Agapi vs Softly

Agapi is a warm app for couples who want to keep noticing each other. Every day brings one shared prompt. You both answer before seeing each other's, small rituals that add up to a richer picture of the two of you over time. WHAT'S INSIDE - Daily shared prompt. Answer separately, then read each other's. No skipping ahead. - Couples quizzes: attachment style, love languages, MBTI, enneagram, big five. Each renders a shared report showing where you meet and where you'll stretch. - Important dates on a warm home screen: anniversaries, birthdays, trips, the stuff you never want to forget. - Shared lists for movies to watch, activities to try, things you want to buy together. - Pokes: a kiss, a hug, a "thinking of you." Tiny gestures that land where a text wouldn't. - A private note wall for love letters, inside jokes, and the things that don't fit anywhere else. - Optional cycle sharing: period, ovulation, and reminders synced privately between partners. Fully opt-in. ONE SUBSCRIPTION, TWO PEOPLE One partner subscribes. Both of you unlock every quiz, every report, and every premium ritual. No ads. No algorithm feed. No followers. Just a quiet space that belongs to you two. WHAT AGAPI MEANS Agapi is Greek for unconditional love, the deep and steady kind. We built this for the long middle of a relationship: after the infatuation, into the real work, through the parts that don't fit in a highlight reel. PREMIUM INCLUDES - Every couples quiz with shared partner reports - Attachment, MBTI, enneagram, love languages, big five - Unlimited report refreshes as you grow - Priority access to new rituals FREE INCLUDES - Daily prompt for both of you - Shared lists, important dates, notes - Unlimited pokes - One attachment preview PRIVACY Your space is shared only between you and your partner. No social graph. No public profiles. No sharing with anyone outside the two of you. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the current period ends. Manage or cancel any time from Apple ID, Subscriptions. Terms of Use: https://getagapi.com/terms Privacy Policy: https://getagapi.com/privacy

79% of couples fight over text. It's called fexting — and it makes everything worse. You type something hurtful at 11 pm. You hit send. You spend the next two hours escalating. By morning, a small misunderstanding has become a full-blown fight. Softly stops that cycle — right inside your keyboard. HOW IT WORKS Softly is a keyboard for iPhone that works in every messaging app. Type what you feel. Tap "Soften." See a kinder version that says the same thing without the blame. • Works in iMessage, WhatsApp, Telegram, Instagram DMs, Slack, Email — everywhere you type • One tap to soften — no copy-pasting, no switching apps, no awkward AI workarounds • Your feelings stay. The blame disappears. • Based on Nonviolent Communication (NVC) — the same framework therapists use WHAT MAKES SOFTLY DIFFERENT Unlike couples apps that require both partners to sign up, Softly works for you alone. It's your personal communication tool — like Grammarly for your relationship. No shared accounts. No partner onboarding. No one needs to know you use it. WHO IT'S FOR • You've been in therapy and know "I feel" statements work — but can't access them at midnight when you're exhausted • You've caught yourself using AI to rewrite messages — but it's awkward, and your partner might find out • You fight over text 3-5 times a month and regret what you send minutes after • You're in a long-distance relationship where 90% of conflict happens in chat BUILT ON SCIENCE Softly uses principles from Nonviolent Communication (Marshall Rosenberg) and research by the Gottman Institute. Studies show text-based conflicts resolve only 35% of the time vs 85% face-to-face. When you can't talk in person, Softly bridges the gap. PRICING Free: 5 message transformations per day. Softly Premium: $9.99/month or $59.99/year — unlimited transformations, full history, priority speed Your words shape your relationship. Make them count. Privacy Policy: https://softly.pulsecircle.studio/privacy Terms of Use: https://softly.pulsecircle.studio/terms