nonviolent Communication (NVC) — the same framework therapists use WHAT MAKES SOFTLY DIFFERENT Unlike couples apps that require both partners to sign up, Softly works for you alone. It's your personal communication tool — like Grammarly for your relationship. No shared accounts. No partner onboarding. No one needs to know you use it. WHO IT'S FOR • You've been in therapy and know "I feel" statements work — but can't access them at midnight when you're exhausted • You've caught yourself using AI to rewrite messages — but it's awkward, and your partner might find out • You fight over text 3-5 times a month and regret what you send minutes after • You're in a long-distance relationship where 90% of conflict happens in chat BUILT ON SCIENCE Softly uses principles from Nonviolent Communication (Marshall Rosenberg) and research by the Gottman Institute. Studies show text-based conflicts resolve only 35% of the time vs 85% face-to-face. When you can't talk in person, Softly bridges the gap. PRICING Free: 5 message transformations per day. Softly Premium: $9.99/month or $59.99/year — unlimited transformations, full history, priority speed Your words shape your relationship. Make them count. Privacy Policy: https://softly.pulsecircle.studio/privacy Terms of Use: https://softly.pulsecircle.studio/terms